Competently plan your budget - the lesson is very difficult. And it is not surprising that not all cope with it. Surely you have repeatedly met with lovers to "intercept before paying" or with people who "right now ₽ 50, and then the phone will block." And the saddest thing is that many of them safely forget about busy money and even indignant when reminding them of debt.
We are in adme.ru, of course, we understand that anything happens in life. But there is a feeling that some of the heroes of this selection has long forgotten what conscience is and a sense of responsibility.
- A year and a half ago we had a little money after the sale of the car. $ 1,500 decided to borrow my parents for a couple of months. No one doubted return. But how do they do it! Come and why they pay for us. For the repair of the car, for example, brought money to a hundred straight into the hands of employees. It turns out, we are given only on "useful and necessary" things. We are adults uncle with aunt, 2 children, in their apartment, do not ask for food for food. What are our relationship with them now, I even find it difficult to answer. © Tinangloss / Pikabu
- The husband lent his classmate money for repairs. Gave cash. After a while he returns a couple of thousand fewer to the card. It turns out that he has detected a commission for the translation from debt. © Olga Olga Orekhovskaya / Facebook
- With your future husband, I removed the apartment - cheap and killed, as there was no money especially. They began to put it in order to put it in order, the wallpaper was overlap (at least inexpensive, but new). And all this time we had the neighbors from below: it is only for us from the chair to get up, they fled, called, swear that we were too noise. It continued until they were asked for a debt ₽ 500. Over the kindness of the sourer decided to give. And since then we have never seen them! It was the most successful attachment ₽ 500 in my life. © Cristina K / ADME
- A friend took about $ 70. After some time I asked him if he could return money to me, because I needed to do some urgent payments. After 15 minutes, he told me that he sent the translation. But I did not come from the payment system. As a result, it turned out that this balloise all confused and instead of throwing money to my account, tied to the phone number, replenished my balance on the SIM card on the same $ 70. © Sumit Shirawta / Quora
- I have a familiar Vitaly. Of these people who, at 12 o'clock at night, need urgent ₽ 57, as it is not enough for something important. Stably once every 2 days tries to take my minor amounts. But always gives, so I cut down, although it got a little. Once he asked me to throw off for the phone ₽ 20, such as missing money to connect the Internet. I say: "On the map of only ₽ 14, if you help, then skill." It leads counting, and it turns out that he is just enough. There it was necessary to have something like ₽ 13.65. I translate money and forget about him safely. After 3 minutes, SMS comes: "Thank you." For another 5 minutes, he calls and asks: "There is an opportunity to throw another ₽ 2? I sent you SMS - and the money was starred. " Well Vitaly! © Benjamin22 / Pikabu
- Girlfriend took from me $ 200 and has long refused to return them. A few weeks later I asked her to borrow some of the equipment. Since we then worked together, she agreed. When she asked her things back, I replied: "Not a question. You can get them back for $ 200. " That's how I returned my money. © Jane Smythe / Quora
- Getting married. We sit with your parents, make up a list of guests. It comes to the family of the father's sister, and I categorically refuse to invite them. Dad says: "So it is impossible, she is your native aunt." Yes, the birth is not chosen, and if there was such an opportunity, then this lady would fly out of my list of relatives in the first place. Not only did they pull the money from me "in debt," when I studied and received a small scholarship. So she once called on a visit to visit the night and kicked me out, 16-year-old, from his house late in the evening to the frost, when I replied to her next request, I answered that I had no money. Thank you relative! © Overheard / IDeer
- Mother calls me every day to raise, and once a month to take money. This is normal? I myself pay for rent and communal service. I have a cat. I have a boyfriend. And we also need to eat something. If you do not know how to plan your, for a minute, not bad budget, then these are not my problems. © XenonWVW / Twitter
- One of my friend a year ago I took an apartment in a mortgage. He was lacking for the first installment, so lenting everyone who could only. I asked ₽ 40 thousand, promised in half a year to return. It was a year, calling. He says: "I remember, I remember! But we are now repaired, and not simple, but with fiction! Much money leaves. By winter I will return. " Good to people: buy apartments, and now at my expense the repair "with fiction" do. © Silverchiffa / Adme
- A familiar has long taken away from me with a promise to give in a month. And all breakfast feeds. Yesterday I call her with a request to return duty. I am sent in such a way that I am ashamed of the phone. But her page in the social network "Vkontakte", with which she trades footwear, clothes and something else there is registered to one of my phone numbers. Today I went to this page in the morning and changed the password. She called and said I was a sneaky man. He replied that if until 6 pm I won't get my money, I would delete the page. I'm still waiting for the situation to be resolved. © hayabusa3 / Pikabu
- When friends ask things or loan money, you always take pictures with what they lent them. So I remember anything. And when the time comes to return the debt, I just throw it a photo. © Overheard / IDeer
- My mom in Soviet times was left alone with a small child. On the day of salaries, the colleague asked her a decent amount for a scarce female suit, she was going to give in a week. As a result, I did not return anything, saying myself by lack of money. The rest of the colleagues were aware of situations. On the day of the next salary, they set a harmful aunt to the wall and began to shame, they say, do not consist of you: you and your husband, and parents, and she (my mother) alone survives with the child. So, that woman threw his mother's money in the face with the words: "Because of you we stayed without funds!" © Elizaveta Suvorova / Facebook
- 3 years ago, the Son was very ill with the relatives, they had a bad finance, so my parents gave them money deferred to buy a car. Now they have everything it seems. Well, the parents hinted that it was time to think about the return of debt. In response, they were said that this boy is a successor of the family, so his illness was the main problem of the whole family and no one will return money to them. That's how we lose their relatives. © Overheard / IDeer
- I lent € 40 to one friend and € 140 to another, because they then really needed money. And now I see how one boasts in Snapchat, which bought a new 50-inch TV, and the other does not miss any parties. But when I tell them that I am now bad with finances, and I ask you to return the debt, both say that they themselves. That's just the next day, they again lay out their pictures with new purchases. It seems that our relationship will end. © Mutschgi / Reddit
- Favorite husband from the beginning of our relationship constantly lied to me. That is the little things, then in large. Loved and believed. Despair made me climb into the phone and correspondence. But I love - waited, suddenly what will change. The last drop was a credit card, opened by secretly from me, with a debt of 2 of his salary. I expressed everything that I think, reported that in the course of all his lies, gave one and a half months to closing the loan and restoring my trust. And herself no longer know why all this. © Overheard / IDeer
- I had a neighbor Marina. Hashing itself, the husband is a lover of light life and a bunch of children whose number is constantly increasing. I was surprised by the wording with which this young lady regularly turned to me. - Nick, give me a shop soap, and then you need to wash the little diaper ... - Nick, I want to make pancakes for breakfast, give me 3 eggs. - Nick, the eldest daughter was given a ticket to the camp, and she had no swimsuit, I need a little money. The feeling that these are my children I passed her to upbringing. At first I was politely waiting, and then I reminded Marina about the debt. Her surprise was limitless: "And how do I give you? We do not work, and the benefits for food barely enough! " © DELETED USER / ADME
- My brother is a "golden child." Parents constantly gave him things and talked me and my sister do the same. So, the brother took the money from my groom, and I wrapped up and did not warn that it was impossible to do this. Naturally, when the duty return was approached, Brother said that he had no money. Now my fiance wants to sue him, and parents are silent and demand that I break the relationship with this "bad" guy. © Throwraloan / Reddit
And how do you feel about the lovers of money? It happened that you did not return debts?