Omunye umama uthi: "Sesiqale ukulungiselela indodakazi yakhe esikoleni. - Ngize waqashelwa umfundisi wakhe. Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, uzoya ekilasini lokuqala.
"Kepha ingane iyisihlanu kuphela," ezinye izinto. - Akukapheli ekuseni kakhulu?
- Manje izingane kufanele ziye esikoleni zilungiselelwe. Ukwazi ukufunda, ukubhala nokubala.
Ngokumangazayo, kule ngxoxo, zombili izingxabano zilungile. Akungabazeki ukuthi izingane zanamuhla zidinga ukulungele isikole, kepha ziqala ukukwenza kahle lokhu esikhathini esingangonyaka ngaphambi kokungena ekilasini lokuqala. Kodwa-ke, ukwakheka kwamakhono awusizo wokufunda kuqala kakhulu ngaphambili - futhi umfundisi akayona umsizi.
Ingane ilungile nini?
Ukulungela kwesikole kuyaqondakala njengokuxhumana kwezici ezinhlanu:
- Izinga lomzimba lokuthuthuka lifaka i-coarse eyisisekelo yokudla okuyisisekelo nangendlela enhle;
- Amandla okucabanga asuselwa ekuxhumaneni kwazo zonke izinzwa ezinhlanu;
- Isisusa sihlanganisa nomqondo wokubekezelela ekudumazekeni, okuyinto ezweni yanamuhla eba ngaphansi futhi ngaphansi;
- Amakhono ezenhlalo afaka amandla okuxhumana nokuxhumana;
- Ukunakwa okugxile kuyisisekelo sokuhlushwa ekuqeqesheni.
Ukusekelwa okufanelekile okuhambisana nokumazi kusenesikhathi emhlabeni wezincwadi kwakha isisekelo esihle sekhono lezingane ukuze liye esikoleni ukuze liye esikoleni.
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Eminyakeni engu-80-90, kwakulula kakhulu ukulungiselela isikole. Kwanele ukukhipha enkulisa. Usuvele ezifundweni, izingane zifunde konke. Ngokulungela ngokwengqondo futhi bekungadingeki. Kwanele ngesinqumo sodokotela we-precinct.
Kodwa-ke, namuhla abazali babuzwa ukuthi ingane ingaya yini esikoleni, kudala ngaphambi kwaleya senzakalo. Lesi sikhathi sabadala sivame ukuphenduka ingcindezi. Kungenzeka yini ukushiya ingane unyaka othile enkulisa uma ebonakala engakulungele isikole okwamanje? Ngubani ozoba uthisha wokuqala? Le mibuzo neminye eminingi iza emakhanda kubazali lapho becabanga ngokufika ekilasini lokuqala.
Ukulungela isikole - Kuyini?
Iningi labazali alazi ngisho nalokho okusho ukuthi kusho ukuthini nokuthi yini efaka "ukulungela isikole." Umqondo wakudala awusebenzi kulokho okubalulekile lapho ungena ekilasini lokuqala namuhla, ngoba izingane zesimanje zikhula ngokuphelele kwenye inkambu yolwazi.
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Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amandla okufunda ahlanganisa nokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambi kwesikole, ngaphandle kokuthi ukufunda okuhlelekile ekilasini akunakuphumelela. Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba khona enkulisa iminyaka eminingana ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane zanamuhla zinabafowethu nodadewethu abancane kakhulu. Okusho ukuthi, abanalo ithuba lokuzijabulisa emndenini. Ngakho-ke, kungcono uma kunesimo sezingane - engadini, embuthanweni wabangane noma ezingxenyeni zezemidlalo.
Isici sesibili esibalulekile yimpilo. Impilo enhle - isimo sokufunda ngempumelelo. Kungcono ukuhlehlisa ukuya esikoleni kunokunikeza ingane lapho, okungalungile ngokomzimba.
Ukuqapha kubhekwa njengomama be-intelligence
- Izingane, zinake! "Yile ndlela othisha abasho ngayo lapho bafuna ukuchaza okuthile."
