Yes, yes. That's right - I am always on the side of children, and not only your ...
Yes Yes. That's right - I am always on the side of children, and not only your own. When I hear from adults: "This boy is a fool", I really want to answer them absolute reciprocity.
I sincerely believe that the child has the right to an unconscious mistake, and an adult (with respect to children) - no. Everything is simple: adults have already ever been to children, but the children are still adults. The child will only know this world: he hears, sees and copies the behavior of the elders. His family and the nearest environment and there are examples from which he takes a direct example.
If the child swears, tormented animals, throws garbage past the urn - who is to blame?
If the child calls his peers, pumped his finger in full, swells the turns to the minibus - who is to blame?
If a girl considers himself a rivory, is afraid to communicate with his friends, with tears goes shopping clothes - who is to blame?
If the boy believes that he must certainly give a pass, to be a "man" and not to be "Baba" - who is to blame?
Naturally, all the wines is entirely and completely lies on his parents or people responsible for his health and upbringing. We, adults, create all the above situations, and then ourselves are surprised by such ignorance and rudeness.
Look at yourself! And now think and answer the question: "Do not you lead yourself too?" Whether you are not talking to your loved ones, if you do not specify a finger on the "fatty cows", do not sway to the bus with the words "I left here", whether the phone is not thrown by the phone, summarizing your action "Well, you will regret" ... ...
Children take everything from an adult world, everything without a rest. They are naive, trusting and from nature of good. And these are adults, make themselves like this, putting cruelty, distrust and malice. These are adults, let them allow them to try this world to try, justifying their actions with the notorious socialization and entry into reality. We send our sons to the army, sincerely believing that they will teach them there ... It is we make a choice for them and accept (often incorrect) decisions.
You see, the universal world does not exist. We are all different. We are all different. I am very sad and insulting when the inattention and indifference of adult uncle and aunt leads to real tragedies. After all, nothing happens suddenly, no rubbish sticks in an instant. In total there is a term and only have reasons.
But to us, adults, it is easier to fit all under one standard, it is easier to justify their inaction than to make themselves explain to something and try to figure out something. We do not know how we can, we did not teach it. After all, we were all ever with children, but adults each time.