Indlela ethokozisayo yokuxhumana
Izingane ziqala ukukhuluma ngezikhathi ezihlukile: Omunye Ngonyaka kanti uhhafu usevele uyakwazi ukuveza imisho, futhi othile uqala ukukhuluma amabinzana acacile eduze kwezintathu. Kokubili, nokunye ukushukuma komzimba kungaba wusizo. Sisho ukuthi kuyini.
Abazali bezingane abafunda ukukhuluma kamuva abantanga babo, bayazi ukuthi ngesinye isikhathi, izingane ezisacasukela ezimbalwa ziqala ukwenza lokho zikhuphuke ukuthi azikwazi ukuveza imicabango yazo ngamazwi. Kulokhu, isixazululo esingewona esijwayelekile sisiza. Kuvela ukuthi izingane ezisacathula ziye eza nolimi lwazo lokushukuma komzimba, okusiza ukunciphisa ukungezwani ezimweni lapho "eqonda konke, kepha angeke asho."
Okokuqala, ake sibhekane nokuthi kungani ngivame ukufundisa ingane ngolimi olusebenzayo.Into yokuqala futhi ebaluleke kunazo zonke - ulimi lokuthinta lusiza ingane ukuba isungule ukuxhumana nabazali.
Ulimi lokuthanta lusiza abazali baqonde kangcono ingane yabo.
I-POPTIAL LIGE PROPRENCICESTICY isiza ukunciphisa izinga lokukhungatheka kwengane engeyona eyonakele. Lapho ingane encane ibonakala iyindlela yokuveza izidingo zayo futhi iqondwe, ayihlangene futhi inovalo.
Ukuvela kwesiteshi esisebenzayo sokuxhumana phakathi kwengane engeyona eyabi namalangabi nabazali bakhe isiza wonke umuntu azizwe eqiniseka ngokwengeziwe futhi ezolile.
Yiluphi ulimi lwezingane?Kwezinye izimo, abazali bafundisa izingane ukuthi zizoshukumisela ukushukuma komzimba okufana nalezi ezisetshenziswa ezilimini ezahlukahlukene zokulalela ukuzwa abantu abakhubazekile, nakwabanye - ziqhamuka nezabo. Ulimi lwabantwana oluvelelayo luhlukile kumuntu omdala ngalolo lufaka inani elincane lemiqondo elula nelisetshenziswayo, ngaphandle kwama-nuances nohlelo.
Ingabe ukutadisha kolimi olusebenzayo kunganciphisa ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo yengane?"Ucwaningo lukhuluma ngakolunye uhlangothi," kusho umnikazi wenkampani enza ukuba afundelwe izilimi zezingane, u-Lee Ann Steright. - Izingane eziningi ezifunde ulimi lokuthinta thrensi ziqala ukukhuluma ngaphambi kontanga yazo. "
Ngingaqala nini ukufunda ingane ngolimi olusebenzayo?Iminyaka engu-6-8 izinyanga ibonwa kahle ukuze iqale ukufundisa ingane ngolimi lokushukuma komzimba. Ngokusho kwe-HIMNS, yile ndalo ncamashi lapho izingane ziqala ukukhombisa intshisekelo yokuxhumana futhi zinake kakhulu lokho ezikhonjiswe.
Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali uqobo bakulungele ukufundwa - ushintsho olimini lwempahla ludinga abazali bokulandelana, ukuphikelela nokuphindaphinda okuningi kwezinto ezifanayo ukuze ingane ibakhumbule futhi ihlanganyele nemibono ethile.
Akukephuzi kakhulu ukuqala ukufundisa ingane ngemuva konyaka, ngoba kule minyaka uzokwazi ukuhlanganisa ukuthinta nemisindo ethile, "kusho yena.
Ungamfundisa kanjani ingane ngolimi olusebenzayo?Hlela ingane kungabi ngaphezu kokushukunyiswa kwamathathu ngasikhathi: Khombisa ingane ngezandla zakho futhi uphinde ukhombise igama noma ibinzana elihambisana nalo. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukwenza kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka ezimweni ezifanele ukuze ingane ibe lula ukusungula ukuxhumana phakathi kokuthinta kanye neqiniso lokuthi lisho.
