The candidate bakery period, alas, lasts long. Many couples have a beautiful courting of a partner and expensive gifts, unfortunately, are a kind of advertising company that ends as soon as the girl "pecks the hook" and got on the net.
Once the couple begins to live together, many men relax, and all these royal courtship disappear somewhere. Flowers only on holidays and for birthday at best, many women complain. But the girlfriend is a Sveta's girlfriend every day bothers with flowers, then gifts are expensive, then he took the rest, then the fur coat gave the fur coat, then the car.
Of course, every family has its own finances, and how much money does a man can allocate for her beltenious. But still, according to psychologists, there are a couple of techniques that will help make a man give you gifts.
And today in the magazine we will tell you how to make it starting to give you gifts
Girls, take yourself a note!
1. Learn to appreciate all his gifts.
And it doesn't matter how long he gave you the same bracelet on your first anniversary or some trifle for home. Remember all the things presented to them with admiration and praise. "What a beautiful necklace you gave me! And how it comes to my dress! "
If it is some kind of kitchen device, each time it is used, admire it easier for you and helps in the farm. If this is a bouquet of flowers, then take it worthy. "This is my favorite flowers. You did not forget, dear! " And then take a picture of the bouquet. So you will understand that you really liked the gift, the partner was not mistaken with the choice and delivered you pleasure. So you motivate and inspire your chosen one and pamper you even more.
2. Ask CouncilOften, men do not give gifts to their chosenses for the simple reason that they are afraid to guess and not please their taste. But you can help them in this. Choosing yourself something, perfume, underwear, clothes, always ask his council regarding the color, style, fragrance. So you show what you are considered with his opinion and at the same time hinting what you need. A careful man will understand such a thin hint on your part and will definitely present you a surprise, giving exactly what you needed.
3. Be grateful and show admiration for its generosity.
Even if your partner is not used to to show generosity and give you gifts, find another reason to thank him for something. It can be any sense of attention and care for you, for example, a delicious breakfast, washed dishes, coffee bed or banal chocolate, purchased in the store.
When you notice and encourage his attention sign to you, care and generosity, he wants to do it again and again.
But the reproaches and injuries in greed and inattention is better to avoid. Otherwise, the risk of staying both without his attention and without a gift.
4. Men love gifts tooIn relations should be intrigue, game, romance. As a rule, for it in a pair meets an even account as a woman and a man. So do not be afraid to take the initiative in your hands and give him a gift first. So you create a mood, show an example of how you would like to build your relationship in a pair. Especially if you are with your loved one for a long time in marriage, and a presented bouquet is perceived by both sides as an empty waste of money.
But to create an atmosphere of surprise, it is not necessary to spend large amounts of money. It may be some trifle, for example, a note left on the fridge with the words "I love you, dear!", Or an interesting weekend, and maybe just a delicious dinner, prepared with love and brought to him in the office. Make it with pleasure and in every action put the whole soul and your love. Make it "get infected" by this mood and make you Alaverds, thus want to make something pleasant and unexpected in response.
5. Tell the manipulations "No!"
Manipulations negatively act on men. Agree, give gifts when you directly talk about it, not so pleasant.
After the words "If you love me, buy me flowers!" Everyone disappears to prove their love and give something. After all, it will be like a sputter, and not a desire dictated by heart.
In such cases, there are two solutions: it will buy you what you ask for, but it will not be a gift from the pure heart, but a forced measure. Either your behavior will forever make a desire to do something for you.
6. Demonstrate sincere joy to giftsLearn to rejoice in his gifts as a child. It spots men. After all, regardless of age, the little girl who wants to amaze and pamper lives in every girl / woman. Learn, getting a gift, include that very children's immediacy. And as for the child it is important for you should not be the cost of a gift, but the magic of surprise and the emotions herself, which he causes. Therefore, do not rush to get a gift, saying "it's so expensive!" And certainly not "the next time I better give me money, and I myself will buy myself a gift." They do not look at a given horse's teeth. Do not go through gifts, and rejoice in them so sincerely and so childish.
Do you often give your gifts?
Earlier in the magazine, we also wrote: what secrets are hiding in the closet for each of the signs of the zodiac.