Ukuphila nokukhulisa izingane zakho njengoba ucabanga ukuthi kufanelekile. Ungalindi ukulahlwa kwesinyathelo ngasinye. Thatha izinqumo zakho futhi uzibekele umthwalo wemfanelo ngazo, wazi ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kubalulekile, futhi ukwazi ukusekelana. Cishe lokhu kusho igama elithi "KhumpUerm".
Ngosuku, bayazi, ukuthi yiliphi iholide elinquma ukukhuluma nawe ngalesi simo, esathandwa muva nje. Lokhu kufukula kwabesifazane (Uxolo, akukho okulingana okudala isiRussia) - inqubo yokungena kwabesifazane amandla, ukulawula nakukwenza izinqumo kuyo yonke imikhakha yempilo.
Ngokuvamile, ukuqashelwa iqiniso elilula lokuthi umfazi akusona isitsha sokugeza, hhayi umgcini wokugxila hhayi umhlobiso wehhovisi, kodwa umuntu ogcwele okwaziyo.Lokhu Kunika amandla amaningi kungahluka: (Lokhu yilapho abesifazane beqala ukukhokha iholo elifanayo nabesilisa ezikhundleni ezifanayo), ezepolitiki (lokhu lapho abesifazane bekwazi ukubamba iqhaza ekwenzeni izinqumo zezepolitiki), ezenhlalo nakwezengqondo.
Sizokhuluma ngezinhlobo ezimbili zokugcina, ziyindlela elula yokuqonda, kepha ngeke sikhulume ngabesifazane bebonke, kodwa ngabomama - badinga lokhu kunika amandla ngamandla amabili.
Impilo kamama wanamuhla waseRussia isuka kude kakhulu namandla namandla, okuyi-Empower isizwa nje.Ubeletha esibhedlela somama, lapho kubhekene nodlame lwe-obstetric, ukungahloniphi, ukungathembani kanye nonya. Uhamba nengane esanda kuzalwa emtholampilo, lapho kubizwa ngokuthi "Mama", anikeze izincomo ezingajwayelekile futhi asolwa ngazo zonke amaphutha wabazali akhona: Ungasho lutho, adluliselwe, azange adideke, akwenzile. ungalandeli ukudla, nokunye ohlwini.
Uya-intanethi, lapho amakhulu abantu ezingajwayelekile ukuthethisa ukuthi yena kufanele ahlale ekhaya, njengoba uNkulunkulu wazala bayakhohlwa izithakazelo zomuntu siqu nezibopho ukuthola injabulo yangempela kuwo.
Uya emgwaqweni, lapho adonsela khona i-stroller enokhahlo emakhazeni, ama-puddle angcolile, izitebhisi eziphakeme nezitebhisi, athola isabelo sakhe semikhandlu engenakufakwa emphakathini "lapho ungawela khona nengane."
Into eqondakalayo, akuwona wonke umama adlulela kuzo zonke izici ezisohlwini 'zokuba ngumama ojabulayo', kodwa kunzima ukuthola ukuthi akekho noyedwa kubo ongeke uthinte.
Sonke lesi sikhathi, umfazi yilona wesifazane oqondakalayo emlandweni wethu - uzizwa kabi.Uzizwa engenalutho, encane, edaya, engalungile, engenacala, abuthakathaka futhi akekho owayedinga. Unovalo futhi uthukuthele, ukhathele futhi, anciphise amazinyo akhe, anqoba konke lokhu kulahlwa kwalo, imitholampilo kanye "mimocOods" ngamazwana abo abalulekile. Uqala ukuziqhenya ngalokho "Akaphumanga," ngandlela thile abhekana nakho, "futhi ngokuvamile - ngaphambi kokugeza ngezitsha, futhi akukho lutho olusindile.
Kungaba yindaba ekhuthazayo nefundisayo yokuthi ubunzima babuqinisa kanjani abantu futhi uzenze baqine kakhulu, kodwa empeleni kuvela ukuthi kudabukisa indzaba elishukumisayo emasondweni nasekucindezelweni kuzo zonke izinhlangothi Kuyazizwa futhi kubenza baphile nsuku zonke, futhi bangaphili njengoba bethanda.
Kulapha lapho imali engenayo ifika ku-ePpaulerment efanayo evumela abesifazane ukuba bazizwe bezethemba futhi baphumule ku-maternity. Igama elithi "Umama Onika Amandla" - "Ukukhulelwa, Kunikezwe amandla" Kuphakanyiswa Amandla "Andrea O'raili - Udokotela Wefilosofi, Udokotela Wefilosofi, Umlobi noProfesa emkhakheni wocwaningo lwabesifazane.
Emisebenzini yabo, waqhathanisa "uphefumulelwe", "wanikezwa amandla" umaoma wemodeli yokubanzela izingane, okusabalele ezweni lanamuhla. Ngokusho kwalokhu, umama ungumuntu oyinhloko obhekele ingane, futhi enesibopho sokumnakekela kuze kube yilapho umama futhi umama kufanele futhi abe "muhle" ukufeza okulindelwe okuthile ukuthi umphakathi uyiveze.
Uyazi, ubelethe "wena", uncelise, ungalali ntambama, hhayi ebusuku, uhambe ngentuthuko nsuku zonke isimo sezulu, futhi ngasikhathi sinye ngokushesha ubuyela ku- "Prenatal" Ifomu, ubukeke kahle, ungabonisi futhi ujabule impilo.
