"Imvugo magana abiri yo guturika" mu bana, cyangwa gato ku bitero by'abana

Igitero mubana bato ni ubwoko bwa bateri ..

"Muri buri mwana muto, umuhungu, n'umukobwa, hari garama magana abiri ibisasu, cyangwa ngo ibaze ..." - Ibuka amagambo mu ndirimbo nziza y'abana? - Reka tuvuge uburyo iyi "iturika" ryitwara mubana ni imyaka 1-3, aribyo igitero cyumwana kuri iki gihe.

Abakuze ndetse n'abana.

Igitero mu bana bato ni ubwoko bwa bateri, ikirego gishinzwe imbaraga n'ibirimo gishobora gusenya ikintu, kandi kigengwa neza gishobora no kuzana inyungu n'umwana, n'ababyeyi.

Twebwe abantu bakuze, dushobora kuvuga: Ndarakaye, ndakaye, ndashaka kubimenagura / ndashaka kubimenagura / kurimbura - ni ukuvuga, no gusobanukirwa icyo leta ihura nabyo. Kandi ukuza muri sosiyete, twikuramo amahame amwe, amahame nuburyo byerekana amarangamutima, ibihugu.

Ibyiyumvo byinararibonye dushobora kwerekana mubikorwa runaka. Cyangwa kutagaragaza, ahubwo ni ugusesengura gusa. Kurugero, umukazana, biragoye guteza imbere umubano na nyirabukwe, ntibishoboka ko umugore usanzwe azagirira nabi umugabo wa mama. Umukazana ashobora "gusya" kutanyurwa, gutanga leta mu magambo, gutongana, kubwira aba bakobwa aba bakobwa, binubira umugabo we. Mu bana bato, iyi nzira yo kurakara n'umujinya iragoye, ntibarasobanukirwa uko bameze, ntibashobora kwitwa ibyo bumva mumyaka 1-1.5. Niba umwana wimyaka ibiri yakubise uburiri, asubiza, arashobora kumukomanura kuko yamuteye ububabare

Igitero nyuma yumwaka ni reaction kubintu bimwe, ibintu, ibintu, birashimishije guhinduka. Nyuma yumwaka, inzira ikora yo guteza imbere amahoro, abantu, imikoranire no guhura bitangira. Ikintu kimaze kuba cyiza. Biragaragara ko byakozwe - Kusanya Pyramide, bisaba amatwi, ariko agasanduku ukunda ntibishobora gukora. Kandi nkigisubizo - kurakara, guta iyi sanduku bitari ngombwa nuburakari.

5 Ibyingenzi niba:

1. Niba umwana adakora ikintu (imyambarire, imikoranire nigikinisho, gutwara igikinisho) kandi itangira kurakara, ni ngombwa kubabyeyi muri iki gihe, ahubwo ni ugutabara fasha no kubyerekane neza kandi byoroshye kubikora. Gusa berekane, ariko ntukore kumwana. Kandi mugihe kizaza kugirango ugume hafi no gushyigikirwa.
2. Niba ubona ko mugikorwa cyumukino wimukanwa, umwana akashyirwaho, aragufasha kuguhindura mumikino mumikino, guseka, wirengagize icyifuzo - guhagarika umukino, vuga ko tudakina, kandi tugahindura Kuri Ubwoko bwibikorwa (guhanga, gukora hamwe nibintu byinshi, gufata ibisusutse).
3. Niba umwana arakaye, arakaye kubikorwa byawe, gerageza ntukarakaze igisubizo, ntukabirarure, mumufashe guhindura umukino. Kurugero, umwana wimyaka ibiri iri mu gikoni kandi bisaba kuki kuva mama. Nigihe cyo gufungura kiracyari gito. Mu gusubiza Mama yanze, atangira kurakara. Nibyiza gutanga ikintu gitunguranye cyumwana muri ako kanya (kugirango ufashe gusukura itara, shyira ibikombe bibiri kandi werekane uburyo ushobora guhindura ibihingwa na t.).
4. Niba uburakari bw'umwana buherekejwe no gutaka, hysterical, atangira gutera ibikinisho, ni ngombwa ku babyeyi kugira ngo bavuge uko umwana ameze neza maze avuga ati: "Ndarakaye, ugomba gutuza. " Hanyuma ugerageze kumenya icyateye uburakari. Niba umwana asunitswe asubije, araterana, nibyiza kureka umwana mugihe gito kandi akava mucyumba gikurikira atarangije gushyikirana numwana gusa iyo atuje. Kandi uyishimire muri iki gihe.
5. Niba umuntu wo mu babyeyi cyangwa abakuwe yemerera igihano cyumubiri kumwana, ntabwo ari byiza gutangazwa nuburyo bwo gukora isuku no gusubiramo ibikorwa bimwe kubabyeyi cyangwa abana. Abana bakuru barezwe babifashijwemo nigihano cyumubiri, akenshi bagaragaza imyigaragambyo yabo, bakoresheje imbaraga kubana bato, bityo bagaragaza neza ko imfura ishobora gukubita umuto (kuko mama na papa bahabwa urugero nkurwo).

