Hariho abantu byoroshye kandi kugirango bakomeze umubano. Ariko bibaho, muruziga rwinshuti zacu, inshuti cyangwa n'abavandimwe, umuntu aragaragara, aho bigora cyane kugirango akore ibiganiro byuzuye. Impamvu yibi ishobora kuba ibirego byayo bidahwema, gushinyagurira ubuziraherezo cyangwa urukundo rudasubirwaho rwo gusebanya.
Muri adme.ru Ingaruka kugirango igenera ingeso nyinshi, hamwe na ba nyirayo benshi muri twe tudashaka gukomeza umubano.
10. Kora byose bidahuye
Nukuri wahuye inshuro nyinshi kubantu bagerageza guhisha urujijo no gushidikanya. Rimwe na rimwe, bumva bitoroheye ku buryo bashobora kongera kuri wewe ibitekerezo bikaze muburyo "Ubwenge bwakomeye?" Ikibazo nuko imyitwarire nkiyi ituma abantu bashoboraga gufasha kumenyera ikirere kitamenyerewe ndetse bakubwira ikintu cyingirakamaro kandi gishimishije.
9. Gutwika abandi mubibazo byabo
Buri wese muri twe ashobora kuvuga ati: "Yego, byabaye ngombwa ko bigoye muri iyo myaka." Ariko bamwe barashoboye byoroshye kandi bagahindura inshingano kubera "kugira uruhare runini" ku wundi muntu - uwahoze ari uwo bashakanye, umutware mubi cyangwa abo mukorana akomeye. Ariko ibirego byabandi byihuta cyane kandi abantu ba mbere bateze amatwi bitonze bazagenda buhoro buhoro batangira guterana bagashaka guhura.
8. Ntukabone abantu bato bato cyane
Noneho urubyiruko ntirubona umwanya wo gukurikiza abandiga, icyo bavuga ku baturage bo mu ishuri rya kera. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko bagomba guhora bavuga abandi ko inkoko yigituro zitigishijwe. Muri iki gihe, abo mukoranabushake benshi bakunze gufata uruhara rw'abajyanama ku gisekuru gishaje kandi gifasha kumenya ikoranabuhanga rishya n'ubuhanga bugezweho bwakazi.
7. kureka umukungugu ukikije mumaso
Bibaho ko abantu bamwe batakaza rwose isura hagati yubuzima nyabwo nishusho nziza ku mbuga nkoranyambaga. Bishimiye gukora ishusho yumugore wishimye na nyina cyangwa umugabo wica, ariko icyarimwe bibagirwa byimazeyo kwibita, bahura nibibazo mugihe cyo gushyikirana bazima no kumenya kimwe (kandi icyarimwe) Intsinzi yabakunda nabafatabuguzi.
6. KOMEZA BYOSE MU BIKORWA BIDASANZWE
Umuntu ufite ibidukikije byose akomeza gukubita, mubyukuri ntabwo byoroshye kureka ubwenge bwinama. Umunsi wose bisa nkaho nta gihe ugenzura bene wabo, inshuti cyangwa abo dukorana bazahindukira byose, bazashyirwa ku musarani. Ariko birashoboka ko rimwe na rimwe biracyakenewe gusohora no kuruhuka?
5. Kusanya amazimwe na pompe amagufwa yose
Mugihe cyo gutumanaho hamwe nabantu bamwe wumva ari abaskuti kubutaka bwumwanzi no kugerageza kutavunika ikindi kintu kirenze. Gusa kubera ko ijambo iryo ari ryo ryose rititonda rizahita rikoreshwa kukurwanya, kandi ikiganiro cy '"inenge" yawe kizatangirana n'imbere y'umuryango. Ahari niyo mpamvu benshi muritwe tugerageza kwirinda gusebanya.
4. Guhora ushikamye, byahoze ari byiza
Birumvikana ko ushobora kwishongora igihe ibyatsi byari icyatsi, kandi ingimbi zumvise abasaza kandi zifasha guhindura nyirarumuhanda. Ariko abana bariho ntibiruta abavutse mumyaka 20-30 ishize. Ni abandi bake. Ariko baracyakeneye kwitabwaho no kwitabwaho, kandi ntibatitotomba kandi bahagurutse.
3. Kwizirika muburyo bumwe
Nibyo, buri gihe ifite imyambarire yayo, ariko rimwe na rimwe ibyiyumvo nuko umuntu yinangiye cyangwa muri 80, cyangwa muri 90. Kandi hano i Gaday - niba ari nostalgia ku rubyiruko rwahamye, niba ubwoba bwa compatatism nshya na terservatism. Nukuri uzi abantu babiri bashaka gutanga kugirango bahitemo ubushakashatsi buke bugaragara.
2. Kujya kuri stereotypes
Hifashishijwe imbuga nkoranyambaga, byabaye byoroshye cyane kumanika ibirango byose. Birashoboka cyane ko uyumunsi yari izina "yazahem". Kubera iyo mpamvu, abagore bafite abana bakunze kuba ikintu cyo kwirinda no gushinyagurirwa. Reka na hamwe na mama icyarimwe wasabwe kandi umwana yitwara neza.
1. Erekana umukozi wa "biro y'amasezerano yaturikiye"
Emera, ntanumwe muri twe ukunda mugihe ikikije gitangiye gukora ikintu "kubwinyungu zacu." Nukuri, benshi bafite abantu babiri bafite abantu babiri, bazumva inama zabo ndetse bakumva nkuyobora mubikorwa. Ariko iyo abanyamahanga bazamutse mubuzima bwacu - birasa byibuze bidasanzwe.
Ndabaza ingeso zibabaza zishobora no kugusunika kure yumuntu wa hafi?