Usacinga ukuba iimvakalelo kunye nezimvo zakho azinamdla kuye, isenzo sakho asinamsebenzi? Iingcinga ezifanayo kunye neemvakalelo zinokunamathela kwintloko yawo nawuphi na umntu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Kunye nezinto ezinjengokutyeshela okanye ukunyangwa kwenkohlakalo kunokubangela kuphela. Kwaye emva koko ukudakumba okanye uxinzelelo kwangoko lubonisa indawo "yomntu". Indawo apho imvakalelo yokuba ibonakale iba buthathaka kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kodwa siphila kwindawo ehlala isixelela ukuba kufuneka uzame ngakumbi, ukwenza izinto ezibalulekileyo ukufezekisa iziphumo eziphezulu.
Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ubomi butshintsha nje, kwaye sahlula-hlulwa ebantwini okanye kwiimeko ezisenza sibaluleke.
Ungayibuyisela njani imbono yokuzithemba
Namathela nje kwaye ucinge ngokwakho kwisehlo kunye namagama athethayo ngombulelo xa wafumana umvuzo. Amagama othetha ngentetho enkosi anombulelo abonisa iminqweno nemilinganiselo yakho yokwenyani. Kwaye ngoku, thelekisa amaxabiso kunye nenyani, kwaye uya kufumana oko usweleyo ngengqondo. Zama ukufumana ezinye iinqobo ezizayo eziza kunceda ukuvuselela le mvakalelo.
Ngaba izinto ezintle zenze kubo? Ewe, uya kudumisa ude ude uyenze. Ngeli xesha ukuya kwi-subconstonce, ubudlelwane bendumiso yasebunjiwe - ukubaluleka. Kwaye ukuba ikhonkco lokuqala laphukile, ke ukubaluleka kuya kubandezeleka. Sukuzimisela ukubaluleka kwakho ngemvume yabanye abantu. Idala kuphela ukukhohlisa, kodwa yonke le nto inyamalala xa siyeka ukuba luncedo.
Izenzo ezincinci ezilungileyo kakhulu kubantu abaninzi azingawo, kodwa kungaphezulu kakhulu kunokuba ucinga.
- Bamba umnyango.
- Uncume cassas okanye ongamaziyo.
- Ndinqwenela usuku oluhle okanye ngokuhlwa emntwini.
Uya kuba mnandi kububele bakho, kwaye ukuphendula uya kufumana amagama afanayo kunye neminqweno efanayo. Mhlawumbi umntu uya kuphucula igama lakho elifanelekileyo okanye ingqalelo yosuku, kwaye umntu uya kuba nakholwayo kuwe nakumandla okuphila.
Unexabiso. Isenokubonakala ngathi akunjalo, ubomi bunokuba nzima, kwaye abantu abanangxaki, kodwa abayi kuba njalo. Eli lixesha kuphela eliza kudlula.
Siza kushiya inqaku apha → Amelia.