Izinsana azizi okuningi. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi izingane ezincane azazi ukuthi zikhulume futhi zihambe kanjani, kepha bambalwa abantu abangakwazi (kuze kube yilapho umzali uqobo), ukuthi izingane eziningi uqobo), ngoba kubuye kube yisayensi enzima.
Sithole izindlela eziphambili zokufundisa izingane ukuba zilale futhi eqinisweni lokuthi ngokuvamile ziyadingeka.
Okokuqala, ake sicacisele: akuzona zonke izingane ezidinga ukulala. Kunezinsana ezilele ngokuphelele ngaphandle kosizo, futhi kunabazali abangahluphi ngokuphelele ukulala ngokuhlanganyela nokuwela ngokwahlukana.
Kodwa-ke, kunezimo ezinjalo lapho ingane ilala khona ngokungazethembi nangezikhathi ezithile, ezithinta kabi isimo sayo, intuthuko yempilo yabazali. Noma abazali kudingeka baye emsebenzini, futhi ingane ibalulekile ukuze ufunde ukulala nogogo noma uNanny. Izizathu zokuqala ukufunda ingane zilale zingaba ziningi, futhi lapha yonke imindeni ngokwayo iyazikhethela indlela engcono kakhulu.
Asikhulumi ngokweseka izindlela ezithile zokufaka ingane, futhi asikhuthazi muntu ukuthi azisebenzise - sifuna nje ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izinketho onazo, uma iphupho elibi lengane yakho limnyama isipiliyoni sakho sabazali.
Ngingaqala nini ukufunda ingane ukulala?Ochwepheshe abaningi ku-SNU qaphela ukuthi iminyaka efanelekile yokufunda inqunywa ngawodwana futhi incike ekuthuthukisweni kwengane, kepha imvamisa kwenzeka phakathi kwezinyanga ezine neziyisithupha zokuphila kwengane.
Izinyanga ezingama-4-6Ngalesi sikhathi, "i-trimester yesine" iyaphela, futhi ingane ayinaso isikhathi sokujwayela indlela ekhethiwe yokubeka kakhulu - ngokwesibonelo, ukulala nebele noma uhlobo.
Lapho eneminyaka ecishe ibe yizinyanga ezine, izingane eziningi zidlula ekubuyiselweni ubuthongo - zinamakhono amaningi amasha, futhi ukulala kuba yinto engathandeki futhi kungajulile. Ngokusho komeluleki oqinisekisiwe weSnah Alanna McGINGN, "Lesi isikhathi esihle ukuze sisebenze ngamakhono okulala." Abanye abazali bakhetha ukulinda lesi sikhathi esinzima ukuba siqale ukufunda kancane kamuva - futhi lokhu kuvamile.
Kusuka ezinyangeni eziyisithuphaUma ingane yakho isivele ingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, akufanele ukukhathazeka futhi: "Akukephuzi kakhulu ukuthola imikhuba yokulala enempilo," kusho uMchinn. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, udokotela wezingane uMichael Dickinson ubheka izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ngobudala obuhle lapho ingane ingafundwa ukulala ubusuku bonke: "Lokhu kungumdala omuhle ukuthuthukisa imikhuba emisha,"
Iminyaka yengane lapho unquma ukuqala khona ukufunda kuzokusiza ukhethe indlela efanelekile yokubeka - abanye babo bafanelwe kangcono izingane, kanti abanye - izingane ezineminyaka yobudala. Akufanele ukufundisa ingane ukulala (futhi kunzima ukukhathazeka ngenxa yombuso) kuya ezinyangeni ezine.
Ungakulungiselela kanjani ukufunda ukulala?Ngaphambi kokuzama ukufundisa ingane ukulala ngaphandle kosizo lwamapeni, esifubeni kanye nesidumm, hlola ukuthi konke kufakwe kwezinye izindaba ezihlobene nenhlangano yokulala.
Nangu:Ususe imodi yokulala, lapho uqala ukubeka khona ingane ubusuku bonke ubusuku ngasikhathi sinye (okungcono, okungcono).
Ngaphambi kokuqala ukulingana, ingane yakho iphaphama ibe ngaphansi kweminyaka yobudala (ngokwesibonelo, izingane ezineminyaka engu-4-6 izinyanga akufanele ziphapheme isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora ama-2 ngasikhathi).
Unesiko lansuku zonke ngaphambi kokubeka, ingane eselivele isetshenzisiwe. Isibonelo: Ukugeza, ukufukula okuphumuzayo, ukugqoka ama-pajamas, kucisha ukukhanya, lullaby.
Ngosuku losuku, ingane yakho inomsebenzi owenele nomsebenzi owenele (ngokwesibonelo, unethuba lokuthola amakhono amasha phansi, futhi akudingeki achithe usuku lonke egumbini lokuphumula lomgwaqo noma esihlalweni sezingane ).
