Abamelwane kweli lizwe, emnyango wesango nakwindawo, ummelwane kwi-Couppe, esitratweni ... abamelwane ... bakufuphi. Siphila naba bantu, ungquzulwano neyam, siphikisana ngento encinci, sincedane, sigawule. Kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo, yonke into iqhelekile.
Abahlobo kunye nabantwana bethu bahamba kunye emlanjeni, bakhwela iibhayisikile, badlale umdlalo omnye kwi-Intanethi, ngamanye amaxesha xerreals, ngamanye amaxesha uyawa eluthandweni kwaye utshatile. Ke abamelwane babukele. Okubangela umdla kukuba, kwelinye lamazwe aseYurophu kukho iholide "yoSuku lwabamelwane". Ndicinga ukuba oku kulungile, mabayeke kwitafile eqhelekileyo, baya kuthetha ngezihloko eziqhelekileyo, basele iglasi ye wayini, cula ingoma yomphefumlo.
Kodwa ebomini kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo. Singakhutyekiswa ngummelwane ngokuqhawukayo phakathi kweeplothi okanye zityalwe ngokusondeleyo i-shrub, ikhalazela ukuba ummelwane ngokuhlwa okanye ukuphulaphula umculo ophula umthetho. Ummelwane waphula uxolo okanye wabeka imoto kufutshane nendawo yokungena. Ukhunjulwa?
Sasinetyala. Soze sivale umnyango eflethini. Cula, ekuseni nam kunye neqabane lakho kwigumbi lokulala kuya kuba ngummelwane: "Ngaba kukho i-50 mm yengozi?" Ewe, ngenxa yoku kufuneka kukhutyezwe ngummelwane? Wabuza, ndaphakama. Akukho mntu waswelekayo, akukho nto yenzekileyo, wonke umntu uyaphila kwaye usempilweni. Kuyinyani, ekubeni elo xesha iqabane laqalisa ukuvala ucango ngobusuku, kwaye ndilibele eli bali emsebenzini njenge-anecdote entsha.
Ngoku, kubudala bophuhliso olukhawulezileyo oluntu, ngamanye amaxesha iingxaki zethu zikhutshiwe zezinye iingxaki, kodwa oku kuhlala kwaye siphila ngayo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba uphila ngendlela oqhubeka ngayo, uhlonela uluvo lommelwane, kufuneka ukwazi ukuwa kancinci, kufuneka ukwazi ukuphula ngononophelo kolunye uluvo. Ummelwane makabe ngaphantsi kunenqanaba loluntu, kodwa yena nosapho lwakhe bafuna indawo phantsi kwelanga. Kufuneka iqondwe, kufuneka uvumelane noku, kufuneka unyamezele.
Khawufane ucinge ngemeko apho ummelwane wakho ungumntu osondeleyo. Akusekho namnye ukuba athembele, awunamntu onokwabelana nobunzima bam ngaphandle kokuba nabani na acele imali kumzuzu onzima. Ngombulelo, lo mntu unokukwenza ukuba kwenziwe ikhulu lemfundo. Yenzeka rhoqo. Unokuba nengxaki, kwaye okokuqala ummelwane uya kunceda. Ngomzuzu onzima, sihlala sibangela umdla kubamelwane. I-Nave kunye nezihlobo zinokuphila kude kakhulu, kwaye ummelwane uhlala ekhona.
Amatyala eengqungquthela anommelwane, bakho kwintsapho yakho. Umntu akawuthandi ukwazi kwabamelwane, ezinye iincoko ngasemva, ezonwabisayo zexesha lasebusuku okanye izilwanyana zasebusuku. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kufuneka uzibeke enkundleni wommelwane, uqonde ingxaki, ngamanye amaxesha thetha ngokuzolileyo. Akufuneki uphumelele ubudlelwane nabamelwane, ayinakuze ikhokelele kwisiphumo esihle.
Njengoko i-mingail zadornov ithe ngqo kwaye ngokuchanekileyo: "I-non-roy ngumgodi, kungenjalo uyisebenzisa njengomsele." Kuphela ngokulalanisa, ngemvume encinci, ungquzulwano lunokuconjululwa ngethontsi lezinto abanomdla kuzo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ummelwane uya kulixabisa isenzo sakho kunye nexesha elizayo uya kunika indlela yakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha ummelwane unoburharha, wonwabe kakhulu, krwada. Thetha ngethoni, masiqonde ukuba awungqubaniyo wongqubana, kwaye isikrelemnqa soze size. Ngamanye amaxesha unokunyusa izwi, ukuba ulumkise ngelize: "Akusayi kubakho mfula!" Icacisile isimo sakho sengqondo kwaye sithethe ngokuthe cwaka, isiphako esivela oku siya kuba singonwabanga kwaye sineentloni.
Soloko ukhumbula:
- Bonke abantu bahlukile, iimbono zethu ngokunyaniseka zahlukile- uyathanda omnye, ummelwane wahlukile, fumana ukulalanisa;
- Wamkelekile ummelwane;
- Khuthaza ubuhlobo babantwana bakho, fundisa inkcubeko yabo yokuziphatha;
- Gcina umnyango wakho ucocekile kwaye u-odolo;
- Nxibelelana, nceda ummelwane wakho, gcina umzuzu onzima;
- Ngazo naziphi na iindlela zeka kwingxabano yokungqubana;
- Soloko useke ngokukodwa ukuba nethemba.
Mka! Kutshanje ukudibana nommelwane wayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Kuyavela ukuba sikwiqela elinomdla. Nandingazi ukuba ummelwane wam unezinto ezifanayo nam. Uxelelwe- ngokuchanekileyo, yonke into iyinyani.
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