Uburharha kunye bukrelekrele bothethathethwano lwabasetyhini kunye nezibhedlele zoomama - I-Alas, ngesiqhelo. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba le nto ifowunelwa yindlela, kuba iyinxalenye yenkxwaleko ye-obstotetric, ethi iingcali zehlabathi ziyakuqonda ukwaphulwa kwamalungelo omfazi.
I-Ana Rozanova esuka kwiLithuania ixele indlela awajamelana ngayo nokusasazwa ngokuqatha kunye nendlela yokukhulelwa okokuqala kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba okuyilandelayo koogqirha bamnceda ngayo ukuba akwazi ukujamelana naye.
Oomama kulo naliphi na inqanaba lendlela - kukhulelwe, inkqubo yokuzalwa komntwana okanye kwiiveki zokuqala zeNdlu-yandikhumbuza inxeba elivulekileyo. Naliphi na igama elingakhathaliyo linokubangela ukuba iintlungu, ngelixa kwelinye ixesha lobomi bakhe umfazi awuyi kunikela ingqalelo kuyo.
Kwizibhedlele, abafazi banononophelo oluhle kakhulu. Ezona zinzima zokuzalwa kangangokuba ngaphambili ziya kukhokelela ekufeni nonina, kwaye umntwana ngoku ugqibile ukugqitywa ngempumelelo. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, nenkxaso yengqondo yeshishini, kuhlala kubi kakhulu kunekhulu leminyaka eyadlulayo. Ubunzima, ukugculela, kunye nokubanda kukagqirha kunye nabasebenzi kunokuguqula "amava omlingo" kwiinkumbulo ezinzima.
Ukuzalwa kwam kokuqala kudlula ngokulula kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba mna ngokwam sasingaqondi ukuba kwenzeka njani ukuba ndisekhaya nomntu othandazekileyo othandekayo kunye (njengokuba waqala kamva) kunye namasalela e-Posks. Ukopha akupheli nangayiphi na indlela, umlingiswa wazo waguquka, kwaye ngeveki ndabuya esibhedlela ndiye kugqirha.
Emva kokundijonga, wavala ulwimi lwakhe:
"Siza kucoca." Ndiyoyika.
Ukusebenza, i-anesthesia, kodwa kuthekani ngomntwana?
"Kwaye ufuna ntoni? Qhubeka uhamba unokohlwaya? "
Umsebenzi wakhawuleza wayalela. Iiyure ezimbalwa emva kokuba ndihlale ebhedini ezigutyungelwe ngamaphepha erabha. Nge-Gauze phakathi kwemilenze. Emva koko waphakama kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe wemba uphume. Emnyango, ndeva iqela lokucoca, elibukele amashiti emva kwam. Andikwazi ukuthetha ngokuchaneka ukuba esi siqendu senze uxinzelelo lwam emva kweposi, okanye iya kuqala. Ngayiphi na imeko, le imemori isesenye yezona zinto zikrakra kwaye zihlazisa ebomini bam. Apha ndilele kwisitulo esinomlenze owaphukileyo.
Ndindedwa kwaye ndiyoyika, kwaye ugqirha ngesandla sakhe ngaphakathi kufuneka ndigculele.
Kwiminyaka emibini kamva, ugqirha ohluke ngokupheleleyo kwisibhedlele esahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ekufumaneni isibhedlele:
Intaba yomntwana olahlekileyo, endingazaziyo, kodwa sele ndithandana, zixubene noloyiko lokuphinda onke amava: "Singakwazi ukucoca?" Silinde. Kwaye walinda. Kwaye ngaphezulu. Umzimba wam uthathe isigqibo sokungakhululi mntu, ngoko ke ukucoca kwakungenakuphepheka.
Ndalala ebhedini ecocekileyo kwiwadi ndalinda ithuba lam. Ngeli xesha, umongikazi weza kum kathathu. Okwesihlandlo sokuqala wathi andinakutya, ndisele, kuba ebengenakuzisela isidlo sangokuhlwa, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba ndilambile. Okwesibini wafika kundinqwenelela ithamsanqa ngokusebenza. Kwaye okwesithathu ndazisa iglasi yesibhedlele esinemifuno emnandi: "Awukaseli. Kodwa nje ukuba uvuke emva kotyando, kangangokuba wayenayo kwangoko. Kwaye ngequbuliso ndiza kuba ndixakekile kwaye andikwazi ukuhamba kwangoko. "
Iyure ngaphambi kotyando, ugqirha waya kwiwadi. "Emva kotyando, wena uziva ulungile. Kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba ukubuyiswa kweemvakalelo kuya kuthatha ixesha elide. Uya kuba nzima, kwaye ukrakra, kwaye ulusizi, "utshilo.
Ndamjonga ndinesidima. Yayilixesha lokuqala xa i-gynecologist yaqala ukuthetha nam malunga neemvakalelo, kwaye ndingeyiyo malunga neempawu."Unzima ngoku. Ndizisola kakhulu ukuze uphile. Kodwa awuwedwa, siya kukhathalela ukuze yonke into ihamba kakuhle. " Ndaphendula ke ndathi: "Ndibuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye krakra, kwaye kunzima." Kwaye uqhume.
Kwaye ndaziva ndingaphakathi kwam ekugqibeleni ndancwina abanye ngokuqinileyo, nto leyo eyayikhona ukusuka kwi-genera yokuqala.
Andindedwa. Siza kundikhathalela. Akukho mntu akasayi kuphinda andigculele ngeli xesha xa ndilinxeba elinye elivulekileyo.
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