Ukuba ubomi bakho buye bunxunguphele, okanye unqwenela ukutshintsha umsebenzi wakho, ubambelele kwi-nonsense, elahlekelwe ngumntu othandekayo wakho okanye elikwinqanaba eliphakathi, eli nqaku.
Qala kwakhona
Iinguqu zilungile kuphela xa zimkelwe. Ke ngoko, musa ukumelana notshintsho. Bakuba wamkele ngokukhawuleza, uya kwenza indlela ebuhlungu ibe lifutshane. Lindela uloyiko, iimpazamo kunye nokusilela, ziya kuhamba nawe. Ewe kona, ukusilela kukukhathalela uvuyo kunye nethemba ngexesha lakho, ukuthandabuza. Nangona kunjalo, ukungaphumeleli ayisiyoyisi, kodwa kuphela ikhonkco kwindlela yokuphumelela okanye ukoyiswa. Kwaye kukusilela okunika amandla. Amaxhoba aze ayibeke ezinyaweni ngenxa yokuhamba ngendlela ecetyiweyo, uya kuba nowomelele, uya kuba nesibindi.Inkxaso
Ungahamba phambili phantsi kwemotto "ngokuchasene nayo yonke into kwaye wonke umntu", kodwa ungcono kakhulu. Ukuba ngokwenene unazo abantu bakholelwayo, musa ukoyika ukuguqukela kwinkxaso yabo. Nokuba abantu abaphumeleleyo baziwayo bafuna ukuphakama kwiqela labantu abanentliziyo efanayo okanye ngenkxaso yosapho.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ingxaki yokuzithemba kumntu ongafanelekanga. Asinguye wonke umntu ukuba ave ngeenjongo zakho kunye namaphupha akho. Phakathi kwezeNdalo zakho kukho abantu abaninzi abakhohlakeleyo nabanomona abanokukukhokela kwenye indlela. "Abahlobo" banokuchitha iphupha okanye bazise intembelo yokuba impumelelo yabo ingaphezulu kweyakho. Abanye banokunika ukuthandabuza ngentloko yakho. Lumka kwaye ungabelani ngezicwangciso zakho nomntu omaziyo.
Shala indawo yokuthuthuzela
Ingqondo ngeli thuba iconjululwe ngokukhawuleza kwiingxaki ezidlulileyo, ixhomekeke kubuchule bokuyila kwaye ifunxa amanqaku ajongene nembono, njengoko iindlela zokufezekisa iinjongo okanye ukuphilisa amanxeba adlulileyo.
Ukusasaza amaphupha
Kukho i-joke "ukuba unomsebenzi omkhulu omnye ongaphumliyo. Yiphule kwizinto ezincinci. Imisebenzi encinci kulula ukuyityeshela. "Ngendlela efanayo, kufuneka wenze ngotshintsho lwakho. Yithengise ngokwamaqhekeza amancinci. Kuya kuba lula ukuphumeza ebomini. Ewe kuya kuthatha ixesha elincinci. Kodwa uloyiso ngamnye uya kufezekiswa kwindlela eya kwiphupha elipheleleyo. Kulula ukuqaphela inkqubela phambili. Akayi kufuneka alinde ixesha elide. Iya kwenzeka rhoqo, ngamanqanaba amancinci.
Umonde
Guqula ubomi okanye ukugqiba iphupha ngemini enye akuyi kuba nakho. Kuya kufuneka senze amanyathelo amancinci yonke imihla. Kwaye wenze usuku lwabo lujikeleze usuku olungakhange luye.
Impumelelo ithatha ixesha, unyamezelo kunye namaxhoba. Kwaye ukuba kwinqanaba lokuqala lento yayilula, musa ukuphumla. Oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kuqhubeka. Kodwa kunokuba lula kakhulu ukubuphaphazela.
Imiqobo yobomi
Imiqobo yobomi engalindelekanga phantse ihlala itshabalalisa ngesicwangciso esifanelekileyo apho yonke into ibonakala ifanelekile. Kuya kufuneka ufunde indlela yokutshintsha ikhosi. Akukho nanye yeziganeko ezenzeka ngendlela ayiyonto ayilophawu lokuba kufuneka uqalise indlela entsha. Uninzi lwenzeka ezinye iindlela zokuphononongwa.
Indlela yemiphunga ikhokelela kwindlela yesiqhelo kunye netsibe. Kanti umsindo. Sukuqonda isidingo sokuqala njengokusilela. Esi sisiqalo esitsha!
Ukupapashwa komthombo weSiza seSiza Amelia.