"Everybody told us that we were finishing that the family will fall apart that the men are not intended for this": Moms told about partnership experiences.

Many women note that the support of the partner in childbirth helped them very much. And others dreamed of staying alone at this moment and glad that no one had seen them except doctors.

The author of the blog doma_posle_roddoma Julia drew a comic about how men react in different ways to offer partnerships. For example, the author's husband easily agreed, and the girlfriend decided that the idea was not a fountain, but gave way and eventually it was even caused to cut the umbilical. In the comments to the post, women shared their experiences.

Basically these are stories about how everything went a little not according to plan

Oh, we had fun. My husband is strictly setting to the headboard standing. Showing the head and midwife to her husband: "Oh, what a hairy, do not want to see?" Curtain. So my husband saw everything.

Die_Huebsche_frau.

The first gods were without a husband. I remember how there was a broken, without understanding what was happening. The second with her husband is like heaven and earth. My business was to relax and do not think about anything. The rest was on the husband. And it was a paradise!

True, we also agreed that there would be no coupon himself, but the doctor just managed to offer, so he fled down, what and where to cut! As a result, it turned out to be at the very place "x", was happy that was able to take part in the birth of the Son, and not only in his "creation".

Sweet_KO20.

Partnerships. I do not even know how I managed without such support. This is an incredible support! We went to prepare together, learned to breathe together, my husband learned to make a massage and all that. After the birth, together lay in her ward with the baby, all three, hugged and rested. And the child slept at the dad on the bare of Torso.

Cobra_DI

It was the best - her husband in childbirth.

Ekaterinacady.

I am without a husband HZ as it would be, I did not give up, on the one side a dropper, with another cuff for a pressure of two thirds, I could not really care. So he poked me, and the doctors called, and helped to turn over, we really didn't talk about five hours and did not talk about (I was not able to answer, but sometimes I tried to joke something), I wipe my forehead. All the time I was sitting at the head of the head, the head refused when they were offered to cut the umbilical cord, the beginning began to fit a little, and in the end I cut.

And, by the way, who says that the husband is a praiseous, will not survive - my most disgusting, nothing, survived. Then two hours laughed, they spoke, without him I would not have done. And yes, everyone told us both that we were over, that the family will fall apart that men are not intended for this, etc.

Evgenia_Gvozdikova.

We initially did not plan partnerships. But when they came to give birth, the husband said: "What am I going to go home now?" He was with me before the start of the dug. Entertained, brought water.

And when the child climbed, he began to pale, and the doctors were offered to wait in the corridor. I was only "for". As soon as the son was born, her husband immediately called. When I started heded, the child was shifted to her husband's chest. For me it turned out the perfect option.

Morgen5Tern.

They gave birth with her husband first. He was afraid a little, yes, it is powerless that nothing can do. I washed with water, I kept my hand and all that. The second birth - said that he would also be present, but we prepare better, so that the lower back was massaged and did not worry so much, and then after night I had seen after the first birth.

Skvoyoga.

The husband was on the second birth. It's fine. I was glad and quickly joined in life with two children. Always tells me that I also born my son.

Tatiana_Vashurkina.

I just learned in a year that my husband cord cut. When happily told someone that she was tough, like a hose.

Anna_indralieva.

Only for partnerships! Reported initially, we will be together. How the fights are frequent, I tried to merge, for and nauseous, and muttered from the nerves. And then I went to the doctor, she announced his team voice that she would only give birth with dads. Gave Tsu: Massage to do, water, keep here, and my husband has switched. Although I apologized for a hundred times, I will not stand and wait outside the door. In the end, I saw everything, the first shouted: "I see !!! I see the head, this is my daughter! " - Glowing and sobbed from happiness.

And all friends - and they strongly told: "What men do there?! Brought, then at the discharge took, "- now hesitates:" You do not understand! You missed the most beautiful in your life, the birth of your child. " And on my part it is a huge support, because Doctors simply came and left, they still find them, do not cope, would not have done without her husband for sure!

Thebarteneva.

I live in Korea, there are 90 percent partnerships, it's as ok. Why would Daphache faint to fall? He stands at the head, does not look into the vagina. I gave birth with my husband and then lay in the ward for patients with husbands. I do not know what I would do without him, he helped me very much.

Alyona_Kwon

Of course, there are always those for whom the presence of anyone, except for the medical staff, is unacceptable in childbirth

After 21-hour birth, I lay and thought that glory to God didn't see God! I would be honest, I also would not want to attend, but I did not ask me.

bloggers_for_moms.

I still remember this terrible condition and the desire "If I just left me all behind!". Not forgotten. Son 1.9.

Makanushka.

It happens that the husband is initially opposed, but in the process everything changes

My also was originally against partnerships. Then he listened to the courses with me and said that he would be near the fights, but it would come to the sweat (the doctor also said that her husband could miss it). But it turned out that he was with me to the end than incredibly proud of. He said that if he had gone "all family values ​​would give."

nina_brilevich

If you are still not sure, to take a husband for childbirth, read the stories from first of mouth: here men tell how they decided on partnerships that they felt in the process and would go to childbirth, if I had to.

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