Eminyakeni engama-20- 30 edlule, abazali bethu babengenakho ukufinyelela ezincwadini emfundweni yezingane kanye nama-movie ama-inthanethi othisha nodokotela bezengqondo. Izingane zilethwe enembile, imvamisa zisekela izindlela zokukhulisa abazali bazo. Ngakho-ke, akukho lutho olumangazayo eqinisweni lokuthi iningi labazali lalibhekwa njengelingathandeki, empeleni babengekho, futhi manje sebangela izingane ezikhulile uma zingadumazi, bese zixaka ngokuqinisekile.
Siku-AdMo.ru sakhumbula ubuntwana futhi safinyelela kuhlu lwamagugu abagokazi ngabazali, futhi, njengoba kwenzeka, ngeze.
1. Ezemfundo Ephakeme - Isikhombi Sesimo
"Ngaphandle kwesikhungo, awuwutholi umsebenzi omuhle!" - Ngubani ongazwanga kanjena ebusheni? Abaningi bethu bakholwa kule "qiniso" manje abakukhumbuli ngisho nokuthi idiploma yabo liqamba amanga kuphi. Bangaphezu kuka-40% abathweswe iziqu ezikhungweni zemfundo eziphakeme basebenza ezikhundleni ezingadingi imfundo ephakeme: manje abaqashi banesifiso esikhulu ngamakhono asebenzayo abasebenzi kuneziqu zabo. Abathweswe iziqu bangathathwa ngemuva kokuphothula iziqu - ukuhlangana nemicabango, banqume ngokwengeziwe ngezenzo futhi baqonde ukuthi ngabe imfundo ephakeme iyadingeka yini ngempela.
2. Ukugcwala - isiqinisekiso sempilo
Wenze kahle ukuthi ingane engashiyinga lutho epuletini ngemuva kwesidlo sakusihlwa. Ukugcwala kwakuthathwa njengephawu lwempilo. Kepha izindlela ezakhelwe ngokungalungile zokudla ebudaleni zivame ukuphendula ngesisindo ngokweqile nokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha kokudla.
3. Ama-mugs nezingxenye ziwusizo ekuthuthukiseni futhi zandise ama-Horizon. Kunabo baningi, okungcono
Ishedyuli engadingekile ingangenza sisebenze ingane, ngokuqinisekile ayifaki umthelela ekwandeni komhlaba. Uthisha odumile wase-American Huddad weluleka abazali ukuba banciphise ijubane futhi banikeze izingane isikhathi sokwembula amakhono abo uqobo, futhi kuphela lapho echaza indlela yemfundo eyengeziwe.
4. "Guys, ake sihlale sindawonye!"
Lesi sisho esidumile seqhawe eliphindaphindayo kusukela ebuntwaneni asikaze sangabazeki futhi mhlawumbe kungenye yezindawo ezishiwo njalo eCarapow ezungezile. Kepha kufanelekile ukuthi kubhekwe yiphi ikati leLeopold, naphezu kokucaphuna okugcwele, akunakuba yiqiniso esimweni sokugcina. Kunembile ukusho ukuthi: "Izingxabano, bafo, kodwa ngengqondo."
5. Hhayi Emalini Yenjabulo
Ngingathanda kakhulu ukuthi bekunjalo ukuthi bekunjalo, kepha impilo ibachaza izimo zayo: imali ingenza umuntu ajabule ngokwengeziwe, noma yini asitshele ebuntwaneni. Abazali babalulekile kusukela eminyakeni emincane ukufundisa izingane ukufunda kwezimali. Lokhu kuzobasiza bakha imikhuba efanelekile ekuphathweni kwemali futhi bazuze impumelelo yezezimali ebudaleni.
6. Izingane ezincane - Isibopho Sabadala
Imvamisa ingxenye enkulu yokunakekelwa kwezingane ezincane iguqukele emahlombe abadala. Abazali basebenza, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kwesinye isikhathi abakwazanga ukuba. Bambalwa abantu abakuthande kusuka ku- "Nyanka", ngoba bekufanele ngidele nemidlalo nabangane kanye nokuzilibazisa ngenxa yezidingo zodade abancane nabafowethu. Izazi zezengqondo zithi kwesinye isikhathi ukugcwaliseka kwezindima zezingane ebusheni kungahlanganisa izinkinga zengqondo ebudaleni: ukwenqena kwezigaba ukuba nomlingani owakhelwe emfanekisweni wokunakekelwa okujwayelekile.