"Urufunguzo" rwo kugabanuka kwabana.

Kugabanya urwego rwigitero mubana bafite imyaka 1-2, hazabaho uburyo bwo gukina bugandukira buri mubyeyi kandi ntibikenera ubumenyi bwihariye.

- "Grozny", "hkuray" (cyangwa uburyo bwo gutekereza) umusego, indorerwamo cyangwa umupira (Phytball, kurugero) kubitero cyangwa igikinisho cyaka. Turabakoresha kugirango dusohoke kandi dukusanya amakimbirane mubana. Ariko mubyukuri tutigeze dutanga inyundo yaka umuriro kugirango dukubite ibikinisho byoroshye, ndetse no mumikino yumuntu watanzwe nabavandimwe nabana. Gusa ingingo zidakora. Mubisanzwe gusoza bikora neza kumwana kandi biratuje.

- impapuro zisanzwe cyangwa ikinyamakuru. Barashobora kubashinyagurira, bigatuma bamwe muribo babyimba, bajugunya ibibyimba mu gitebo, kuzunguruka. Twakagombye gusobanurwa ko bishoboka kuyitanyagura, no kugerageza guca ibitabo kugirango bimbure no gusobanura icyo gukora ibibi. Ibice byimpapuro zacitse birashobora gukoreshwa mubukorikori. Kurugero, shushanya kuri printer cyangwa shushanya ishusho yubumuga bwo kugaburira inyoni cyangwa imigati, hamwe nimpapuro ntoya zimaze kugabanya umwana, unyure cyangwa udukoni dukenye. Kandi nyuma yo gusingiza umwana ku ishusho nziza.

- Gukina uburakari mumikino. Urashobora gukina ikinamico hamwe nibikinisho hamwe numwana, aho "idubu" ifite ikibi "," injangwe yijimye ", irababaza kandi ikababara kumyandikire. Kandi mugihe cyo gukora, sobanura ko biza nabi, nkuko bibabaza izindi nyuguti, kuko bidashaka gukina nuburyo bitewe nuko nkigisubizo, kandi ni byiza.

- Kurema nuburyo bwiza cyane bwo gusohora abana bakusanyijwe, kutanyurwa no kurakara. Plastine ni ingirakamaro, ifu yumunyu, misa yo kwerekana imideli - ibyo byose nibikoresho byiza byerekana imvugo n'ibihugu, harimo nabi. Lepim, hamwe n'umwana, imiterere, urugero, uruziga cyangwa inzitizi hanyuma tugatanga umwana kubishushanya, ongeraho ibisobanuro, hindura amakuru.

- Amazi ni umuco mwiza. Ukoresheje ubu buryo, birakwiye ko tuzirikana gahunda munzu nubushobozi bwo gukina namazi nta nkurikizi muburyo bwa pope nini hamwe nintara itose. Nibyiza kubikora mu bwiherero mubibase byiza. Urashobora gutanga umwana gukubita isabune, yuzuye amazi kuva mu kimbo kimwe ujya mu kindi, uhereye kubice bimwe.