Ngokungafani nowesifazane, umfazi otholakala kwenye indlela yokuba ngumama ukuthi, "enikezwe amandla," abhekwa ngumphakathi njenge-appendage enganeni, kodwa ungumuntu ozimele onelungelo lokuthatha ilungelo lokuthatha Izinqumo zakho ezinolwazi, eziqondiswa yizinkolelo zakhe zangaphakathi futhi ngasikhathi sinye ukuthola inhlonipho efanayo bonke abanye abantu.
Akesabi ukukhipha endlini yengane ngaphandle kwesigqoko ngosuku lwelanga ngo-Ephreli wosuku (hhayi nje akesabi, kodwa uyazi ukuthi akekho noyedwa ozolahla ukumlahla), ngaphandle kwezinkinga, azondla ingane ngamabele lapho kukhona amabele lapho Elula, ngaphandle kokuzizwa unecala, ebuyela emsebenzini, futhi ama-jeans amafushane, ama-jean amasayizi amabili aningi, ngoba "dobemenny" akahleli ukubuya - futhi kuyinto evamile. Uyazethemba, akesabi ukuvikela umbono wakhe, futhi akanaso isidingo sokugomela ngenxa yezindleko zabanye besifazane, ngoba uyazenzela ngokwanele futhi wanelisekile ngezinqumo zabo.
Uyazi ukuthi yini epholile kakhulu? Noma ngubani kithi angaba ngumama onjalo futhi asize abanye besifazane kule ndlela.Ukuze senze lokhu, sidinga izinto ezimbili ezibizwa ngokuthi amagama angewona amaRussia: I-Empaulerment efanayo neDadeud (Kulungile, konke kucacile lapha: ngesiRussia kungudadewabo). Zixhunyiwe, ngoba kunzima kakhulu ukuzizwa amandla nokuzethemba lapho wazi ukuthi akekho yini umuntu ongowena. Kungcono kakhulu lapho uqinisekile ukuthi unodonga lwabantu abanomqondo ofanayo abazokusekela futhi bakuthathe njengoba unjalo.
Luyini lolu donga kusuka?Kusuka kumaphrojekthi wokudala nolwazi adalwe ukuze enze omama babonakale ukuthi bazikhuthaze futhi bagubhe lokho abayikho (ngokwesibonelo, lapha, yilokho).
Ukusuka ezitatimendeni zomphakathi ezisekela obala omama namalungelo abo omama abanjalo abafuna ukuba yikho - futhi akunandaba, banezithameli zabantu abayizigidi ezinhlanu noma ezingamakhulu amahlanu.
Ukusuka kumazwana afudumele futhi avumayo ngaphansi kokuthunyelwe nemiyalezo yabesifazane abangangabazeki noma abasothelekile.
Kusuka emihlanganweni nezintombi nezingxoxo eziqotho ngalokho okubalulekile kuwe. Ukusuka epanini lesobho elishisayo, elethwe ekhaya ngumngane, osanda kuzalwa.
Ukusuka ekunikezelweni kowesifazane owethukile ozama ukuthulisa ingane endizeni egcwele. Ukusuka ekumoyimeni kokuqonda okubhekene nonina ozama ukuxoxisana nengane, egibele isitezi esitolo. Kusuka kusizo lukaMama olunenqola, elalihudula ngejubane ngeqhwa.
Ukuxhaswa kanye namandla emphakathini kuqukethe izinto ezincane, kepha zonke izitini ezincane zisisiza isinyathelo esisodwa sokusondela ekutheni umama othile emphakathini wethu wazizwa ebalulekile, ebonakalayo futhi ebalulekile. Abantu abasebenza okubalulekile (omunye obaluleke kakhulu, empeleni) umsebenzi wezenhlalo, abantu abakhethile bathande ukukhulelwa - lokhu kungukuthi umngcele kakhulu, ovame ukungabongi nomsebenzi ocishe unolwazi.
Futhi yebo, kuyacaca ukuthi konke lokhu kuyizinto ezincane, futhi kunzima ukukhuluma nge-ePpaulerm yamanje kuze kube yilapho inkampani inendaba ngeleveli yohlelo. Kulokhu, imvelo yasemadolobheni kufanele ibe nobungane kubahambeli, amathofi kanye neminyuziyamu - abanobungane komama abahlengikazi, izibhedlela zomama kanye nodokotela kumele bayeke ukubandlulula abesifazane, ngoba bangamama umama, ngoba ngokomqondo kungaba yibo. Lesi yindawo enkulu yokushintsha, okudingeka ukuyilwa, kepha okungenzeka kwenzeke nakanjani.
Futhi kunezinto ezingenziwa manje - ukusekelana, ziphendukene ngamandla futhi ziqiniseke futhi zinomuzwa wokuthi umama akayona indoda yesibili, enesibopho sokufihla ngemuva kwekhethini, hhayi ukuthi lihambe Ngaphandle kwendlu futhi uxolise ngawo wonke amabonakude, kanye nelungu eligcwele lomphakathi, ngaphandle kwalo lo mphakathi, ngendlela, abunawo.
Futhi ngenxa yalokho (ngosuku uqobo lwazo, sazi, yiliphi iholide) esifuna ukufisela bonke omama isibindi namandla.Ukuqapha, ukuzikhukhumeza, ukubekezelela nokuzethemba. Ngifisa ukuthi ngamunye wethu aqoqe amabutho amaningi kangangokuba sabelane nabanye, asindise komunye nomunye esiseleni futhi silwele iqiniso lokuthi ilungelo lethu.
Amandla amantombazane!
Isafunde ngesihloko
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