"Evil Mommy" and a thousand reasons for tears: users of Rudita discussed what age of their children they remember with shudder and why everyone likes the infancy so much.
If you ask any parent, what was the most terrible age of his child, his answer will be unpredictable. Someone was worst in the period of infancy - with sleepless nights, peeled diapers and cries of Pterodactil, someone - at the time of Toddlerism (hello, hysterics and constant "Net!"), And someone thinks that 6-7 years When a child already seems to be intelligent, but not yet - this is a judge torture.
One way or another, one thing about how the age of the child is given to his parents worse than everything, does not exist. With the "best" age exactly the same confusion. However, it is often possible to encounter the opinion that infancy is the most wonderful age of the child. Like, there is a zucchini, touchingly rulite, looks at his parents in love with his eyes - and no willing to you and the "puppy patrol".
The User of Randit Strawberrymochi144 decided to deal with the causes of nostalgia, with which most parents remember the infant years of their child and created a thread with the question:
People who say that infant phase is their most beloved: what's wrong with you? I can not understand.Are you masochists, just don't remember anything or lie? My child is almost a year. And although he is just charm, it is very difficult with him!
He eats and pokes six times a day. He is trying to push everything he sees himself in his mouth. He began to run early, so I have to conceive him constantly. He often throws food. Happy he sleeps no more than an hour. He still wakes up at night. What do you want to tell me that it will be even more difficult?
During the day, the question received more than 700 replies, which partly help to explain the parental love for pinking babies, and also give the opportunity to look at every children's age at a different angle. Translated some of them.
Every time I mentally darely laughing, when parents of babies say: "It's so hard, they wake up all night, now they crawl, now go," and so on.
Well, yes, wait until they become adolescents and start walking with friends, and you will not sleep all night because they do not answer the phone, but you cannot fall asleep until they return. And I know that I'm talking about, I have six children. I would really like to become babies again.
MiodioChacazzo.
I'm not a fan of infancy, and now I am much happier as a parent of a preschooler than I was in the role of a parent of a baby. But for some inexplicable reason, we simply need to start a second child, and .... pancake.
Babies are very cute. They have stupid chubby and soft calves that still work well. They make terrible and very funny sounds. It's simple with them. And they grow so fast.
My eldest son was a baby Million years ago. My second is almost half a year. But I am sure that he was born yesterday.
gluestic_ttc.
Toddlers are those still rascals. These are tiny terrorists who capture your home.I am ready for a million newborns. But I will not endure Toddlers. That is, I am ready to grow a child from birth to the moment he starts to walk, and then I would give it to someone until he had been ten years old, and then I am ready to do it again.
brain_fried_over_med.
I think that this is a selective memory: on the one hand, the lack of sleep distorts the memories, on the other hand, it is partly connected with evolution - people much better remember the cute hugs and worse remember difficulties. Well, some other personal features.
Inannaspocket.
It does not become more difficult, just children cease to be so cute. I thought about the same when our child was fulfilled a year. Now I know: Infancy is most likely the most difficult period, but also the best too.
You are a whole world for your child, and every time his eyes light up at the sight of you, you understand that one day you will miss all the souls.
DietDrdoomsDayPreppr.
Yes, then it becomes more difficult. Just wait until the child tells you that you are "angry mommy," because you do not allow him there is candies for breakfast. But the infant period I do not have the most beloved, I liked the gap between 1.5 and 2.5 years old - before the children learn to lie and still love to hug.
Oooozes.
I have children from each age group. And the infant period is my most beloved. Yes, he is not the easiest, but it is accurately simpler than communication with the girls of preformed age.
Mamabear0596
I was delighted when my child was newborn. And now, when I think about it, I am a hundred percent sure that it was in my perfectionism. I admit, I had not the worst newborn. None of them had colic or other problems, and I also recognize that, probably, everything would be different if I had other children.
But the time when I had a baby and a newborn, was the only time when I felt like an ideal parent.Every time they cried, I took them on my hands. I constantly fed them, hugged, I swore and disguised them. That's all I did.
Nimuelovescoffee.
I also thought so as long as I had a second child, and the older was not three. Now 90 percent of cases with a baby turns out to be much easier than with a three-year one. With the baby everything is easy, everything is predictable and on schedule. My husband and I will practically quarrel due to the one who will take care of the baby.
Love_in_Store.
With babies easier. Lord, as I miss that time. They have six needs from strength. If they cry, they either want to eat, or they have gases, or they need to hug or they are tired. And it is easy to figure it out.
And then they appear a thousand reasons for tears. They appear more needs, it becomes more difficult with them. Yes, they learn to speak, but they are extremely rarely rational and clearly explain what they need.
CloudYpi.
I am sure that our brain is arranged so that we forget about everything and give birth more children. I adore my five-year plan, and after her teeth finished cutting, we were very easy with her. But I'm definitely not ready to go through these endless nights with sobbing.
Katsa_hoy94.
It seems to me that every age is terrible, and at the same time the best, depending on what to watch.
Kristywempe.
Yes, it becomes more difficult. (I am a teenager's parent. It's much more difficult). If I could solve all his problems, feeding him, wiped him to him and shocked him until he fell asleep ... Oh yeah, please!
Potentialreindeer.
In the thread you can find comments in favor of the most different ages: someone prefers a phase when the child is in a wonderful zucchini state, and someone more like an explosive Toddlers, who can already explain something and come up with. Judging by the commentary, the most difficult to the parents of adolescents. And what child age do you have the most favorite?
