Kulezi zinsuku, emindenini lapho kunezingane eziningi, kepha ngasikhathi sinye zingaphansi komugqa wobuphofu zihlobene ne-negative. Imvamisa, imindeni enjalo yizwa "Kungani kudluliswa khona", "ubumpofu" nezinye izitatimende ezingemnandi. Kepha bambalwa abantu abaziyo imbangela yangempela yalokho okwenzekile, ngakho-ke ungagijimeli ukwahlulela. Ngalo mbuzo saphenduka omama abaningana bakudala ukuthola ukuthi bajabule kanjani, abakucabangayo ngalokhu futhi kungani beqhubeka nokubeletha.
U-Alla: "Ukulahleka komuntu, nansi intengo yokuzalwa yenye yezingane"
U-Alla wajabula, kepha ngemuva kokuba ebenezibulo, umyeni wakhe waphonsa umndeni wakhe. Futhi lokhu kungemva kweminyaka engu-17 yokuhlala ndawonye. Imbangela - amantombazane avela ekuzalweni kwakuyindlela enkulu ye-cerebral palsy.
Lapho esebhekane nokushaqeka kokuqala okuvela ekuxilongeni, lona wesifazane kwadingeka anqobe nezinhlungu zenhliziyo kusukela ekuhambeni komyeni wakhe. Kepha ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, ubudlelwano bashaywa kangangokuba umyeni wami waqala ukukhulisa isandla waze wamshaya ukuze owesifazane afike esibhedlela. Amadoda anikeze iminyaka emithathu ngezikhathi. Wacela emuva ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kepha u-Alla akazange athethelele.
Imindeni lapho omunye wabalingani engakwazi ukubekezelela khona ubunzima, intokazi ayiveli, kepha imvamisa amadoda ayahamba. Ingane egulayo idinga amandla amaningi, ukunakwa namandla, umyeni ka-Alla wawusendalweni i-egoist, eyayikukhumbule lokhu ukunakwa.
Funda futhi: Umndeni omkhulu ongathandeki kakhulu lapho wonke ama-albino
Kepha lona wesifazane usehlala enguwesifazane no-Alla, wajwayelana nenye indoda eyayisebenza kahle kakhulu futhi, ngenxa yalokho, waphinde wakhulelwa. Lezi zindaba zithole ukumangala ngokumangala, futhi ngokuzumayo wanyamalala ngaphandle komkhondo. Ukusekelwa bekungekhona engxenyeni yabazali noma kwabajwayele. Abaningi bathi bekhipha isisu, ngoba u-22 kuphela futhi unendodakazi ekhubazekile. Kepha umama omncane washiya ingane.
Ngakho-ke umndeni wabonakala u-Arseny. Emakhefini phakathi kokondla kwezahluko sensipho eposini ukuthola ipeni, kodwa ekugcineni, umphathi wamphawula futhi wasiza ukudlulisa izifundo ze-opharetha. Ngakho-ke, u-Alla waqala enye impilo ngethemba elizinzile namathemba amasha. Ngokushesha wahlangana nomuntu othile, ngemuva kwengozi, wahlala wagcotshwa esihlalweni sabakhubazekile.
Indoda, naphezu kokukhubazeka, yahlanganyela ezemidlalo eParalympic. Ngokushesha lo mbhangqwana washada, kwathi ngemuva kweminyaka eyi-10, uhlukanisile. U-Alla wafundisa lo mshado, futhi umuntu okhubazekile wasiza ukukhulisa izingane.
Ubaba omusha uvele ngesikhathi sokucibishelwa kabusha kweSanatorium, lapho u-Alla ayenayo nendodakazi yakhe. Ngajwayelana nendoda eyayinomuzi wayo. Bashintshana ngezingcingo futhi ngokushesha baqala ukuhlangana. U-Alla wayeneminyaka engama-39 futhi wawumayelana nokukhulelwa, akazange ahambe. Kepha kwenzeka ukuthi waphinde wakhulelwa futhi wadonswa ngokuphelele lapho indoda yakhe esha yathi ayifuni umntwana futhi wamphoqa ukuba aye ekuhushuni isisu. Kepha u-Alla, wamelana nokuhlaselwa nokuthi le ndoda ihambile. Kushiya ingane. Ngakho ingane yesithathu yazalwa, intombazane u-Alice.
Bheka futhi: Umama ongayedwa - amathiphu ama-5, ukuthi ungaphila kanjani
Manje u-Alla unezingane ezintathu, enye yazo isesihlalweni sabakhubazekile. Njengowesifazane echaza, kunzima kakhulu kuye, kepha uNkulunkulu unikeza ithuba 'lokuphakamisa izingane, noma ngabe kubonakala sengathi lesi simo asinathemba. Ngokuqondene nesizungu, wayehlala efuna umndeni, akanacala nabantu.
Umlando ka-Elena: "Bengifuna ukungafuni ukuba nabesilisa ababuthakathaka, kungcono ukuhlala
U-Elena Ryabova, umama omkhulu ohlala esifundeni sase-Ivanovo. Owesifazane unezingane ezinhlanu futhi akazange ahlise izandla. Ikhuluma kalula, futhi lapho kungekho khona amadoda ethi "Kungcono kune-ABUBA." Ngaso sonke isikhathi bathi uyazalela yena, izingane zithanda futhi akekho okhathazayo njengoba ngigqoka noma ukubondla.
Ngokuka-Elena, abaningi abacebile, abanengane eyodwa baphuma kuye uthuli futhi bagqoke izinto ezibiza kakhulu. Futhi ingane ngenxa yalokho ingaba umlutha wezidakamizwa ngenxa yokuthi wayesanda konakaliswa.Konke okusemhlabeni okuhlobene, kanye nokuqonda kwendlela engcono kakhulu. Omunye uthi ngibeka ubuphofu. Bayeke bathi. Ngiyazithanda izingane zami, futhi uma iNkosi uNkulunkulu engithumelela izingane eziningi, ngizokwamukela wonke umuntu ngokubonga.
Ngempilo yomuntu siqu, u-Elena akathuthukisi. Ngokoqobo izimpilo, unyaka noma ezimbili neziphambukela. Kepha izingane zihlala futhi zinjalo kuze kube phakade.
Ngakho-ke ungaphuthumi ukulahla futhi usho ukuthi, Kungani ubeletha. " Akukukhumbuli, kodwa ngokwami. Into esemqoka ukuthi abesifazane bazizwa bevumelanise ezimpilweni zabo, yize bengakufihli ukuthi kunokuntuleka okuningi.