Ukuthetha ukuncoma komnye umntu, sifuna ngokunyaniseka ukuyenza ibe mnandi, qaphela ubuchule bakhe obubalaseleyo, inkangeleko yakhe ebonakalayo okanye uphawu lokukhanya. Xa uziqhelanisa, amanye amagama amabele ", athi kubonakala ngathi zezona zizathu zibalaseleyo, ngamanye amaxesha ziyavakala ukuze zingaqondi kwaphela: udunyisile ukuthuka?
I-Adme.ru yayiluluhlu lwezincomo, ekuvile ukuba nawuphi na umntu obhinqileyo angathanda ukuba ufumane izibini ezibini zezinto ezimbi kunokuthembela kuye.
1. "Ngoku ujongeka ulungile namhlanje. Unike ntoni? "
OKUTHETHWA LOMFAZWE: "Ngokwesiqhelo use-goblin, kodwa namhlanje kuye kwenzeke ummangaliso." Inkangeleko entle ilungile, kodwa ingcaneli "namhlanje" ngandlel 'ithile iyonakalisa yonke into. Ngokukhawuleza lenza umbono wokuba kubomi bemihla ngemihla ujongeka ukuba ayilunganga ngokupheleleyo, okungenani ngokungakhathali.
2. "Uhlekisa kakhulu. Yentombazana inqabile "
Into othe wakuva yona umfazi ukuba ayivile: "Xa kuthelekiswa nendoda, ewe, imvakalelo yakho yokuhlekisa injalo. Kodwa ukuhleka emntwini, kulungile. Ke kwenzekile kuluntu lwethu ukuba uninzi lwabantu abakhoyo abakhoyo ngamadoda. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba amantombazana akanakuba nakho ukuhlekisa kunye nokuhlekisa. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, imeko kule minyaka idlulileyo itshintsha kwaye iguqukele nangaphezulu kunye neMigangatho ye-Worky engaphezulu kunye nemiboniso yobuntu abahlukeneyo boMsebenzi. Ke ngoko, akufanelekanga ukubeka amadoda nabafazi kwizitya ezahlukeneyo zesikali kwaye balinde, 'owonwabileyo' owonwabileyo 'oya kuguqula.
3. "Ukhula kakuhle"
Onjani wona umfazi osivayo: "Ubusuku, ubudala obudala!" Apha nje i combo: Awukatsho nje ukuba ulinenekazi elidala, kodwa lujolise kwinto oyithandayo. Kungcono ukungakwazi ukwenza izincomo ngesi sihloko. Ndikholelwe, hayi umfazi omnye ofuna ukuva ukuba uyaphazamisa (nokuba ube mhle).
4. Ubomi bam andiyi kuthi ukuba unabo abantwana "
Into othe wakuva yona umfazi, "Awuyifanelanga indima kamama." Ngokwesiqhelo eli binzana lithi abafazi ababukeka bancinci, bagcinwe kakuhle kunye nemidlalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuncoma akufundwa apha kwaphela. Intombazana eyivile kwidilesi yakhe kwangoko ifika engqondweni 1,000 kwaye i-1 isizathu sokuba kukho into engalunganga kuye: "Ndijongeka kakubi? Khokela indlela yokuphila engaphakathi? Ngaba akukho nzulu? Ayikhathali? Iyothusa? Intoni? " Nangona enyanisweni omnye umntu kunokwenzeka ukuba amone into onayo abantwana, kodwa kwangaxeshanye awungqinelani nomfanekiso wehashe, njengo "oomama abalungileyo."
5. "WOW! Ngekhe ndenze isigqibo sokuyinxiba endaweni yakho. "
Yintoni umfazi osivayo esithi: "Jonga konke okumnandi!" Isimaphambili "kwindawo yakho" ibonakala ngathi ithetha ukuba unohlobo oluthile lwesiphoso. Ukuva ukuncoma okunjalo kwidilesi yakho, ukungazinzi kuqale ukukhangela iintsilelo ezithile. Kungcono ukuba intombazana ayifiki kakhulu ngengubo enye okanye enye into, kodwa kuphela ukuba inomdla kwimbono yakho.
