Kukuzi ngcono njani wena kunye nendawo yakho?

Ungazi njani ngcono wena kunye nendawo yakho? Ifoto: I-Depositphotos.

Ukutshutshiswa-ngumnini wehlabathi. Unokwazi kuphela kuphela, ukuqonda nokuzihlonela. Ngaphandle kwale nto, umntu akakwazi ukufezekisa imeko yangaphakathi ngokuvisisanayo, ifunekayo ukuze kusekwe ukuqonda kunye nemeko yangaphandle.

Iingcali zengqondo zaqaphela izibakala ezingama-20 ezinomdla ezisinceda ukuba siziqonde kwaye kwihlabathi elijikeleze:

1. Olona phawu lunamandla kwaye luthembekile luhlobo, oluthe luphawu oluneminyaka eli-16 ukuya kwengama-28.
2. Abameli besini esifanelekileyo bajonga amadoda anomdla ngakumbi anelizwi elihle lelizwi eliphantsi, enkosi apho bavelisa ukuba babonakalise umbono wokuthenjwa, ozolileyo nabantu abangabanini.
3. Njengommiselo, iingcebiso ezilungileyo zinikezelwa ngabantu abaye bafumana iimeko ezininzi zobomi ezintsonkothileyo.
4. Abantu bahlulwe ngobukrelekrele obuphezulu banobhala ngesandla.
5. Ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nophawu lwabanyuliweyo, kwimihla yokuqala ekufanele ukuba inikele ingqalelo kwindlela anxibelelana ngayo nabasebenzi benkonzo (abalindi, abaqhubi beeteksi, abathengisi).
6. E-Naur, amandla okuqaphela imeko yeemvakalelo zabo bengqongwe yimvakalelo yesazela.
7. Amadoda athambekele ekuhlekiseni kunabafazi. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye banokuba lula kunabafazi, bacinge malunga nembono yabadlulizelayo esenza ukuba babe nengqondo.
8. Abantu abaneentloni bathandana bancinci ukuba bathethe ngesiqu ngokwabo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye bayayazi indlela yokwenza ukuba abanye babebonakala ngathi bayazi ukuba bayazazi ubomi babo bonke.

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1. Abameli bomgangatho omuhle, umda wentlungu yokuphathwa kweentlungu buphezulu njengabameli besini esomeleleyo.
2. Umculo, uvakalise ii-fristis ephezulu, inceda ukuphumla, yizolile kwaye uphucule imo yemozulu.
3. Ukuthintela imikhwa ukuze ucinge kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba ulale, okuthintela ukulala, ngokutsho kwezengqondo, kufanelekile ukufumana umkhwa wokugcina idayari. Ukukhumbula iingcinga zakho ephepheni, umntu uya kuqalisa ukubambelela kwiLizwe leDrowsy.
4. Imiyalezo eneminqweno enjalo "kusasa" kunye "nobusuku obuhle" zinceda ukuvula icandelo lengqondo, elinoxanduva lokuziva ulonwabo.
5. Ukoyisa uloyiko lwabo, abantu bonwabile ngakumbi.
6. Abasetyhini bathanda ukugcina iimfihlo kumndilili malunga neeyure ezingama-47.
7. Ukubamba isandla somntu esimthandayo, abantu ababanga ngqiqweni ukuba babandezelekile kwintlungu yokomoya kwaye banexhala.
8. Into umntu enobuchule, incinci encinci isangqa sabahlobo bakhe.
9. Imitshato igqityiwe phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini eluthandweni, enolomntu ngamnye abangabahlobo abalungileyo, bomelele kakhulu. Umngcipheko woqhawulo-mtshato kwimitshato enjalo incitshisiwe ngama-70%.
10. Isizungu somzimba siyayingozi njengokutshaya.
11. Iindlela zokuhamba zinefuthe eliluncedo kwimpilo, enkosi kubo umngcipheko wezifo zentliziyo kunye nophuhliso loxinzelelo luyancipha.
12. Abantu benzelwe ukuba baguqulwe ngaphandle ngexesha xa bethetha ngenzondelelo ngezinto ezinomdla kubo.

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I-Psychologlogy yisayensi ecocekileyo enceda abantu bazi ngcono kunye nendawo abahlala kuyo. Zininzi izibakala ezibangela umdla ngokwengqondo eziluncedo ekufundeni. Oku kungasentla zenye yezona zinomdla.

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