Fairy tales in which the heroes wake up mutual feelings to each other, usually end with the phrase "and they lived happily ever after." But in life everything can work out otherwise: after some time, one of the partners can begin to feel completely exhausted and exhausted. But the other on his background will look blooming, like a May rose. Well, if the affected side is noticed in time that his second half behaves, to put it mildly, selfishly, and will find courage to stop communicating.
We in adme.ru with a fading heart read the revelations of people who were able to get out of unhealthy relations. And you know, we wound a lot on our mustache.
- My ex saying to me something unpleasant, and then sighed: "Oh God, you are so gentle. I never thought I was meeting with such a sensitive guy. " Now I understand that it was necessary to immediately escape from these relationships. © Forevermonsta / Reddit
- Of course, you can slightly tease each other. But if one partner constantly raises the other, and even in public, so that the humiliation is more accurate, then this is a disturbing signal. © DEARPRINESSAMY / REDDIT
- They do something wrong or roll the scandal, and then manage to ask for forgiveness so that you understand: In what happened, it was your wine ("I would not be angry if you knew how to make normal meatballs!"). © Casual-Notice / Reddit
- My former guy could go with me to some public event and frankly staring at other women. What should I do? Sit down and stupid look? No, bro. There are many other dudes who know how to treat their girlfriend with respect. © GoldenLoxe / Reddit
- My former roared in front of me a million times. I dispersed in her presence only a couple of times in a truly difficult period of my life. And then she told her sisters about it and ridiculed me. I learned a lesson and now I never show anything that I have in my soul. © deezx1010 / Reddit
- It will be near 24/7. I remember, I began to go to the courses of cosmetologists, and my boyfriend was waiting for me in the morning and up to 5 pm. He tried every time to please me when he met after classes. Then it seemed to me that it was so romantic. But in fact he just wanted to know where I am and what I do. © 1me2rulethemall / Reddit
- Only after the divorce it turned out that I actually prepare well. And in relationships, I have been hinted every day for the fact that the cook of me is no. © Rumdiary / Reddit
- My boyfriend always said: "Yes, I am. I can't change and do not know what you want from me. " I constantly had to give up and make compromises. After 3 years of such relationship, I realized that I had not changed not for the better and from the present I had little left. © RevolutionAkittens / Reddit
- They love to argue because of all the little things. My former was very crowded due to the fact that I set the air conditioning "not to that temperature." A few days later we had another scandal: this time, because I appealed to the waiter. Only after our parting, I realized how hard I was in this relationship. © hopkirkdecesed / reddit
- I shouted at me when I woke up, washed, I prepared dinner, I was engaged in cleaning or returned home. The only place where I could relax was work. On weekday, she woke up before me and adhered to politics "if I get up, then you have nothing to sleep." I was wake-up light or shouts "Wake up!". I felt exhausted and because of the lack of sleep was similar to Zombies. © Fallengel152 / Reddit
- If a person admits that everyone with whom he met to you was incredibly bad people, and you "the first who treat him well", be careful. Those who are unable to take responsibility for their behavior are often spoken about this and understand that many conflicts provoke himself. Although it pulls to regret such an sufferer. © Villalalaesi / Reddit
- If you indulge them, they will quickly take control of all your life: where you can go, who to talk to and even to whom to see. Further will be more cooler: it turns out that you are talking too much (as an option - you don't tell you about anything), you laugh are loudly, cook badly ... Very soon you forget about who you are and what you can be a happy man. © BraveEntertainer / Reddit
- And they often try to control finances. For example, they can make a person throw a job and start paying his bills. The calculation is simple: if the partner does not work, it is dependent and can hardly break the relationship. © PinkFlower200 / Reddit
- I pay attention to how a person copes with small failures. If he breaks away because of the cooled food or your 5-minute late, then better run. And I always spend a simple, but very important test. I check how the guy will react to a single word - "no". If there is a stormy reaction, and even in humans, do not try to find him justification and tie with these relationships. © Peligrosapistola / Reddit
- At the beginning of the relationship there may be a real bombing of love. He buys you tickets for an exotic island or hands a dear gift and says: "No one has ever called me such feelings." But at the same time you meet some pair of weeks. So this man is trying to quickly bind you to himself. Do not be afraid to say that you are not ready yet. Adequate person will always understand you. © karaethon22 / reddit
- My former guy you had to meet in the supermarket, and I reminded him to take a pre-compiled shopping list from the house. He forgot about it. Nothing terrible, except that he said as if I called him too late when he had already left the house. But I knew exactly what it was not. He lied to me in the face not to take responsibility. I slept like a paddle with my eyes, and I began to constantly notice his lies about and without. As a result, in six months, our 6-year-old relations were completely destroyed. © DEARPRINESSAMY / REDDIT
- The partner constantly checks your phone and social networks. You wake up, numerous angular SMS are pop up on the screen, alerts about missed calls, and your messengers are filled with voice messages like "How could you fall asleep when I had to talk with you?!"? Congratulations, you will love. © noodlyarms / reddit
- You calmly talk, and a person suddenly takes something to his account and offended. A little later, he will definitely remember this and will easily spin you on the scandal, and you will be forced to justify because of some nonsense. © dontcough / reddit
- My former often asked me questions about my previous relationships. At first I thought he was just curious and he wanted to make sure that he did not repeat other people's mistakes. But he used this information in order to manipulate me and blame me. © Yoyoheel73 / Reddit
- Be sure to pay attention to how the partner reacts when you are happy to promote the service or award. Does he want to celebrate this event or offended you and inflated? © Dark_Blue_7 / Reddit
- The first sign that my friends got into toxic relationships are their desire to constantly justify the actions of their chosen. © Sarudesu / Reddit
- Such people can get to the place of your meeting for 2 hours, although they themselves live literally a 15-minute drive. This is a serious "bell", which shows that a person does not appreciate someone else's time and absolutely does not respect you. © FROLICKING_TREX / REDDIT
- I corresponded with a guy in the app for dating and told him that I would not be available over the next week, because I need to deal with some matters. He knew that I had no time to answer, but on the same day I began to throw me messages, and then I also tried to take a video call. Later he apologized, but this behavior is clearly not a very good sign. © Aastha1310 / Reddit
And you had to get into the relationship, where did you need to endure and fake for another person? How did you cope with this situation?