Lapho umuntu egxila ngamabomu kokuthile, egxila, uthola amakhono, okubaluleke kakhulu esikoleni. Kodwa-ke, ukugxila akunakulinganiswa ngokukhuthazela afunda ngayo inoveli ehehayo, futhi kunalokho ukuthi uzinikele kangakanani encwadini ezomile. Uma ingane esikoleni samabanga aphansi ingenza okuthile imizuzu eyi-10-15 lokho akuceliwe, kepha akukuthandi, khona-ke amandla akhe okugxila aphakathi.Kungavuswa ngefomu lomdlalo ngosizo lokuzivocavoca ezindlebeni: Zingaki izinyoni ze-twitter njengamanje? Ngabe uzwa ukugqwala komoya ezihlahleni? Nokububula komfudlana? Ngakho-ke, ingane ifunda ukulalela ngokucophelela futhi "ukubamba izindlebe." Angakuqeqesha ukugxila kwakhe, ukudweba nokwenza ama-handicraft, kanye nokuzama nokuthinta. Noma ukudlala imidlalo ye-agility ne-puzzle, enkundleni yemidlalo yeshashalazi. Lapho ingane iqhubeka nenza ibhizinisi lakhe, noma ngabe ingakutholi kakhulu, okungcono.
Amakhono okucabanga
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Kodwa-ke, ubuhlakani abusikho konke, ngoba ekugcineni, abantu kufanele bakwazi ukuyiguqula ibe ngamakhono obuhlakani. Lokhu kufaka amakhono okucabanga futhi ahlobene ngokuqondile nokubona okubukwayo. Kepha kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuzwa kahle futhi ngekhanda. Uma abazali bafuna ukukhuthaza ingane yabo kulokhu, khona-ke bangamcela ukuthi alethe izinto ezintathu ezikhonkolo ngezikhathi ezithile ukusuka kwelinye ikamelo achaze ukuthi angazithola kanjani.
Amakhono okuqamba namakhono okucabanga asetshenziselwa imidlalo edlala indima "yamadodakazi" aphakade "aphakade. Kepha ukuvakashela iminyuziyamu nakho kuyazuzisa. Ama-Collectibles nawo ahlobene nale ndawo. Ngoba uma izingane zingaqoqa futhi zigcine, ngokwesibonelo, amatshe, maduze nje azowahlenga ngosayizi, ukwakheka nombala. Ngakho-ke bathuthukisa imigomo yokuhleleka ewusizo ekuhlelweni kolwazi olutholwe kamuva esikoleni. Isigaba futhi sidinga amakhono okukhuluma. Izincwadi ezinezithombe futhi zikhulume ngazo noma ukumamatheka, sicela usitshele ngokuningiliziwe ngokuvakashela inkundla yokudlala nayo izoba wusizo.
Izinga lomzimba lokuthuthuka
Kodwa-ke, amandla okuya esikoleni afaka hhayi hhayi kuphela amakhono e-intelligence namakhono okucabanga, kodwa futhi namakhono omzimba. Lokhu kufaka phakathi indlela enkulu nencane. Isinyathelo esikhulu sisho ubugqwetha bezandla namabhulashi, kanye nemilenze nezinyawo. Yima emlenzeni owodwa bese ukhonkotha amahlandla ayishumi, ulinganisa eziqubeni zamalele ezihlahla, ukhuphuka, gxuma phezu kwezingqinamba, hamba uyobuyela emuva, uzokwazi ukuphonsa ibhola elikhulu - wonke la makhono amakhulu wemoto.
Namuhla, izingane zinezinkinga eziningi kakhulu kule ndawo kunezizukulwane ezedlule, ngoba zihamba kancane futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, zihluka kakhulu. Phakathi kokunye, kuholela ekwandeni kwemvamisa yokulimala kanye nezingozi.
Futhi uphonse amakhono amahle emoto. Ngokuyisisekelo, lokhu kusho ubuciko beminwe, eyenziwa ngesikhathi sokudweba, ukusika nokwenza imisebenzi yezandla. Kanye nalapho umdlalo wokuqina ngamabhola, abaqambi, amaphazili. Ukwakheka kombhalo wesandla ophukile kuxhomekekisa imibhalo ebhalwe phansi esikoleni, kodwa futhi kusuka ekusebenziseni kobuntu beminwe eminyakeni edlule.
Isisusa namakhono omphakathi
Funda futhi: Yiziphi izinto ezinhle, uma emndenini izingane ezimbili
Ukuphila okusebenzayo okuphezulu nengane lapha futhi manje kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokulungiselela isikole. Ukutshalwa kwezimali okukhethekile kwalokhu kungadingeki ngokuphelele. Kepha ingane idinga, ikakhulukazi, ikhwalithi eyodwa yisisusa. Lokhu kufaka hhayi kuphela inzalo, ilukuluku nokuzimela, kepha ikakhulukazi ukumelana nokudumazeka. Leli khono lokubhekana nokwehluleka noma ukuhlehlisa isidingo, hhayi okubi noma ukungafuni ukunikela ngokushesha okukhulu.
