I am directly affecting how much now there are all sorts of courses on the topic "How to keep a man", "how to return the husband", "how to seduce it once and forever" and so on to attract and hold male attention.
But how many such stories already had such stories, which seems to be a clever and beauty and is preparing cool and ready for all experiments, and the man still gone and found another.
I also defeated and thought how so?! And why didn't he have been enough? While I did not dare.
Men can be preparing perfectly, wash and clean themselves. Just until it makes a woman, they do not need to do this. Even if you are sure that your husband has no idea how the stove turns on, you are very mistaken. He will very quickly understand this if suddenly need it! So when a woman thinks he will not live without her day, she is very mistaken. But even stronger, she is mistaken when it begins to apoxy. That without her he will not be able to anything. Here from such men run immediately and forever.
I had a friend from which my husband was gone. She also thought that he was not capable of anything. And how he left immediately and the job found better and learned to be prepared, and earned more. In general, won in all indicators. And I don't even condemn him. Think ourselves, it's nice to live with a man who would tell you every day: "Yes, you are without me!". Immediately, I want to get up, leave and show what else like "who"!
But a woman who can inspire a man will never leave. He will do everything in spite of everything for her. Therefore, if you do not want your man to leave, learn not to reproach him that he cannot, but inspire him so that he can do everything! And believe me, he can everything and make for and for you!
Here are some lifehakov:
- Pronounced quiet and affectionately, please perceive much better than reproaches and requirements.
- It is unlikely in adult uncle you can change something. It's easier to find another man.
- For some reason, I come across more and more often with the fact that the woman is always waiting for actions from a man, and he does nothing herself. I assure you men, too, love attention!
- Respect his self-esteem. If he is not right, tell him about it personally, when you are alone.
- If you perceive it as something below the plinth, then why are you at all with him next? Even about love here there is no point in talking. It is most likely not. And no love? It is unlikely that you can inspire it for something.
- If for you the ironing of his shirt is an unpleasant duty, not an act of concerns, it is better not to smooth it at all.
Such valuable in our time feeling like love and care are generally creating miracles. If you begin to take care of him, he will start to do the same thing and you will again return this candy-bakery period, which may have already long passed. And I personally think that he should not pass, and love and care should always be present. And here 50% of responsibility lies on a woman! Well, the remaining 50 will pick up your man.
Imagine, he did not give flowers for a long time. And here you are offended during the next quarrel shouting: "Yes, you didn't give me colors for a hundred years." He will not give. Calked. And if passing by Flower Timo sigh: "What beautiful roses, my favorite ..." Very soon the cherished bouquet will have on the table. Perhaps this is a very banal example, but it works everything. At least this tactic never failed!
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