Kufanele usolwe ngalokho engifuna ukukudla ...
Kunokuningi kwalokho engingafuni ukukudlulisela enganeni yami. Kungaba isihloko sonke esiningi okuthunyelwe okuningi. Isibonelo, angifuni ukuhambisa ingane ekuboniseni ngalowo okufanele asolwe ngezinkinga. Ngifuna indodakazi ukuba ingazi lezi zingxoxo nakancane ukuthi ngubani okufanele asolwe, angazi ngala mazwi amabi "mina ukuzosola."
Ngifuna ukubhekana nenkinga, indodakazi yami yayingacabangi ukuthi ngubani ozomsola, kodwa wacabanga ngokushesha ukuthi ungayixazulula kanjani. Ukuze umbuzo ungazwakali "ubani okufanele asolwe?", Futhi "ngenxa yalokho okwenzeka nalokho okufanele ukwenzeki?"
Futhi ngokuvamile angiqondi ukuthi yini izinzuzo zalezi zincazelo. Futhi lokhu kusobala ukuthi uhlobo oluthile lwendaba eyayizuze njengefa yabathandekayo bami. Futhi ungakuphatha kanjani, angazi.
Ngoba angiboni lutho lwengqondo kulokhu kucaciswa. Yini inzuzo yalokho esikutholayo ukuthi ngubani okufanele asolwe? Kufanele sicabangele ukuthi yini enganikezwa yicala ukwenza noma ngubani. Yebo, yebo, noma yisiphi isimo singaphenduka ukuze lowo ofuna ukusolwa uzoba necala lokusola "Ufuna ukudla ..."
Futhi yini? Yini? Uzivume ngokwethembeka?
Uyini lolu lwazi "?
Ngake ngisolwe, kusho ukuthi awukwazi ukusiza? Ungazisoli? Manje wenza kahle, awunacala yini, ngokungafani nabanye? Uma omunye umuntu kufanele asolwe, ungasusa isibopho futhi ungakhathazeki ukuthi kukhona okungazange?
Yize kungenzeka kunezimo lapho wazi ukuthi ngubani okufanele asolwe, uzosiza ukuzixazulula ngokushesha. Kepha noma kunjalo, kudingeka kuhlale kahle kanjani nalawa mazwi, ukuthi ungawasebenzisa kanjani ngokucophelela!
Futhi yebo, kwesinye isikhathi ukuqhubekela phambili, kufanele uzivumele ukuthi kufanele asolwe, kepha lokhu kuqashelwa kumele kwenziwe kuwe. Kimi, lapho kufika isikhathi. Futhi la magama avela kwabanye azodala ukwenqatshwa. Yandisa kuphela le ndlela.
Ngakho-ke, ngifuna indodakazi icabange la magama okungenani. Futhi lapho edinga ukubabiza ukuthi babhekane nenkinga, kwakulula ukubasho futhi baqhubeke. Easy - ngoba la magama azovela empilweni yakhe futhi ngeke apendwe ngewayini nokona.