Kepha abazali bangakwazi ukubekezelela ukubekezelela ukudumazeka kunoma yimuphi unyaka, noma ngabe sekuvele eminyakeni emithathu yokuqala yokuPhila:
- Imidlalo yebhodi - indlela eyodwa okufanele yenziwe. Impendulo, kunjalo, ukuthi abazali abalahlekelwa ngenhloso yokunikeza ingane yabo umuzwa wokufeza. Uma abantu abane bedlala umdlalo webhodi, ezintathu zazo zilahlekelwa. Ngakho-ke ukunqoba kuhlukile. Wonke umuntu okhula ngokuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo, ufunde okulindelwe ngokweqiniso kunezingane ezihlala zikuvumela ukuba uphumelele.
- Emidlalweni ekubuseni kwentando yezingane yenza kube ngcono futhi kube ngcono. Ngakho-ke, ukujuggling kuhle. Yonke imidlalo lapho ingane ingalahlekelwa khona kalula, isize ekuthuthukiseni isimo sengqondo sokuzola ngokudumazeka.
- Imindeni ehlala ibambe njalo "izingqungquthela zomndeni", ngokwesibonelo, ukuthuthukisa amacebo uhambo lokuvakasha kanye namaholide ndawonye, isize izingane zabo kulokhu. Ekugcineni, akuwona wonke umuntu ozokwazi ukuvikela umbono wawo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, udinga ukubheka ukuyekethisa futhi wenze izinqumo.
- Ngisho ne-TV ingaba ithuluzi lokubekezelela ekudumazekeni uma kuvame ukunqanyulwa. Eminyakeni emibili yokuqala yempilo yezingane akufanele uchithe isikhathi phambi kwesikrini, ngoba kulimaza impilo yabo.
- Ibhange elilula le-piggy lingaba nomthelela ekuthuthukisweni kokuzwela lapho izingane zilala izinhlamvu zemali izinyanga ukuze ziqongelele okuthile okufiselekayo.
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Abantu abanenhlalo abanobungane kulula ukwakha ubudlelwano nabantu ongabazi. Ukunqoba ama-Shyness kuyinqubo yokufunda eqala ngokwenza ngcono ukuzethemba. Lokhu, nalokhu, kunengqondo kuphela lapho ukuxhumana nabanye abantu, futhi lokhu kudinga ukuzwela kwezenhlalo. Ukuxhumana kufaka phakathi nje ukushintshaniswa kwamagama, ngoba ithoni yezwi, isimo sobuso kanye nokushukuma komzimba, kanye ne-akhawunti yonke yolimi lomzimba ngamaphesenti angama-90 okuxhumana. Kungakho ukuxhumana ngocingo, imiyalezo yombhalo ayibuyiseli izingxoxo eziqondile.
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Abazali kumele bakhulume kakhulu nezingane - isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba bazikhulumele. Lokhu akudingi ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo kuphela, kodwa futhi nasekwakhekeni kothando. Njengoba ingane ngayinye ibhekene nezingxabano, izingxoxo zomuntu zibaluleke kakhulu. Kuphela, uzokwazi ukuletha ubunikazi bakhe ngayo yonke imibono, izinhloso nezinhloso zakhe ngokuhambisana nezwe futhi ufunde ukuxazulula izingxabano ezingenakugwenywa ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Ukufunda kuyasiza futhi kuningi kule nqubo. Izingane ezifundwa njalo kusukela esemncane, funda ukuthola injabulo ezincwadini. Ekuqaleni, ungakhetha izincwadi ngezithombe. Ngemuva kwalokho umdlalo uzoba nombhalo, noma ngabe kuyiprosesa noma izinkondlo. Futhi ekugcineni, kusukela eminyakeni emine kuya kwemihlanu, bangafunda izindaba noma izindaba ezinde noma izindaba ezinde. Ukufunda njalo ebusuku kukhuthaza izingane eziningi ukuthi zizame ukufunda ngokwazo. Ngemuva kwalokho bazokwazi ukulungiselela ngokuphumelelayo nokutadisha.Onke amandla nokuzivocavoca okuhlongozwayo okukhulunywe ngakho lapha kunjalo, kwenziwa, kuqala. Iminyaka emithathu yokuqala yempilo yengane yisikhathi sokuthi amafomu awo amaningi, ngakho-ke abazali bangasebenzisa lokhu ukuze bakhe amakhono azofika asebenziseka empilweni.