Umwana muri iki gihe akenshi atera ububabare atabishaka. Ashishikaye cyane umubiri we, umubiri wubwoko hafi kandi ukikije abantu. Kandi bisanzwe bigaragara ko bakuze "igikoma-cuckoo-kumukubita" birashobora kuba bisa numupira numupira, iyo imikoranire igaragara, yakuweho. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko kugerageza gutuma umwana atababaza bibabaza.

Intambwe 1. Ntugasubiremo ibikorwa by'umwana mubisubizo, gerageza ntuseke kandi nturamwenyure kubisubizo;

Intambwe 2. Kuvuga igihe cyose umwana yizeye, utuje - "kora nabi", "mama / papa / papa."

Intambwe 3. Mu gusubiza icyifuzo "Reka duhagarare neza Papa / Mama" kandi twerekane uburyo ushobora gutega ukuboko k'umuntu ukunda, guhobera;

Intambwe 4. Kora tacy imwe yimyitwarire hamwe nabagenzi bose hamwe numwana, niba ibitswe, kuruma na t d. Ibintu bitifuzwa mugihe mama na sogokuru baramwenyura cyangwa batitaye kuri ibyo imyitwarire.

Mfite imyaka ibiri, kurakara hamwe nuburakari akenshi bifitanye isano nibibujijwe. Ntabwo hagomba kubaho kubuza 20, 40 cyangwa birenga. Hagomba kubaho umubare muto: Ntibishoboka, kuko "bibabaza" cyangwa "akaga". Urashobora kongeramo interuro "Ay-Ah", "Chi Chi", izaburira umwana mbere yuko akora ikintu kibi. Ku bana nyuma yimyaka 1.5, biba ngombwa kuvuga amarangamutima ye na leta - "Urarakaye", "udakunda ko nabujije" kandi ko nabujije " Ndagusobanukiwe "," Reka tugerageze gukosora hamwe, "Nubikora, bizaba ...". Kandi birakenewe kandi gushyiraho imipaka isobanutse neza: Niba umubyeyi / papa yavuze "oya", hanyuma avuza induru, uburakari kugirango agere kubyo abishaka ntibishoboka.

Intambwe 1. Muri iki gihe umwana yajugunye igikinisho gikurikira mu burakari, birakwiriye ko amwegera, manuka ku rwego rw'ijisho rye, kugirango afate ukuboko ati: Kora nabi. Ntabwo dukina ibikinisho. Hanyuma ugerageze guhinduka, kandi ejo hazaza ni ngombwa gutangaza ibikinisho bitatanye. Niba umwana yanze gukora ibi, koresha tekinike yumukino, nko kwambara igikinisho cyigikinisho ukaba ugasaba igikinisho kugirango ufashe Mama hanyuma ugashima. Cyangwa utange kimwe mu bikinisho bitatanye ku mwana mu ntoki no mu mikino yo guhangana byerekana ko uza kugera ku gitebo hamwe n'ibikinisho. Mubihe nkibi, ibisubizo ni ngombwa: kugirango byibura ibikinisho bike umwana ubwe yashyizeho.

Intambwe 2. Niba umwana adakora ikintu, kugirango atange ubufasha bwe kandi werekane uburyo bwo gukemura icyo kibazo, hanyuma uherekeza umwana gusa mugihe akora igikorwa, kandi ushishikarize.

Intambwe 3. Iyo umwana asunikwa, arahaguruka - guhagarika no gusobanura impamvu udashobora kubikora. Niba usubije, umwana araseka, akomeje kurwana, kujya mukindi cyumba kandi igihe yatuzaga, asobanura ko niba witwaye neza, noneho uzakina wenyine.

Igitero cyabana bakiri bato nikintu gikunze kugaragara, kandi ntabwo ari ngombwa gutinya. Ikintu cyingenzi nukwitondera umwana wawe kandi tugerageza gufata umuntu ku giti cye "imfunguzo" kuri we mugihe.