Imiyalelo evela kubasebenzisi beReddit
Ngamabali awoyikisayo yabazali akukho ndawo ye-pults kunye ne-zombies-zihlala malunga nendlela umntwana asanda ngayo yonke iyure, okanye abhale esothusayo - abantwana beva oomama notata babelala ngesondo.
Ibali elinjalo elinjalo nabasebenzisi beRudita babelane nomthengi ngegama lesidlaliso. Uye waphawula ukuba ngoonyana bakhe (iminyaka eli-10 neli-12 ubudala) kusasa "engaziphathi kakuhle."
Emva kwethuba elincinci kwavela ukuba abantwana ngokuzithandela babone uthando lwabazali, okanye , bamva. "Sithetha ngokusesithekayo ngesondo kusapho. "Ndabaxelela ukuba siyathandana noTata, kwaye izesondo inobuqu kakhulu, kodwa bayaqhubeka nokundibuza imibuzo, umzekelo, kutheni kuphela ndikupapashe izandi, njalo njalo." Ndothukile, kodwa andifuni ukuba bacinge ukuba kubudlelwane obuphathelele kwezesondo kukho into ehlazisayo. Unokwenza ntoni endaweni yam?
Xa kunjalo, ukuba ngenye imini uya kweyela imeko efanayo (oko thina, Kakade ke, sifuna ngokunyanisekileyo), kudluliselwa kuwe iimpendulo ezininzi we abasebenzisi REDDIT - baba phakathi kwabo yaye iluncedo, yaye ezihlekisayo, kwaye ngokuphandle engaqhelekanga.
Ukuphendula ngokunyaniseka imibuzo
Umsebenzisi onoMsebenzisi wabhala: "Ndiza kuyiphendula ngokunyaniseka imibuzo yabo," wabhala ngokunyaniseka imibuzo. -Cebisa nje yonke into kwinqanaba le-10 leminyaka. Ngoku, xa abantwana banokufikelela nantoni na kwi-Intanethi, ndingathanda ukuba bathethelele ngolwazi, kwaye andizijonganga ngokwabo. "
Njengakwi-roller yaseMelika
"Xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo, intombi yam yandixelela indlela utitshala wakhe wawuphendula ngayo umbuzo" Kutheni abantu bekhwaza ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo? " (Babenebhokisi apho bekunokwenzeka ukuba banciphise inqaku ngemibuzo engaziwayo), "umthengi wePropiacarne waxelelwa. "Utitshala wathi ngesizathu esifanayo, apho abantu bayakhwaza, bakhwele kwisilayidi saseMelika - kuba bayavuya, kwaye konke oko. Ke kwabonakala kum ukuba yayingqinela ngokupheleleyo, kwaye kuba ndisakhumbula le nto, ndenze into eyoyikisayo kum. Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka uzame i-analogy efanayo-abanye abantu benza izandi ezininzi, ngelixa abanye bengazipapazi. "
Bonke abantu bahlukile
Eyona mpendulo ilula nelula, imbono yethu, iphakamise umsebenzisi onegama lesidlaliso i-GHOT1667: "Abantu abahlukeneyo baziphathe ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Abanye abaninzi ngakumbi, kwaye abanye bathula. "
Ufunga ngenxa kaThixo
Amava abathengi bobuqu baseKnitzsox: "Xa ndandimncinci, ndeva abazali bam, kwaye ewe, ndikhe ndeva kuphela umama kuphela. Ekuqaleni bendicinga ukuba kubi, kodwa ke isibane esikhanyayo sasikhanyisiwe entlokweni yam, ndaye ndayiqonda into eyenzekayo. Mhlawumbi abantwana bakho bacinga ukuba utata ikwenza ube wenzakalise? Kwaye ke bacacisa ngokwabo ukuba kutheni bengalivanga ilizwi likatata. "
Emva koko waxelela ibali ukuba liza kuba ngumzali kubazali: "Xa intombi yam yayimalunga nontathu, wayeka ukundiva ukuba utata kule ntsasa. Ndididekile kuba andikwazanga ukukhumbula ukuba siyaxabana. Emva koko waqhubeka: "Ndivile ukuba uthe:" Ewe, Thixo, "emva koko uthi:" Ewe, funga ngenxa kaThixo. " Ndathi ewe, kunjalo. Ngexesha elizayo siya kubaphatha nxamnye. "
Intle kwaye inomdla
Elinye ibali lobuqu elivela kuMona-Chinessetap: "Ndikhumbula ukuba xa ndandimncinci, ndabuza umama ukuba kutheni abafazi beziphatha kakhulu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ndiqinisekile ukuba wothukile, kodwa undiphendule ukuba kulungile kwaye kumnandi, kwaye inkcazo enjalo kunye nodade wethu kwanele. "
"Njani malunga nesidlo sakusasa"
Icebiso elilungileyo ngaphandle kweqabane lakho: "Ngoku kufuneka uthethe ngayo njengoko uzolile njengesidlo sakusasa. Zama ukwenza le ncoko iqhelekile njengaye nayiphi na enye. Ke unokuqiniseka ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuguqukela kuwe kwikamva kuyo nayiphi na imicimbi enzima- akukho mibuzo ingamkelekanga. "
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo
"Uxolo, andinangcebiso. Nangona kunjalo, mna nodadewethu sasidla ngokuva abazali bethu ukuba babelane ngesondo. Sasingazange sibe nesibindi sokuthetha nabo ngayo, kodwa besihlala sizama ukupapasha uhlobo lwesandi ukuze bazi ukuba asilali. Ngoku ndineminyaka engama-24, kwaye kubonakala kum ukuba oku akuchaphazeli ukubona kwam isini. Kwenzeka nje, kwaye nangona kunjalo ndangonwabanga, ngoku ndiyavuya kubo. UHaleymihal wabhala wathi, "UHaleymihal wabhala.
Abazali bakaRencing bavumelana ngako: Kungcono ukuthetha nabantwana ngokuthe ngqo, kuyaphawuleka ukuba i-sex iqhelekile kuyo, kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye nokukhwaza kwamaqabane kucacisiwe yinyani ukuba bonwabe, kwaye akubandezeleka.
Kwaye kuyakwavuyisa ukuba ukwazile ukwakha ubudlelwane bokuthembana nabantwana kangangeminyaka eli-10 neli-12 ubudala, kunye nemibuzo malunga nezesondo kuye, hayi kwabo ufunda nabo okanye uGoogle.
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