Ngakhumbula indlela ngosuku lwesikhombisa ngemuva kokubeletha, lapho mina, kancane, selukhipha esihlalweni sabakhubazekile nengane, intokazi enhle yafika kimi.
- kahle? Wabeletha ?! - Ungishayishelwe, lapho ngokukhipha ukubheka esiswini sami, kukhumbuze kancane ipharashute evaliwe. Wabona kabi ngaphansi kwehembe. - Manje udinga ukwehlisa isisindo.
Ngaba namahloni kakhulu.
Ngangihlaselwa ngempendulo. Okuthile phakathi kwe- "Yeah, uqinisile" futhi "hambale othandekayo wakho", kodwa uMkhandlu wazithathela inhliziyo. Nginciphise ngokuqinile nokudla, ngamandla wokuzivocavoca futhi ngaphosa ngokushesha ngokweqile. Kepha ngokuya nge-psyche nasemzimbeni kwavimba, kunjalo, kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngiyaqonda ngokwesabekayo, yimiphi imiphumela ngaphandle kokuqwasha nokucindezelwa okungapheli, futhi ngisaba. Kepha kungenzeka ukumane ulinde izinyanga ezimbalwa, futhi ngokuthula, ngaphandle kwe-hysteria, faka isigqi. Kepha wayengumuntu omuhle kakhulu, lo wesifazane. Umane nje akazange acabange ngemininingwane.
Lalelani, ngiyaphenduka, mina uqobo uqobo lwangikhuluma ngomuntu ngamehlo ami: Basho ukuthi kungani ngeke alungise isimo? Vele uthathe futhi wenze. Kwaphela izinyanga ezintathu, azikho izinkinga. Futhi kwabonakala kimi, njengezinkulungwane zabanye abantu abangayi imininingwane ethile. Futhi kaningi kubo, njengoba wazi, uDeveli uqamba amanga.
Manje kuvame ukuthandwa ngombono onjalo wokuthi umuntu angakwazi ukulungisa konke empilweni yakhe, futhi uma engazange ayilungise, akazange anqamule isidumbu esivela kusofa - yingakho uvilapha nje, futhi kungcono ukuchaza kuye ukuthi uyacaca. Khona-ke uyoba namahloni, abese emuhle. Ukuthi zonke izinkinga ngokuntuleka kwesisusa, futhi uma umuntu enembile ngokwengeziwe, ngokuhle, ngokuhle, izinhloso, khona-ke kuzoba ngcono. Ngakho-ke yenza i-guru eningi, futhi bayitholela imali.
Futhi kulo mcabango unciphisa usuku olukhulu olungakabi iqiniso, ngoba abantu bakhohlwa ngalokho. Ukuthi izidingo zabantu zihlukaniswe zaba yinto yokuqala, eyisisekelo. Kanye nezidingo ze-oda eliphakeme.
Kunesisekelo seNdlu - kufanele alale, wehlise kusasa, ngezidingo eziyisisekelo zohlobo lokukhokha amakamelo futhi uphinde ube nesikhathi sodwa, futhi kanjalo.
Futhi kune-facade enhle. Lo mzimba oqinile, ohlanganisiwe onama-Workouts. Lezi zinwele ezilungiselelwe kahle, i-manicure, lezi zingubo, ekugcineni, lapho zithanda ukugqoka abesifazane kuzo zonke izinhlobo zemisho emfashini. Lokhu ukufundwa kwezincwadi zemfashini kwezengqondo, nokuzijabulisa okudumazayo, nanoma yini.
Manje kuyimfashini ukwamukela abesifazane nge-facade ebi, ebekiwe. Zidinga ukuthi zilungise ngokushesha. Ukumangala ukuthi kungani angakwazi ukupenda uthango endlini ezungeze indlu. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi, mhlawumbe isisekelo sesivele sibolile. Futhi wonke umklamo uqhubeka nezwi elithembekile nakuliphiko elilodwa. Futhi awudingi ukuphazanyiswa kulungiswa okuncane kwezimonyo. Kufanele siqale sibambe izimbobo ezinkulu, bese sibandakanyeka ngokuningiliziwe.
Inkinga futhi kulokho okulandelayo, sifundiswa. Sinamahloni ukuthi asihlangabezani nezidingo zenkampani ngokwesisindo, iholo, ubuhle, njalonjalo. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi ngaphakathi, abaningi bethu abakaze bafunde. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngaphambi kwalokho, kaningi bekungekho bhizinisi.
Kungani ngikhuluma? Ukwenza isisindo ngokweqile emiphumeleni yokubeletha ngenkathi ingane yakho ineminyaka engama-32? Ukushisa zonke izincwadi ezikhuthazayo futhi wanisela ngokuphelele kusofa nge-ayisikhilimu? Ukuze ungalokothi ulwele lutho? Hhayi.
Ngikuleso sinye isikhathi, ngifuna ukusiza, asikwazi ukubona ukuthi kwenzekani empeleni kumuntu. Simtshela okuthile okufana nokuthi: "Buthani, ungabi yi-rag!" Noma ihlaze, yonakalisa. Futhi empeleni kufanele anikeze ukulala nje. Uboya egumbini lokugezela ihora nesigamu ngaphandle kwemiphumela. Vumela udle ngokuthula nangengqondo, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa noma ngubani. Nikeza ukuthula okuncane. Sula uhambo lokuthula.
Kwesinye isikhathi kungenzeka kangangokuba lo muntu nguwe.
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