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Uyazi ukuthi ulahlekelwa kanjani? Ukuze ujabulele indawo yesibili emiqhudelwaneni noma ukukhuluma nakho konke ukuthi into esemqoka akuyona into yokunqoba, kepha ukubamba iqhaza. Futhi ungakhulumi nje, futhi uzizwe ngobuqotho. Jabulela inqubo nemizamo yakho, hhayi umphumela nezindondo
Abantu abaningi abadala bahlala ekucindezelekeni okungapheli, ngoba impilo yabo ingumjaho wokunqoba. Ngithole umklomelo wokuqala - ungaphumuli, ngoba kunemiklomelo emikhulu. Azikho isikhathi kuma-laurels. Kuyashesha, kuqina kakhulu.
Le ndlela yokuphila iyadluliselwa futhi izingane - ifa. Ngithole "ezine" - kungani kungenjalo "ezinhlanu"? Banikeze indima ekudlaleni kwesikole - futhi yini engabalulekile? Wafunda ukudonsa kanye - futhi kuzodingeka ukuthi u-10. Akunandaba ukuthi ingane yakwenza malini, ayilungile ngokwanele, ihlakaniphile ngokwanele, imnandi impela ... ngothando lwabazali.
Mayelana nokuthi kungani kubalulekile ukukwazi ukulahlekelwa
Ukhule, siyaqhubeka nokucabanga ukuthi ungasithanda kuphela ukuthola izimpumelelo. Yebo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi singakwazisa kwamanye ama-diploma, izindondo, izikhundla nezinombolo. Umbuthano ovaliwe, ongaphulwa.
Ababelethi banendlela esheshayo yokwenza. Bheka nje ingane yakho. Futhi ukubona ukuthi uyayithanda noma ngubani - ngamawele, ama-hysteries, ukungcola ngaphansi kwezipikili nokushiswa okulahlekile.
Futhi-ke udinga ukwenza umzamo kuwe, ukugwinya okulandelayo "kungani kungenjalo ..." bese umtshela nje ngothando lwakhe. Nganoma yisiphi isizathu noma ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwawo. Futhi chaza ukuthi kungani kungalungile - hhayi ukwesabeka, futhi uthole indawo emine noma uthathe indawo yesibili - kahle. Ukutshela ukuthi yini umuntu ongaphelele ongaphelele uyinto ejwayelekile.
I-Psychologist kanye noMama wezingane ezine uSvetlana Panin embhalweni afunde ngaleli sonto nezinye izinto eziningi.
Mayelana nembiza, mayelana namazinga nokuthi konke kunesikhathi sako
Lapho ecwiliswa kakhulu esihlokweni sokuba ngumzali, kulapho ubona khona ukuthi umsebenzi oyinhloko wanoma yimuphi umama futhi noma ngubani ubaba uyasebenza kuwe.
Izingane zifunda kithi, zikopishe, zithathe izindinganiso zethu, ukufakwa kanye nezimiso. Futhi sizama ukufuna kubo ngaphezu kwethu. Sifuna ukuthi bahambisane nothile oveziwe afuna ukushushiswa. Sibona ukuthi ukungapheleli kwabo ukunqotshwa kwethu.
Kepha ngolunye usuku sivula amehlo ethu futhi sibone ukuthi ingane yethu ihle kanjani. Hhayi ngenxa yethu, hhayi okuphambene nalokho, kodwa ngokumane - yedwa. Ukuze bonke abe nesikhathi futhi bafunde konke. Futhi okuwukuphela kwento esingaba nayo isikhathi ukujabulela impilo naye ngokulandelayo. Futhi lo mzuzu kuphela lapho siqala ukujabulela ngempela umzali.
Umbhalo webhodwe leJuliana Pettobyanko akayona ngezindlela zokufundisa imbiza hhayi ngemikhuba yobudala. Ukhuluma ngothando lwe-mamina futhi mayelana neqiniso lokuthi konke kunesikhathi sakhe.
Mayelana Nabesilisa, Abesifazane, Isizungu Nokunambitha Ukuphila
Ukusuka engxoxweni mayelana nezwe elingaphakathi, siphendukela endabeni yobudlelwano. Sivame ukukhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi ubudlelwano nabantu bungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zenjabulo. Okokuqala, lo ngumndeni, owesibili - abangane, osebenza nabo, abangane bomngane abathandayo. Konke lokhu kudala umkhathi uhlala kuwo umuntu.
Ngokwesiko, abesifazane batshala imali eningi ekuthuthukisweni nasekugcinweni kobudlelwano. Kwabesifazane, abhubhishelwa nabazali nezingane, abangane abaningi. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, esimweni sesehlukaniso, abesifazane mancane amathuba okuba bade ngokuphelele. Lokhu kwabhalwa yizinkondlo zezingane uMasha Rupasov kubhulogi lakhe. UMasha - isizathu esihle sokucabanga ngama-stereotypes nokuthi umphakathi wethu ushintsha kanjani. Abesifazane bayeka ukwesaba isizungu, futhi amadoda kancane kancane aqala ukuhlanganyela ngokwengeziwe empilweni yomndeni nokukhulisa izingane. Kubukeka sengathi lesi yisinyathelo sokuqala esihle sokuphila okujabulisayo kithi sonke.
Sizoqhubeka nesihloko sempilo ejabulisayo, futhi futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi umangale ukuthi izinkinga ezivame kangakanani nezingane zethu. Sivame ukukhuluma ngokukhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi izingane zanamuhla ziyaphangwa, zijabule ngokuthi asazi ukuthi zingabamangaze kanjani. Kuyavela ukuthi kwenzeka into efanayo nakubantu abadala.
Iningi lethu liphila emhlabeni wenqwaba futhi ... lihlushwa kulo. Ungazibuyela Kanjani Injabulo Empilweni - Funda E-Article Lilith Mazikina kusuka ku-Project Resource Psychology.
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