Umntwana ukhumbuza izilwanyana: wenze ntoni?

Uninzi lukholelwa ukuba ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngokunxulumene nezilwanyana akuthandi. Ewe, ukubukela olu mbono alulunganga nakubani na. Yintoni ebangele isimo sengqondo sabantwana kwizilwanyana ezifuywayo - ukuthanda ukwazi okuqhelekileyo kwaye

Ukuzama okanye ukukhohlakala, kuphuculwe kwasebuntwaneni?

I-Grackery isibongozo kwizilwanyana njengoko amaqela abantu abadala kunye nabantwana ayonto eqhelekileyo. Ke ngoko, abazali akufuneki batyeshele le ngxaki, kwaye kufuneka bancede umntwana wakho ahlangabene nayo.

Unobangela Wokhathalelo Olukhohlakeleyo Abantwana 'Abaselula'

1. Kumntwana ngamnye, abantu abadala ligunya elikhulu, kwaye ukuba bavumela ukuba bube nogonyamelo, baza baxelisa abantwana ukuba baxelise. Mhlawumbi umntwana wayelixhoba okanye eliNgqina ukuba alawule. Ukuphatha izilwanyana kwezilwanyana luphawu olucacileyo lobukho bobundlobongela obujikelezwe ngumntwana.
2. Ukwazi. Njengommiselo, abantwana abanjalo banengxaki ye-psyche.
3. Ukubonakaliswa kokuphathwa gadalala kwizilwanyana phantsi koxinzelelo lwabahlobo.
4. Isithukuthezi, uxinzelelo, ukungabikho kwazo naziphi na izinto ozithandayo.
5. Isixhobo sogonyamelo lweemvakalelo, i.e., ngaloo ndlela, umntwana uzama ukubangela ukuba umnini wesilwanyana. Kananjalo ukuba umntwana alale kunye nesilwanyana okanye kuyingozi

Manyathelo mani azokuthatha

Ukuphelisa le ngxaki, kuyimfuneko ukufumanisa ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwe "nkohliso" ebhekisa emntwaneni.

Iminyaka eyi-1-6

Njengommiselo, abantwana bethutyana abakafumani ukuba ayiqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba kungekuphela nje abantu, kodwa nezilwanyana zinokuba ziintlungu. Abaziqondi ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya ayisiyinto yokudlala, kuba azinamava abanyamekele.

Iminyaka eyi-6 ukuya kweli-12

Umntwana sele eqonde ukuba akunakwenzeka ukugculela izilwanyana. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho iingxaki ezinkulu ngophuhliso lwengqondo.

Kule meko, azikho iingcali. Rhoqo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kukhula ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yeengxaki kwimo yekhaya. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba sisondele kwisisombululo sokusombulula ingxaki ngokupheleleyo, ekutsala abazali.

Ngaphezulu kweminyaka eli-12 ubudala

Kule meko, ukubandakanyeka komntwana kwamanye amaqela akhuthazayo (ulwaphulo-mthetho, isiyobisi) siyabonakala. Mhlawumbi akayazi indlela onokuzithatha, kwaye ufuna ukulawula umntu okanye amisele ulawulo ngaphezulu kwenye.

Kwimeko enjalo, uncedo lobuchule luya kudinga. Ngapha koko, ekusombululeni ingxaki, kuyimfuneko ukutsala umntwana, kodwa kunye nabazali bakhe, ootitshala, abahlobo abasenyongweni.

Kufuneka iqondwe ukuba uthando lwabantwana kwizilwanyana luthathwa kwiminyaka yokuqala. Ke ngoko, zama ukuchaza ukuba kufuneka babaphathe ngononophelo kwaye banononophelo, babukela ubomi babo, bancede bakhusele.

Ukuba isilwanyana sasekhaya siphila endlwini yakho, sifundise umntwana wam ngononophelo, ukuba sinxibelelane naye, singasongeli, singamcinezeli, sayithanda.

Ukucaca, unokusebenzisa owakho umzekelo. Chaza ukuba isilwanyana esoyikisayo siyingozi kakhulu kuye, kwaye simenza buhlungu. Kwakhona xelela umntwana, oko kushukuma komzimba wesilwanyana (raging, umsila oxineneyo okanye ukrokrela kulonwabo) bathetha ngayo.

Iluncedo kakhulu iya kubahamba kunye nomntwana kunye nokubukela izilwanyana, zombini kwindalo nakwi-zoo.

Zama ukuxelela umntwana rhoqo malunga nobomi bezilwanyana, iindawo zabo zokuhlala, imikhwa. Jonga kunye noxwebhu. Konke oku kuya kukunceda ukhule umntu onesiphangi, onobubele kunye nenkathalo.