Uma zonke lezi zinto zibhekwa, khona-ke usukulungele ukuya esigabeni esilandelayo. Lapha unezindlela eziyisithupha eziphambili zokufundisa ingane nge-SNA enempilo eqinile, ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabazali nochwepheshe.
Indlela yokukhalela okulawulwayo (uyindlela ye-FERBRA)Kunokuhlukahluka okuningi okuhlukile kwale ndlela, kepha umgomo oyinhloko ulapha: Umzali ubeka ingane eCrib futhi asuke isikhashana, asondele kuye ezolile.
Ngezikhathi 'zezolile' ingane azikwazi ukuthathwa ezandleni, ziphakela noma zijikijela - ngokwanele ukuba zikhulume naye izwi elizolile futhi elinothando, lihlasela kancane noma likhanye noma kancane uPat ngemuva.
Izikhathi zokungabikho kwabazali kufanele zikhule kancane kancane - kusuka ngomzuzu owodwa kuya ku-10-15 imizuzu - futhi kufanele kuqhubeke kuze kube yilapho ingane iwela. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, le ndlela iqala ukusebenza ngesonto kamuva, kepha izinguquko zokuqala zingaqashelwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.
Ukulandela inqubekela phambili, ungaqhuba idayari ekhethekile, ezosiza ukuqaphela inqubekela phambili yakho, kanye nokunquma ukuthi indlela ekhethiwe ilungele ingane yakho.
Le ndlela echazwe uchwepheshe wezingane uRichard Ferber, encwadini ethi "Iphupho Lengane. Isixazululo sazo zonke izinkinga, "kuvame ukuthandwa kwayo (ikakhulukazi emazweni anesimemezelo esifushane), futhi kuhlale kugxekwa ngabalingiswa bemibono yothando - kukholelwa ukuthi ingane iyayeka ukukhala futhi ilala ngoba ilala ngoba ilala Okwezinkinga nokulala, kepha ngoba kukhungathekile futhi kungabaza ukuthi akekho ozofika.
Okwamanje akukho cwaningo olusize ekuhloleni yonke imiphumela yokusebenzisa indlela enjalo. Yebo, kunezifundo eziqinisekisa ukuthi izingane ezifunde ngempumelelo ukulala ngendlela ye-Ferbera, zivame ukuvuka ngokushesha futhi zihlele ngokushesha futhi zihlenge ngokushesha okukhulu ngaphambi kokulala, kepha ithonya lempilo yezingane nempilo engokomzwelo akakafundwanga.
Ngikhala indlela yokubandakanywa (kuyindlela ye-WeisSBlut)Indlela eqinile ngokwengeziwe uma kuqhathaniswa nendlela ye-Ferbra yindlela ehlongozwe nguMark Weisbllian Pediatrician ngo-1959 encwadini ethi "Ukulala Okunempilo - Ingane Ejabule".
Umnyombo wendlela yokungakhiya ngaphandle ukuthi "ungafaki ngaphandle" kokuziphatha okuthile kwengane (kulokhu - kukhale) ngokunganaki.
Ngamanye amagama, le yindlela abazali abangayifanele ngisho nengane yabo, futhi baziphathe njenganoma yibaphi abazali ngamafilimu nakumakhathuni - babeka ingane embhedeni, baqabule ebusuku bese beya ebusuku I-Loodings, indlela ye-Weisbluta ayikwenqabeli ukuthi zisondele enganeni ngesikhathi esithile ukuze zondle).
Indlela yokubandakanywa ikhombisa ukusebenza kahle - Ochwepheshe bathi kwanele ukuhlupheka ubusuku obu-2-3 kuphela ukuze ingane iye yakhala futhi iqine ukuba iye yakhala, kepha le ndlela iqinile ngokuqinile ngenxa yobuntu bayo.
Enqubweni yokufunda, hhayi ingane kuphela, kodwa futhi nabazali bayo, kanye nokunamathiselwa kwabazali, okuthi ngokuzayo inquma bonke ubudlelwano bethu nabanye abantu esikhathini esizayo, kuyahlupheka.
Le ndlela yokufundisa ingane elele ubukeka iqinile kancane kunamabili edlule. Ungukuthi umzali usegumbini elifanayo nengane - ngokwesibonelo, ehlezi esihlalweni esiseduze kombhede wakhe (yingakho indlela yendlela), ngenkathi ingane ilele. Ngasikhathi sinye, thatha ingane ngesandla, ulande noma usebenze ebeleni usengaba khona.
