Ndiyindoda ebhala izithethi malunga nokutya, kwaye umyeni wam akakhathali konke ...
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Umama wabantwana abane baseCharito uxelele ngendlela awajamelana ngayo namava okutya, yaye kwangaxeshanye wafunda abantwana bakhe ukuzama ukuzama izitya eziphilileyo, khetha ukungaboni ngasonye kwitafile. Kwaye sayidlulisela ibali lakhe ngenxa yakho.
"Mama, awusasithandi?", "Intombazana eneminyaka esisithoba yandibuza. "Ngaphambili, wasinika isidlo esininzi esinengozi. Kodwa yonke iholide sitye ikuki, iilekese nezinye izinto ezilungileyo, kwaye awuzange uvutha ngumsindo."
"Le ngu-ewe," ndacinga njalo.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi into malunga nosapho lwethu. Ndingumntu obhala izithethi malunga nokutya, kwaye umyeni wam akakhathaleli yonke le ntloko. Uyazithanda iitshiphu, nokutya okukhawulezayo kwaye ukuthatha ukutya kuhlala khetha izitya ezisandul 'ukutsha.
Ungohlobo lwendoda "emdaka etyebileyo", ngobuchule ucekeceke, kodwa akanazo izihlunu kunye nezinye iimpawu zomzimba ophilile, oqinisekisiweyo yezemidlalo kunye nesondlo esempilweni. Yonke le nto andixelelanga, kwaye ndicace ukuba ngubani othenge zonke iicookies, iilekese nezinye izinto eziye zahluza abantwana bethu ngexesha leholide.
Nguye onika abantwana zonke ezi ziphatha zonyango eziyingozi. Kwaye uqikelela ukuba ngubani ngenxa yoku kukhathazeka?
Ngokungaqhelekanga, le asim.
Kodwa yayingasoloko injalo.
Sinabantwana abane: 6, 8, 9 neli-11 ubudala. Ndingumama emva kwexesha, ngaphambi kokuba ube nexesha lokwenza umsebenzi kwaye uphucule iimpawu zobunkokeli kunye nenqanaba lokuvota. Ngayo yonke le nto iseti, ndakhawuleza ndaya kucombulula iingxaki zokutya ezinokwenza abantwana bethu.
Nalu uluhlu olufutshane lokutya kwam:
-Bantwana kwaBantwana abayi kuphakamisa ubunzima ngokwaneleyo.
-Ukuba nabantwana kuya kuba kukutyeba kakhulu okanye ukukhuluphala.
-Iswekile.
-Ukutya okutyayo kunye nokutya okunengxaki.
-I-allergies yokutya.
- amandla amaninzi.
-Inamandla amakhulu kakhulu.
-Ukugweba abanye abantu.
-Iingxaki ngentliziyo kwixa elizayo ngenxa yemikhwa emibi yokutya.
Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kuya kuba yi wayini? Siphila kule nkulungwane yama-21, oko kuthetha, nangayiphi na imeko, ndiza kufika ityala. Kuluntu lwethu, nokuba yeyiphi na iingxaki ezivela kubantwana bam ngokutya - ziya kuhlala ziqwalaselwe ukuba ndingayilungisa okanye ndikuphephe, kodwa akenzi.
Yayidike kakhulu. Ndihlala ndicinga ngokutya. Ujija umntwana ngesandla esinye, kwaye elinye ngeli xesha likhangela iindlela ezintsha zokupheka ezinempilo. Ukuzama konke ukutya kuyinto yendalo, indalo, isempilweni kwaye kwangaxeshanye. Ngaphandle kwesiphelo, uyayicenga konke okungenani uzame.
Umxholo wokutya wakhokelela ekubeni nempindezelo kubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngelixa ndizamile ukondla zonke iimveliso eziluncedo, wayenandipha ukuthengwa. Kwaye ke ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba nditshintshe umbono wam. Wacela kubantwana bakhe.
Ndiyakuthanda ukupheka kwaye ndondle usapho lwam kwisidlo esifundisa umzimba, kodwa kwangaxeshanye amamnandi. Ndiqinisekile ukuba zonke izitya, endibathanda kwaye ndibakhathalele zilungiselela, zibeka isiseko semikhwa esempilweni kwisondlo. Ukutya okunjalo ayisiyo imveliso yesondlo, kodwa kunye nomvuzo, isipho, inkumbulo.
Kwaye ukuba ndikhonza amaqanda amatsha ekuseni ngesidlo sakusasa, emva koko makusele indebe enkulu yetshokholethi eshushu. Ukuba kwisidlo sasemini, batya iikherothi ze-crispy, ke andikhathali ukuba baye banandipha i-pindi. Yonke imihla sikhwela iibhayisikile. Sinezinja esihamba, Trampoline, esitsiba, kunye neqela apho sidanisa khona. Imizimba yethu iphila ubomi obusebenzayo, kwaye iikhalori ezininzi ezongeziweyo aziyi kwenzakalisa.
