Imfundo yanamuhla yobulili yehluke kakhulu kulokho okwakuyiminyaka engama-50 edlule, futhi akukho lutho ngezikhathi zangaphambili futhi akukho lutho oluzosho. Umehluko ukuthi amantombazane angaphambili akhuliswa njengamakhosikazi azayo nomama, kanye nabafana - abayeni, abavikeli kanye nabavukuzi.
Yini inkinga
Futhi manje akukho mehluko wokukhuliswa kwabafana namantombazane. Izingane zabo bobabili ubulili zifunda okufanayo, zibuze ngokulinganayo futhi ngenxa yalokho, abantu abanezimfanelo ezifanayo nokuxoshwa kumanani abesilisa abhekise.
Konke lokhu namuhla kunikezwa abafana nabafana, namantombazane. Futhi iqiniso ukuthi izinhloso eziphambili zemfundo yanamuhla zinenhloso, ukuzimisela, umsebenzi, amandla okuthola, ukuvikela okwakhe, ukuba ngumncintiswano. Kulokhu, kunjalo, izimfanelo ezidingekayo kakhulu ezibonisa imfuneko eyodwa ebalulekile empilweni yesikhathi esizayo futhi kuyindoda, futhi umfazi uzosebenza ngokulinganayo, kodwa futhi azonakekela umndeni - impilo, izingane.
Futhi lapha izinkinga zowesifazane ziqala - kukho konke lokhu, usazolala, abelethe futhi anikele isikhathi enganeni esemncane. Ngalesi sikhathi, le ndoda ikhululekile futhi yaphinde yahlanganyela ekufezeni izinhloso zayo. Futhi kowesifazane, le nkinga yanda ukuthi akekho owafundisa ukuthi ube ngumama nje, umhloli, unkosikazi.
Ngakho-ke izingxabano, nezinkinga ezinjengokungafuni ukuzala, ukuchitha isikhathi empilweni namanani omndeni kulimaza umsebenzi. Noma owesifazane uba yinhle futhi yena nje ungenandaba nemisebenzi yasesifazane yasekuqaleni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amadoda ashintsha futhi: UKhijimo wanyamalala, waqashelwa, wavikela abesifazane njengomlingani obuthakathaka. Konke kwaba okungadingekile - asalingana.
Ukuthi lokhu akwenzeki, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukukhuliswa kwamantombazane nabafana kufanele kusondele kuye ngezindlela ezihlukile.
Ungawakhulisa Kanjani Abafana
Okwabesilisa esizayo, ikhwalithi eyinhloko ingumsebenzi. Kumele wazi ukuthi amalungu omndeni wakhe ancike ekuziphatheni kwakhe noma cha. Umfana kusukela ebuntwaneni kufanele abe nombuthano wemiyalo ehambelana neminyaka neminyaka yakhe. Futhi udinga ukufundisa indodana yakho ukuze uyigcwalise ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo ezengeziwe. Ingane kumele ibe lusizo, inenjongo futhi, ukuze ibonge.
Qiniseka ukuthi yenza ithuba lokwenza ithuba lokwenza izindatshana zabesilisa kuphela, hhayi kwezemidlalo nasezijabulisa, kodwa nasezindabeni ezifuywayo. Uma ungafundisi indodana yakho ukuthola amaphuzu, kuzofanela enze umkakhe, ngokusobala ngeke afake isandla enjabulweni yomndeni.
Ungawakhulisa kanjani amantombazane
Namantombazane alula. Kufanele bathande nje ukuze badumise ngokwengeziwe, hhayi ngokuthile kokhonkolo. Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, hhayi ukubulala uhlobo lwezimfanelo nezifiso ezifakiwe: Usizo, Petronate, Letha Injabulo. Kepha kufanele abone isibonelo esivela kwabesifazane asebekhulile emndenini - indlela yokuba yinkosi enhle ethanda umama.
Akufanele akhuphule entombazaneni "umfana", umgqugquzele ukuthi uhlala ekweleta okuthile, ukufaka okungadingekile futhi agxeke uma kukhona okuthile kungasebenzi.
Lona ngumsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali, futhi konke okunye kuzokwenza isikole nomphakathi.
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