Greetings! In touch, Alexander Mikhailovich. I am a psychologist-practitioner, I am in the project of the male forum on the development, restoration of family relations, and the return of girls / wives.
Usually at the beginning of relations, a man is always in a strong position (dominant-presenter). A woman stretches to him, is afraid of losing him. But as soon as a man falls in love again, he begins to get better to the partner, he loses his strong position, begins to be dependent on the person and automatically becomes weak.
The balance of relationship itself leads to an even greater change in the balance of significance. A man begins to try to return the woman whose value he suddenly realized. He makes a lot of action to return to the lost comfort zone. To do this, he makes a lot of errors: it makes hysterics, makes a large number of goals from below, it is humiliated asking for a chance. But his attempts to return to the woman who threw his woman turns only to failure ...
A man does not understand that all these goals will not help him back to his beloved, on the contrary, they give it away from the successful final.
Change of inversion of significance (return to the position of the leader)To make the inverse inversion of importance and return yourself to the position of the leader - a man needs to act and act from the opposite. That is, to stop the different kind of humiliation and "goals below". In the break of the relationship to reptile a woman and start to treat it exactly as it belongs (even colder). If the partner begins to distance, then you also need to start moving away. And Ideally go to ignore and create a "informational vacuum" - it will make a woman thinking about a man, worry, bored.
This method can provoke it to ping to a man. A man certainly is not to be kept on the first pings, this is a kind of checking "Leash". It is necessary to stay inaccessible and wait for more weighty actions. In order to achieve Cambak, and this is a kind of and there is a change in the inversion of significance. If the woman itself is inserted into the restoration of relations, then it appreciates a man, hence he is in a strong position. It is in the one in which he should be.
Very important point ...There are cases when a man located in a weak position, with the help of a large number of arrivals from below, was able to return the woman back. It should be understood that such relationships have a life expectancy, extremely small. A woman will not perceive a man as a dominant, she will be leading and she will not care for a man, she will not be considered his opinion, she will not obey Him. She will be exactly as long as he continues to give her any kind of "nishtyaki" with the help of which he was able to return it as soon as a man stops giving it that she was wondering - she would easily leave him. Such relationships live a maximum of 1-3 months.
Let's summarize:Inversion of significance can occur in any pair. There are even a couple that get off with this model and continue to conduct a relationship, only in their relationships now the woman is ruled, not a man (matriarchy). But if you are not ready for such a business model, or do not want you to be thrown, then lower the significance of a woman and start moving away from it, according to the result, the balance will be restored. And also follow the whole balance in relationships, do not lower it and do not increase it.
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