Yintoni ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo kucwangciso lwendlu yabantu abatshatileyo? Yintoni ekufanele ukuba ithathele ingqalelo kuqala? Ungayigcina njani, kodwa ayidingi? Ezi zixhobo ziya kunika iimpendulo kuyo yonke le mibuzo.
Ukubala uqoqosho
Nje ukuba i-intermar yenzelwe isibini esiselula, kufuneka uqale kuqale kwiBhajethi yoSapho yoSapho. Ukwenzela ukuthintela iingxaki, cwangcisa ngononophelo kwaye ujonge zonke iindleko. Iingxaki ezintathu eziphambili kufuneka zisonjululwe:
- Igumbi lokuhlala elipholileyo
- Ikhitshi
- Igumbi lokulala lothando
Akukho mfuneko yokuba uthathe izisombululo ezincinci zexeshana-hlala phantsi, cinga, yenza isicwangciso sobuqili, tyelela zonke iintlobo zezakhiwo kunye nezangaphakathi, tyekisa, inkonzo, kuya kufuneka ujongene nobunzima.
Ingaphakathi
Qala ngegumbi lokuhlala lifana negumbi eliphambili apho iindwendwe zihlala ziqokelela khona. Mbambe ingqalelo eyaneleyo: igumbi lokuhlala lihlala "libonakale." Ayifanelanga ukuba igcwaliswe kakhulu kwaye kwangaxeshanye, akufanele ungamshiyi nto ingenanto. Isikwere sasimahla kufuneka sisetyenziswe ngokumodareyitha. Nje ukuba igumbi lipholile kwaye lifudumele, ungaya ekhitshini. Kuyanqwexeka kodonga phakathi kwegumbi lokuhlala kunye nekhitshi, ukufezekisa imeko yomanyano, ingqibelelo nemvisiswano.
Kuba ikhitshi alihluleli nantoni na kwigumbi lokuhlala, yenza kwa into enye. Igumbi kufuneka lipholile, likhululekile. Ukusuka kwiindawo-zigubungela iithayile. Oku kuya kuzisa i-prior abanye ngokudlala kunye nemincili.
Igumbi lokulala lesibini eliselula yile nto kufuneka uhlawule ixesha elininzi. Okokuqala, yonke into ithile kakhulu. Kuya kufuneka ndizame iqhekeza lokukhetha kunye nokwenza isigqibo. Okwesibini, ngaphandle kokhetho lwakho, igumbi lokulala yindawo engcwele yamantshontsho amabini eluthandweni, ukhetho lufanele ukuba lube nzulu, ukhetho, ukungabinamali. Amakhethini, iikhabhathi, iitafile zebhedi, ibhedi - yonke into kufuneka ihambelane ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ilungele imvelaphi ngokubanzi. Kuya kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuba ijonge umntu ngamnye, izinto ezingenazo zonke izinto ezingenakucaphukisa itshokholethi kunye nebhedi yepinki, ukhetha yonke into ngokuqhekekileyo.
Iimpazamo ezifanele ukuphepha
Zama ixesha lokuphikisana. Njengoko ngaphambili, kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisa indawo yasimahla ngokumodareyitha. Phambili, vavanya kwifom ngokubanzi indlela yokusabela kwezinye iindawo zegumbi le-permsotion, kwelinye igama - zama. Iimpazamo eziphambili:
- Ulungiselelo lwefenitshala engalunganga
- Akukho ngqiniseko
- Ukukhanya okubi
Ngokukhanya, unokuzama. Akukho luvo olunye, njengoko luya kuba luchanekile, kodwa inyani yokuba ukukhanya kungachaphazeli ngokuthe ngqo, apho kuya kuvela khona uyilo lwegumbi - le yinyani. Ngoku uyazi kakuhle ukuba yenze njani i-internatis kwindlu yabantu abasanda kutshanje!