Frequently, people are tuned for bad luck. Like, one life is caramel, and I have some flour. They complain about fate, lose faith in yourself, in their bright future and cease to dream. Everyone has disappointments. However, the time heals, and again in sweet dreams the air locks are dreaming.
How to adequately describe your crystal dream? How to make a desire so that it turns out to be scheduled, instead of come true in the next life, at a neighbor, have a friend, anyone, just not you?
First, avoid defocusing. As in a joke.
Once a beggar living in an apartment with a blind mother, for a long time praying to God. Finally, God cleared and said: - Well, I will help you, I will fulfill one wish. Beggar, not thinking: - Thank you, Lord! My only desire is that my poor blind mother can see how my beauty wife puts on the neck of my beloved daughter a diamond necklace in a luxurious car parked near the pool of my gorgeous mansion on his own island!So does not work. Either love, or wealth, or health, or creative implementation. Choose something one to start. The rest will inevitably tighten. As they say, "Kogotok was stuck, the whole bird of the meat."
First Rule: Formulate the desire is extremely specifically.
How much do you hang in grams? If you crave health improvements, then how do you feel that your desire come true? You disappear headaches and cuts in the stomach, stops torturing insomnia, you wake up every day in a good mood, is irritable, the decline will replace the tide of energy?
What improvements do you order your psychoanalyst, universe, creator, Guardian Angel, Santa Claus or Domyanka Kuzka?
No matter what you attract help from. Absolutely purple, to whom and what you believe. The main thing is that your desire to be formulated unequivocally and excluded its dual interpretation.
Another important point. Your desire should concern only you without disturbing the personal borders of others. That is, instead of gagging "I want, the daughter finally got married," it will better work such a formulation of desire: "I am happy with the successful choice of your daughter and her happy marriage."
And the second rule: the desire is better to formulate as if it was already fulfilled. Without any doubt in his realism.
Because only what you believe in what you believe. Believe sure. Unconditionally. 100%.
And now the third rule. Always try to enjoy and avoid tension.
Life is not a struggle, but pleasure! And everything that strains you, eliminate your attention from your sphere.
Mom you were brutally deceived, reading you on the night of a terrible story about Gul Korolev and Pavka Korchagin. Personal growth coaches mistakenly urge you to leave the comfort zone instead of expanding it. This propaganda is suitable for masochists.
If you want to live long and happily, keep the clarity of mind and vital energy, then throw out the TV, read a storage room.ru and other sources of optimistic perception of the external and inner world.
Implement your dreams and get rid of stereotypes! Listen to your heart and make only what you in the buzz!
Author - Elena Kazantseva
Source - Springzhizni.ru.