Statistics say that more than 130 thousand children adopted in the United States, from which parents refused. Usually children will not know who their biological mother and dad. In many states, the law provides that parents who abandoned the child cannot subsequently find out what family he lives, and who adopted him. But in the state of Pennsylvania, the law allows children to receive information about their real parents, which made them on the light.
We will tell the story, as in 35 years old, the mother who refused son, met with her child.
Non-easy decision of a 15-year-old mother
American girl Stacy Fakes learned about her pregnancy when she was only 15 years old. She had several outlets from a predicising position: to bring up a child or to give to adoptive parents. Stacy thought for a long time, but still came to the conclusion that the baby would be better in another family, where he would love and educate people who consciously want to become parents. The girl understood that he would not be able to grow crumb, because she herself was still, in fact, was a child. The boy was really lucky, because he grew up in a family where love and care was presented.
Son is looking for biological mom
The son of Stacy Fakes is Calling Stephen Stroj. He grew up with a worthy person, went to serve in the American army, lives in Pennsylvania, in the city of Pittsburgh. Reception parents never hid themselves that Stephen is not their native son. The boy since childhood was reflected, who his real mother, why she threw him, and in adolescence Stephen began to think what kind of mother could find.
In 2017, the law state of Pennsylvania was revised regarding the adoption, which was able to receive information about their biological parents with refuses.As soon as Stephen found out that he could get the desired information, he immediately recognized the name of a woman who made him on the light. At that time, Stacy Fakes lived in Ohio. Stephen found the mother's purse in the social network, and then wrote her a message. He doubted, whether the woman was found, so asked if she did not give a child 35 years ago for adoption to another family. Stacy replied affirmatively, and then Stephen said that, perhaps he was the boy, who at the beginning of the 80s a woman gave birth, and then gave to another family.
The long-awaited meeting of the Son and Mother
Surprisingly, the son and mother who never communicated, found a lot of common interests. For example, they both head branches of an organization that supports American veterans. Stacy and Stephen were going to take part in Pittsburgh Marathon. A man decided to arrange a stacy surprise on the marathon, for which journalists and organizers of the event attracted. Before the race, Stephen handed the Stacy note, where it was written, how many days she had not seen her son from the moment of birth. While the woman with a bewilder read a postcard, the son quietly came up behind. Stacy turned and immediately felt that a stateless, handsome man, who stands in front of her - her native son. For the first time, Stacy was able to hug an adult son.
How did events develop?
Stephen met the daughters of Stacy, who were glad that they had a native brother. The family gathered at the marathon and could not part, because it was necessary to say to each other so much. Then Stacy with children were sitting in the restaurant for a long time, where they could not speak. A woman with a newly acquired son and daughters even planned a joint holiday on the sea.
The touching meeting of the adult son and the biological mother shook the American public. They talked about this story from the TV screens, wrote on the Internet. Stacy appealed to parents who for any reason took a difficult decision to send a child to adopt someone else's people. After years, they have the opportunity to learn how their son or daughter lives. The main thing is not to lose hope for the long-awaited meeting.