Sanibonani! Ukuthinta, u-Alexander Mikhailovich. Ngingudokotela wezengqondo, ngise-psylication yesithangami sowesilisa ekuthuthukisweni, ekubuyiselweni kobudlelwano bomndeni, kanye nokubuya kwamantombazane / amakhosikazi.
Imvamisa ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, indoda ihlala isesimweni esiqinile (isethulo esikhulu). Owesifazane uyamlela, wesaba ukulahlekelwa. Kepha lapho nje umuntu ethandana futhi, uqala ukuba ngcono kumlingani wakhe, ulahlekelwa yisikhundla sakhe esiqinile, aqale ukuncika kumuntu futhi abuthakathaka ngokuzenzakalelayo.
Ibhalansi yobudlelwano ngokwayo iholela eshintsheni okukhulu kakhulu ekulinganiseni okubalulekile. Indoda iqala ukuzama ukubuyisa lona wesifazane ukubaluleka kwayo. Wenza isenzo esiningi ukubuyela endaweni elahlekile yokunethezeka. Ukuze wenze lokhu, wenza amaphutha amaningi: kwenza ama-hysterics, enza inani elikhulu lezinhloso ezivela ngezansi, kuyathobeka kucela ithuba. Kepha imizamo yakhe yokubuyela kowesifazane owaphonsa owesifazane wakhe uphendukela kuphela ekwehluleka ...
Umuntu akaqondi ukuthi zonke lezi zinhloso ngeke zimsize abuyele kothandekayo wakhe, ngokuhlukile, zikunikeza owokugcina ophumelele.
Ukushintshwa kokungenisa okubalulekile (buyela esikhundleni somholi)Ukwenza ukuguqulwa okungabonakali kokubaluleka futhi uzibuze esikhundleni somholi - indoda idinga ukwenza futhi isebenze ngaphesheya. Lokho wukuthi, ukumisa uhlobo oluhlukile lokuhlaziswa kanye "nezinhloso ezingezansi". Ngekhefu lobudlelwano bezilwane ezifumanekile ngowesifazane bese uqala ukuyelapha ncamashi (kubanda kakhulu). Uma umlingani eqala ukude, khona-ke futhi udinga ukuqala ukuhamba. Futhi iya ngokufanelekile ukunganaki futhi wakhe "i-vacuum enolwazi" - kuzokwenza umfazi acabange ngowesilisa, ukukhathazeka, unesithukuthezi.
Le ndlela ingavusa ukuze iye endodeni. Indoda ngokuqinisekile ayifanele igcinwe emaphaketheni okuqala, lolu uhlobo lokuhlola "leash". Kuyadingeka ukuhlala ungafinyeleleki futhi ulinde izenzo ezinzima ngokwengeziwe. Ukuze uzuze ama-cambak, futhi lolu uhlobo futhi kukhona ushintsho ekuphenduleni okubalulekile. Uma lona wesifazane uqobo ufakwa ekubuyiselweni kobudlelwano, khona-ke uyawazisa indoda, yingakho isesimweni esinamandla. Kukuleyo okufanele abe kuyo.
Iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu ...Kunamacala lapho indoda isendaweni ebuthakathaka, ngosizo lwenani elikhulu labafikayo elivela ngezansi, lakwazi ukubuyisa lona wesifazane. Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi ubudlelwane obunjalo bunesikhathi sokuphila, okuncane kakhulu. Owesifazane ngeke abone owesilisa njengomuntu ophambili, uzobe ehola futhi ngeke anakekele indoda, ngeke athathwe njengombono wakhe, ngeke athathwe njengombono wakhe, ngeke athathwe njengombono wakhe, ngeke amlalele. Uzoba ncamashi njengoba nje eqhubeka nokumnika noma yiluphi uhlobo 'ngosizo akwazile ukulibuyisela lapho nje umuntu eyeka ukunika yena ukuthi uzomshiya kalula - wayezomshiya kalula. Ubudlelwano obunjalo buphila isikhathi esiyizinyanga ezi-1-3.
Masifingqe:Ukungenelela okubalulekile kungenzeka kunoma yiliphi i-pair. Kukhona ngisho nombhangqwana ohamba nale modeli futhi uqhubeke nokwenza ubuhlobo, kuphela ebudlelwaneni babo manje owesifazane ubabuswa, hhayi owesilisa (matriarchy). Kepha uma ungakulungele ukuthola imodeli yebhizinisi elinjalo, noma ungafuni ukuthi uphonswe, bese wehlisa ukubaluleka kowesifazane bese uqala ukususwa kuwo, ngokusho komphumela, ibhalansi izobuyiselwa. Futhi ulandele ibhalansi yonke ebudlelwaneni, ungawehli futhi ungayikhulisi.
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