Ukunaka ukuqeqeshwa njalo, ingane izoqala ukuxhumana nawe ngosizo lokuthinta izinyanga eziyi-10-16. Uyacelwa ukuthi wazi ukuthi ukuthinta okwenziwa yingane yakho kungahluka kancane kwalawo okhombisa ukuthi kuyinto evamile, vele uqhubeke namakilasi ngisho nangemva kokuba ingane ikhumbule incazelo yesenzo.
Uma ingane kunzima ukukopisha ukuthinta kwakho, ungazama ukuthatha izandla zakhe ngezandla zakho futhi umtshengise ukuthi angakwenza - izingane ezincane azikhiqizwa kahle kakhulu, futhi zizodinga isikhathi esengeziwe sokuthola kakhulu ukunyakaza okulula.
Qiniseka ukuthi bonke abantu abadala bezungezwe ingane bebazi futhi beqonda ukuthinta kwakhe - ngakho-ke bazokwazi ukuqeqesha ingane futhi kuzoba lula ukuyiqonda.
Yimaphi ukuthinta okufanele kudingeke ukufundisa ingane?IStane incoma ukuqala ngowokushona okusebenzayo kakhulu okuzosiza ingane empilweni yansuku zonke - ngokwesibonelo, "Ubisi" noma "lubethelwe". Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ngeminye yokuthi ingane izoba mnandi futhi ibe yinhle ukuyithola - ngokwesibonelo, "ukubhukuda" noma "inja" (emcimbini wokuthi unenja ekhaya).
Njengoba sishilo phambilini, ungaqhamuka shuthelela ngokwakho noma usebenzise ithuba lezisombululo ezenziwe ngomumo. Nazi ezinye zazo:
"Ubisi" - isenzo esisho ubisi noma ebhodleleni lengxube.
"Okuningi" - isenzo esidingekayo ukuze ubuze okwamanje: namanje amakhukhi, ubisi oluthe xaxa, izithelo ezengeziwe.
"Ngiyikho konke" - isenzo esilula futhi esiwusizo kakhulu, esisetshenziselwa ukutshela ukuthi ingane iqede ukwenza lokho akwenzayo ngaphambili (adliwe, adlalwe kanjalo).
"Ngithathe eziphetheni" - isenzo, sicela ukhulise ingane ezingalweni zakho.
"Shinga kimi i-diaper" - isenzo sokuthi ingane singayisebenzisa ukuze sibuze ukufihla.
"Umama / ubaba" - kudingeka ukuthinta okubili okudingekayo ukuze kuqoke omunye wabazali ("Umama" - ukukhethwa kwesilevu, "baba" - ukuthinta ibunzi).
"Ima!" ("Kwanele!") - Isenzo esisetshenziselwa ukukhombisa ukuthi isenzo esithile kufanele simiswe ngokushesha.
"Ngifuna" - isenzo esizosiza ukukhombisa ukuthi ingane ifuna okuthile.
"Ngiyakuthanda" - Izindlela ezimbili zokuvuma ukuthanda: isandla esisodwa, sikuthambezele inqindi futhi sikhiphe umunwe omkhulu, noma iminwe emincane, khona-ke "ukushukumisela" weqa esifubeni), bese kuthi ngubani owamukelekayo. Isenzo esibaluleke kakhulu nesibaluleke kakhulu, esikhunjulwa ngisho nasezinganeni.
Kunamakhulu amaningi okuthinta ukuthinta okuzosiza ingane ukuthi itshele abazali ngezinkinga noma ngezidingo zabo - lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ubafundise bonke. Kwanele ukuzikhawulela ekushumeni okungu-8-10 okudinga ingane yakho kaningi.
Imfundo yolimi olushubile, kunjalo, ayithathwa njengengxenye ephoqelekile yoHlelo Lokuthuthukiswa Kwezinsana, kepha uma usukhathele yi-hysterical yengane nezingxoxo ezingekho emthethweni, mhlawumbe kuzokusiza futhi nengane yakho isondele komunye nomunye.
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