Isizathu sokuba uloyiko lwam yayibuntwana bam. Xa ndandimncinci, ndandinenkani kunabantwana bam. Khange nditye ipepile, intlanzi, amakhowa, i-anyanisi kunye nesiqingatha sento eyenziwa ngumama. Hayi, hayi, i-salmon, nayo, kwaye loo ntlanzi iqaqambileyo, eyayilungiselela umakhulu wam kwi-grill yesidlo sasemini sosapho. Endaweni yoko, ndinenja eshushu, ngokukhethekileyo ngeetshipsi.
Njengabantwana abaninzi abangama-70s kunye ne-80s, andiyekanga i-of youlelo eyalelwayo, kwaye yayiyinto yokuginya. Kwaye andizange ndivumele ndilibale ngayo. Ingekuko ukuba bendigxekwa ngenkuthalo, kodwa bathetha ubunzima bam. Umzekelo, utat'omkhulu, endaweni yokubulisa, unokuthi: "Kwaye waphola."
Ewe, ndayithiya yonke le nto, kwaye nabantwana endibafuna kakhulu.
Ndibhakiwe iikomityi zempilo, isuphu ephekiweyo "nge" imifuno "efihliweyo, ibanike isiqhamo kwisidlo. Sitye i-thai cuisine, curry kunye ne-kebabs. Sizamile izinto ezininzi. Abantwana besenazo izidlo ezifunwayo, kodwa zinjalo zikunye nam kwiqela elinye. Nangaphezulu kunokuba oko ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kum.
Kutshanje andinalo nexesha lokupheka isidlo sasemini kwaye ndibanike ukuba bathenge abaguli. Uqikelela ngubani ocele ukutya okuluncedo ngakumbi? Nantso indlela abantwana. Ndithenge isaladi kunye nenkukhu evuthiweyo. Ixesha eligciniweyo, imali kwaye linesidlo sasemini esifanelekileyo.
Kwaye yeyiphi indlela endiyenza ngayo:
-Ndingasabangalisanga ngokukhetha ukutya.
-Andizithintele iilekese kunye nezinye izidlo.
-Ndibanceda bathathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Rhoqo ngokuhlwa sihleli kunye. Kodwa ndizama ukungayiguquli ibe yingxaki. Okokuqala, kuhlala kukho isonka esitsha kunye neziqhamo etafileni, ndicinga ukuba ayikaze ibe buhlungu. Okwesibini, ndibabeka kancinci kancinci ukuze bazame. Ngokoqobo, iinkalo ezimbini. Ke bona ngokwabo bacela ukongeza oko bakuthandileyo. Banenkululeko yokwenza isigqibo, kwaye uxinzelelo luyanyamalala. Kwisidlo, asithethi malunga nokuba ngubani onesibindi okanye engafikanga, watya kakhulu okanye kancinane, kodwa sahlulahlula imicimbi yosuku, sitsibela kwaye sihleka.
Kwaye ndazise le nkqubo "isithupha phezulu - isithupha phantsi" ukuba sifunde amaxesha ngamaxesha ukufunda izimvo zabagxeki bakho. Sivaliwe ngamagama afana "nento emnandi", kodwa izimvo ezakhayo zamkelekile malunga nokungcamla okanye ukuthungwa kwesitya.
Ngaphambili, andikhathazeki ngokupheleleyo ngabo bonke abantwana ukuba ndizame konke ukutya, kwaye ngoku bayeka ukuba sesona siko lam. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba bandala kwaye kulula ukuxoxa nabo. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ndikwazile ukunyusa ubuchule kuyo. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ndifunde ukungaboni ukuba umntu ongafuniyo ukuzama ukuthuka ...
Ewe kunjalo, ayisiyiyo yonke into egqibeleleyo. Kwaye kusekho ukutya abathi abantwana abangavumiyo ukuzama. Kwaye kunokwenzeka, kuya kuhlala kunjalo. Kodwa ayinamsebenzi. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba ngoku abazoyiki iipleyiti zabo, bayaqonda ukuba ukutya kolonwabo noxolo kusapho. Kwaye nokuba isitya esinye sasingayithandiyo, kuya kwahluka, mhlawumbi kuya kuba yinto emnandi.
Namhlanje kwisidlo sasemini, batya isobho se-Tomati, apho ndayongeza iimbotyi ze-teages egudileyo kunye neprotheni. Kwaye emva koko "iceba i-biscuithi yesidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye yabaleka esitratweni. Indlela elungileyo yokuchitha usuku - ezolile kwaye ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Kuthi sonke.