There are people with whom it is easy and simply to keep the relationship. But it happens that, in the circle of our friends, friends or even relatives, a person appears, with which it becomes extremely difficult to establish a full-fledged dialogue. The reason for this may be its incessant complaints of life, eternal ridicule or insurmountable love for gossip.
In adme.ru risked to allocate several habits, with the owners of which many of us would not like to maintain any relationship.
10. Make it all incomprehensible
Surely you have repeatedly come across people who are trying to hide their confusion and uncertainty. Sometimes they feel so uncomfortable that they can pounce on you with aggressive comments in the style "What is the smartest?" The problem is that such behavior scares people who could really help get used in an unfamiliar atmosphere and even tell something useful and interesting.
9. Blaw others in their problems
Each of us can say: "Yes, I had to be difficult at such years." But some are able to easily and simply shift the responsibility for their "bitter share" on another person - the former spouse, the evil chief or envious colleagues. But other people's complaints are rapidly rapidly and people who have previously listened carefully will gradually begin to gather and find a more pleasant interlocutor.
8. Do not perceive seriously younger people
Now even young people do not always have time to follow the novelties, what to say about the people of the old school. But this does not mean that they must regularly report others that the eggs chicken are not taught. Nowadays, more young colleagues often take on the role of mentors for the older generation and help to master new technologies and modern work techniques.
7. To let the surrounding dust in the eyes
It happens that some people completely lose the face between real life and a glossy picture on social networks. They joyfully create an image of a happy wife and mother or a fatal handsome man, but at the same time they completely forget to pump themselves in reality, they are experiencing difficulties during live communication and determine their (and at the same time someone else's) success of likes and subscribers.
6. Keep everything under non-gravity control
A person who has all the surrounding literally go on Struck, is really not easy to let the brazers of the board. He all the time it seems that without constant control of his careless relatives, friends or colleagues will be turned over everything, they will disassemble, they will not be launched and worst their lives in the toilet. But maybe sometimes still it is necessary to exhale and relax?
5. Collect gossip and pump all bones
During communication with some people you feel like a scout on enemy territory and trying not to break anything superfluous. Just because any careless word will immediately be used against you, and the discussion of your "defects" will begin even before the door slam. Perhaps that is why many of us try to avoid too active gossip.
4. Persistently firmly, which used to be better
Of course, you can sigh of the time when the grass was greener, and the teenagers had heard the elders and helped to translate grandmothers across the road. But the current children are no worse than those who were born 20-30 years ago. They are just a little others. But they still need attention and care, and not grumbling and quarry.
3. To cling to the same style
Yes, each time has its own fashion, but sometimes the feeling is that someone is stubbornly stuck or in the 80s, or in the 90s. And here I gaday - whether it is nostalgia for the departed youth, whether the fear of new and terry conservatism. Surely you know a couple of people who want to offer to decide on small experiments with appearance.
2. To go on the stereotypes
With the help of social networks, it became much easier to hang out all sorts of labels. Probably the most offensive of them today was the nickname "Yazhem". As a result, women with children are often becoming an object for oblique looks and ridicule. Let even mom at the same time superate and kid behave perfectly.
1. Depicting an employee of the "Bureau of Non-Coven Soviets"
Agree, none of us loves when the surrounding begin to actively do something "for our own good." Surely, many have a couple of people, they will listen to whose advice and even perceive as a guide to action. But when strangers climb into our life - it looks at least strange.
I wonder what annoying habits can even push you away from the closest person?