7. OFakazi - Umgcini weZokulwa, nendoda - umlingani
Emashumini eminyaka amuva nje, izindima zobulili zilahlekelwe ukuhambisana kwazo. Abesifazane abanempumelelo enkulu bakha umsebenzi, futhi amadoda ahlezi ngekhefu lokuya esikhathini noma enza emndenini.
8. Owesifazane unamahloni ukuthi angakwazi ukukwazi ukukwazi ukwenza kanjani indoda - hhayi ukwazi ukuthi ungasibeka kanjani isitulo
Hhayi kuzo zonke izifundo zabasebenzi esikoleni zazisiza. Othile akazange afunde ukusebenza emshinini wokuthunga futhi ahlulekile ukuqonda konke ukuhlakanipha kokusebenza ne-jigsaw nensimbi ethengisa. "Akunikezwanga" noma "Izandla zezandla" - Akunandaba. Kepha, njengoba kwenzeka, akukho lutho olubi kulokhu: Noma yimuphi umsebenzi odinga amakhono akhethekile manje usengakwenza ochwepheshe besigaba esiphakeme.
9. Akukho hlazo omkhulu kowesifazane kunokuba ubelethe ingane ngaphandle kwendoda
Futhi - ngo. Njengamanje, umama ongayedwa akamangazi noma ngubani futhi angabe esabangela lokho ukulahlwa kwalowo eminyakeni engama-30 edlule. Imvamisa ukuzalwa kwengane ngaphandle kwendoda kuyisinyathelo sowesifazane oqondile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kule minyaka engama-30 edlule, inani labobaba abangabodwa likhule ngaphezu kwezikhathi eziyi-1.5.
10. "Kuyini ngesisa sethole ?!"
Kungani bekungaphambi kokuba kukholakale ukuthi ukuboniswa kwemizwa, njengokuvalelisa noma ukudunyiswa okuqotho, kungadonswa, ukugawulwa ingane. Kakade, izizukulwane ezingaphezu kwesisodwa zabantu abadala zivuna izithelo zokungabikho kokubonakaliswa kwesisa ekhelini lakhe: abazali abangatholanga uthando olwanele ngeke balunikeze izingane zabo.
11. I-Thrift eyeqile
Ngesikhathi sokushoda ngokuphelele kanye nokuntuleka kwemali, izingane zafuna isimo sengqondo ngokucophelela ngezingubo zabo - kwakuyisiko ukuze wabelane ngalo e- "Parade" kanye "nokwenziwa kwasekhaya" (okwedlule kwakumelwe kumelwe yizinto ezazivela kubadade abadala kanye nabafowethu). Imikhuba eboniswa ekuhlolweni kokubonakaliswa kwamasethi etiye ayesencekwini, kanye namabhokisi amaswidi, ngoJulayi angeke athintwe ("lokhu konyaka omusha"). Namuhla asikho isidingo sokonga ngokweqile: Izinto ezidingekayo zasendlini zingathengwa, ukuba nesabelomali esinesizotha kunazo zonke.
12. Izingane eklabishi zithola
Ezinye izihloko bezingaphansi kwengxoxo - embuzweni lapho bavela khona, izingane zathathwa ukuzophendula ukuthi zitholwe eklabishi noma i-stort yaziletha. Ukuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala kobudlelwano bentsha bekuvame ukuthola "ngokungaboni": ngaphandle kokuba nolwazi olwanele ngomzimba wabo, bathembela kwiseluleko sabangane abaningi "abakhanyisiwe" kanye nemininingwane ehlukanisiwe evela ezincwadini nakumafilimu. Konke lokhu kungaholela emiphumeleni edabukisayo - izinkinga ngempilo ne-psyche.
Futhi yimiphi imithetho evela ebuntwaneni yakho elahlekelwe ukubaluleka kwazo kuwe lapho ukhula?