Ngokubekwa okusha ngakunye, isihlalo kufanele sihanjiswe kude kakhulu futhi side nombhede, uze wehle "emnyango we-nursery. Kukholakala ukuthi ngemuva kwalokho ingane ngeke ibe nezinkinga zokuzola okuzimele futhi ilele.
Inzuzo eyinhloko yale ndlela ubukhona bomzali. Ingane iyabona ukuthi akayona eyedwa, futhi uyazi ukuthi akazange aphonswe. Kodwa-ke, ukungathandeki okuyinhloko kwendlela kukhona - umzali kungaba nzima kakhulu ukubona ukuthi ingane yakhe ikhala kanjani, futhi lesi simo besilokhu siveza umbono ophazamisayo (futhi ngenxa yalokho, okunamathiselwe kuhlupheka futhi).
Indlela ethi "Hug-Put"Enye indlela efaka ukufakwa okuningana kwabazali, kuchazwe encwadini kadade wezokwelapha nochwepheshe ku-SILE TRACY KHOGG "Ngabe ingane yakho ifunani?".
Umnyombo wendlela "yokuphamba" ulele egameni lakhe: Ngesikhathi sokulala, umzali akaphumi egumbini, futhi ebheke eduze kwengane, amnikeze ithuba lokuzola elakhe. Lapho umzali ebona ukuthi ukungezwani kukhuphuka, angathatha ingane ezandleni zakhe, athule abuye abuyele eCrib ngaphambi kokuba ingane iwele.
Ukuhluka okuthe xaxa "kufakiwe" kwale ndlela kusho ukuthi umzali use embhedeni wengane, uyawuphonsa ngosizo lwemivimbo, ama-pats kanye nokuhlasela.
Ochwepheshe banamuhla ku-SNU qaphela ukuthi indlela enjalo ingasebenza ezinganeni ezingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha kuya kweziyisithupha, futhi ukuba khona kwezingane ezindala, ukuba khona kwabazali kungahle kuthokoze futhi kucashunwe.
Indlela ye-FADDY (iyindlela ye-pentley)Yekani ukuzila ukudla, ake siye izindlela eziningi zokuhlekisa zokubeka ingane. Enye yalezi yahlongozwa ngumqeqeshi u-Elizabeth Pentley futhi ichazwe encwadini yakhe ethi "Indlela Yokubeka Ingane Ukulala Ngaphandle Kwezinyembezi."
Umongo wokuphela (kusuka kusiNgisi aphela - okugelezayo, okubuthakathaka) ukukhetha kancane kancane ubuhlobo obuhle phakathi kokulala kanye nesenzo esisetshenziswa yingane yakho manje (ngokwesibonelo, ukondla noma okumanzi).
Le ndlela ayicindezeli kakhulu ingane nabazali, kodwa kuthatha isikhathi eside futhi kudinga indlela evumelana futhi eqhubekayo. Ngakho-ke, abazali bamenywa ukuba baqhubeke benamathela ngendlela efanayo yokulala, abakhetha ingane yabo (ngokwesibonelo, bancelisa isifuba), kancane kancane behlisa isikhathi sayo.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ingane yakho "ilenga" esifubeni kuze kube yilapho inani eligcwele, ngokusho kwePenntley, isifuba kufanele senziwe ngaphambi nje kokuba ingane iwele. Ngemuva kwalokho - ngisho nangasekuqaleni, njalonjalo, uma nje ukondla nokulala kuzonyamalala nhlobo.
Indlela yokudlulisa isikhathi sokujezisaLe ndlela ayihlobene ngokuphelele nekhono lokugcizelelwa, kepha lisiza ekwakheni imodi efanelekile futhi ifundise ukulala ngaphambili. Lapha, njengasendleleni edlule, yonke into ixazulula ukugqama nokuphikelela.
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho ivame ukulala ngasikhathi sini ebusuku (ayilali eCrib, okungukuthi ilele) - lapha uzosebenzisa idayari yokulala yengane. Ngosuku olulandelayo, qala ukufaka ingane imizuzu engu-10-15 ngaphambili, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, ngemuva kokujwayela le modi - eminye imizuzu eyi-15 ngaphambili, futhi kuze kube yilapho ulungisa imodi embusweni oyidingayo.
Eqinisweni, kunezindlela eziningi eziningi zokufunda ingane ukulala futhi ilale - imvamisa ziphindaphinda noma zihluka kancane.
Abahlinzeki belanga bancoma ukusebenzisa indlela yomuntu ngamunye enganeni ngayinye, ngokuya ngezinto zakhe, izidingo nezidingo zabazali.
Kungakho, uma zonke izindlela "zezincwadi" zibonakala kuwe ezingafanele noma zingasebenzi, mhlawumbe kunengqondo ukufuna izeluleko kuchwepheshe ofakazelwe.