Xa uthanda umntu ngentliziyo ephantsi, kufuneka wazi izinto ezimbalwa. Kwaye kunqweneleka ukuba sikulungele kwangaphambili. Sichaza abo babonakaliswa ngabantu abanemilinganiselo yokuzithemba ephantsi, enokuba luvavanyo lwenene kumfazi olapha ecaleni kwakhe.
Ingqalelo kunye nokudunyiswa
Unokukhulisa ecaleni. Ngale ndlela ke sandisa ukuzithemba kwabo. Kwaye inokubonakalaliswa ngokwakho kokubini ngokungakhathali kunye nokuzonwabisa okungakumbi. Unokufuna abantu bamxelele ukuba ulunge, mhle, smart, kuba uyaphambana malunga nengqwalaselo ukusuka kwelinye icala. Kodwa hayi kweyakho. Ingqwalaselo yakho kwaye umdumise ungaze uyingqinise. Nokuba unjani, i-euphoria iya kuba kuwe, kwaye iya kufunwa kobungqina. Kufanele ukuba lolona luvo malunga nenxalenye yokuba umxelela oko kuba abanye bamjonga ukuba upholile, ke uyakunjalo.Uyolo lweentlungu zakho
Indoda enethemba eliphantsi linokuthanda ukwenzakalisa kunye nokubandezeleka. Unokuthanda ukuhambisa izibonelelo zakho. Ubona indlela iqabane lakhe elidlula ngayo ngokudla kwakhe ngenxa yokubandezeleka kunye nokuthobeka okubangelayo, kwaye ngokungathi kuyakufanelekela ukubandezeleka ngenxa yakhe. Uzama ukukuthoba kwinqanaba elivakalayo ngalo. Ubona ngaphezu kwakhe, kwaye uya kuhlala ebona ukuba akakwazi ukujamelana nokuzithemba kwakhe. Ke ngoko, ukuhlazeka kwakhe akunakuyeka.
Inkxalabo kunye nomnqweno wokubonisa into emhlabeni
Uhlala efuna ukwenza into okanye atshintshe into, kodwa kuphela ukubonisa ukuba iyakwazi. Unqwenela ukwenza olo thando nalowo ummele kunye nabanye ukuba ungumntu oxabisekileyo. Kodwa le yinkuthazo engachanekanga enokukhokelela ekungaphumeleli nakwizityhakala ezinkulu ezinyanisekileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ubeka ixabiso labo, kwaye umphumo uya kuba luphawu ngaye, liseli okanye hayi.
Umona
Unomona onothuli, osifihlayo ukuba uliloyiko, kwimeko yakho, unokumtyhalela ukuba krwada. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, oku kukuzikhusela, oko akunakulawula.Akukho Bomi ngoku
Amadoda amaninzi anokuzithemba okuphantsi ebomini. Iinkumbulo eziphilayo zezo mpumelelo zibe nazo. Phila nokubandezeleka ngenxa yezinto ezinokwenzeka. Banokuziva ukuphoxeka kosapho kunye nokuzithiya ngenxa yoku, ngakumbi ngamandla ngakumbi. Nokuba kusenokubakho imeko engapheliyo. Indoda inokuphila kuphela ngekamva. Iya kuntywiliselwa kwi-fantasy kwaye inqwenele ixesha elimnandi lokukhululeka. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, uya kuhlala ehamba noloyiko malunga nabo namhlanje.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyakuthanda. Kodwa akazithandi. Kwaye ivula iminyango kwimbombo ezimnyama zomphefumlo wakhe, ukubandezeleka okukhulu kunye ne-neurosis. Zama ukuthetha nendoda yakho. Ndixelele ukuba uyayithanda. Ndixelele ukuba ungumntu oxabisekileyo nonobuchule. Zama ukunxibelelana nengcali. Iyimfuneko kuba ihluphekile kuphela, kodwa wena unjalo. Kodwa ukuba uyala ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe kwaye ayokuhlangana nawe, emva koko kuya kubakho imizamo yakho.
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