6. "Kulula kwaye kulula! Uthanda umntwana kwi-skirt "
Enjani yona umfazi osivayo esithi: "Ewe, nani nipholile, kodwa akukho mntu uyakuqonda ukuba ngumfazi." Kulula kwaye ukhululekile ukuba uziva kwinkampani yabantu besini esahlukileyo, ke, ke, ukuba oku kugxininiswa kukudumisa umntu. Nangona kunjalo, imeko ye "dude yayo" icela kude kuwo wonke umfazi.
7. "Unoncumo olungelulo oluqhelekileyo"
OKUTHETHWA LOMFAZWE: "Yiya ku-Orthodontist kwaye ulungise ukuluma." Nokuba kubonakala ngathi amazinyo omnxibelelanisi afanelekileyo, kunye nokuncoma okunjalo kuya kufuneka ulumke kakhulu. Uninzi lwabantu luphila ngokuluma okungafanelekanga, kwaye uninzi lunzima koku. Kule meko, igama elithi "uncumo olungelulo olungenamgangatho" lusenokuvakala luhle, lubhetele undixelele "intle / inyani / imnandi."
8. "Ukupholisa ukuba awuthathwanga kwi-Trie"
Yintoni umfazi osivayo esithi: "Mkhulu kakhulu kwaye unamafutha!" Kwaye umntu ocinga ngokunyaniseka makabe ne-Connenekazi kwiFowuni yakho enomdla, aqonde amagama njengecebo elifihlakeleyo ongazange lwenzekalise into encinci (okanye nokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, i-10-15) ukunciphisa umzimba.
9. "Ekugqibeleni, uqalile ukunxiba iimpahla kwaye ujongeka njengentombazana yokwenyani!"
Into othe wakuva yona umfazi, "Undijonge njengoyike." Kuhle xa umntu kwindalo esingqongileyo kusonjululwa kwiimvavanyo ezintsha ngeengubo. Kwaye, ngokwemvelo, ukuba asiqhelanga ukuyibona, ihlala imangalisa kwaye ibangela iimvakalelo. Kodwa kubhetele ukwenza ukuncoma ngakumbi. Phantse, umzekelo, ukuba le ntombazana inemilenze emihle kakhulu, isinqe esincinci, njl njl, kodwa ungatsho ukuba le yeyona nto imbi "ijongeka njengentombazana yokwenene." Ngaphambi kokuba ubuxoki, yintoni?
10. "Unalo Ilizwi ELITHILE"
Into othe wakuva ngayo umfazi: "Uvakala njengesikhonkwane esijikeleze iglasi." Engaqhelekanga- Yintoni? Inomsindo kakhulu okanye cwaka kakhulu? I-squeaky okanye rhabaxa? Ndingaya kwiikhathuni ezivuthayo? Masibe zichaneke, zikhanyise izincomo. Kwaye igama elithi "ukungaqhelekanga" lingcono ukutshintsha, umzekelo, "omnandi."
11. "Abasukelo, unengqondo."
Into othe wakuva yona umfazi, "ngaphambi komntu ophuhlileyo umntu, awusafikeleli kwakhona." Ewe, umhlaba uqoqosho lwahlulwe lwaba ziitekhnoloji kwaye ngabantu: Kulula ukuba umntu acengceleze ulwazi lwesicatshulwa, kwaye umntu osebenza ngamanani. Kodwa ayenzi mbi kuthi okanye ilunge ngakumbi. Ke ngoko masingathuki kwaye siqonde ubuchule bengqondo omnye komnye.
12. "Ndiyathanda ukuba awukhathazi ngembonakalo"
Oko umfazi esivayo: "Ewe, unohlobo, kunjalo. Faka into yokuqala eye yawa ngaphandle kwengubo? " Eyona nto inokwenzeka, umntu wayefuna ukudumisa isimbo sakho kwaye agxininise kwinto yokuba awulandeli iindlela zokuziphatha ezingaboniyo, kodwa ukhethe into oyithandayo. Xa uziqhelanisa, emva kwala mazwi, uziva uhenyuza kwii-rags kwibhola yefayili.
Siqinisekile ukuba ungakongeza olu luhlu lomzekelo wakho. Zithini izinto ezithandekayo ezivela kubantu besini esahlukileyo oziva kwidilesi yakho?