USergey Ardabjevsky wanyamalala ngo-1994 kwenye indawo endaweni yaseGrozny. Izihlobo zazifuna ikota yangekhulu leminyaka, ngenkathi engaphumi zodwa zedwa, zibiza uSididin Gachehov, onesifo somphakathi. Ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi indodakazi yahlolwa, eyathungatha uYise kuyo yonke le minyaka, kunzima ukukucabanga, kodwa banethemba lokuthi ithemba lalibuyele endlini yabo.
Indodakazi yendoda elahlekile yayikholelwa ukuthi iyaphila, faka amakhandlela esontweni impilo futhi ngonyaka agubha usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe. Empini yamahlaya, indodakazi ihlala yenza isifiso esifanayo: makube nobaba olahlekile.
Ubuso obubophayo, uSizipudin waba phakathi kukababa nezihlobo ezilahlekile, eqembu lakhe linikeza usizo ekutholeni ulahlekile ngenxa yempi.
"Ngesinye isikhathi lapho kusa ucingo lwaluhlakulela," kusho u-SayPlin. Izwi lowesilisa ongaziwa libuze ukuthi "yilethele lethelevishini?". Ngaphendula ngokuthi akekho futhi ubeka ifoni. Kepha ngiyaqonda ukuthi angingibizi nje ngakho futhi nganquma ukubuya. Indoda yazethula njengoSergey Georgieving Ardabyevsky, owathola ngohlelo lwethu "Ngabuya, mama." Ukunyuswa kungukuhlala njalo futhi kusiza ekutholeni izihlobo zamasosha abambe iqhaza eMpini Yezwe II. Ngakho-ke uSergey wangithola futhi watshela izindaba zakhe ezibuhlungu.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ngokoqobo ngo-Eva weMpi yokuqala yeChechen, uSergey buthule noninazala futhi, i-psychomow, waya ekotashi. Kepha impi yakumangaze, futhi uSergey wazithola esekamu lababaleki athumela e-Ingushetia.
Ngakho-ke uchungechunge lwezingozi, lwalususa emndenini ngamakhulu amakhilomitha, nasekupheleni iminyaka engama-26. Ngenxa yokuthi uSergey wokulwa akakwazanga ukubuyela ekhaya, ngakho-ke kwadingeka ngabheka okungenani umsebenzi othile ukuze asinde. Kepha kancane kancane impilo yangena embhedeni wakhe kwathi uSergey wathola umndeni waba njengomdabu.
Manje uSergey uneminyaka engama-61 ubudala nephupho lakhe ukuthola umndeni wakhe olahlekile.
Funda futhi: "Ngabeletha umfowethu, abazali bami benye ingane" - indaba kaMama ongakwazanga ukufundisa indodana yakhe
Kuyiqiniso, ithimba leSidududin lihilela yonke imithombo yalo ukuyomemezela owesilisa. Imininingwane mayelana nayo yafakwa ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, okuthi, ngokweqiniso, izinkulungwane zama-akhawunti athathwa.
Amandla wenethiwekhi yezenhlalo avela emangalisayo, njengoba ngokoqobo ngemuva kwamahora ambalwa intombazane engibizele yona futhi ngezinyembezi ngokungenasici wathi wayesenyamalale indodakazi kaSergey! Lokho akufunayo kuye eneminyaka engama-26 ubudala, bese kutholakala emahoreni ambalwa.
Isiphetho futhi saphonsa umndeni ushiye ngaphandle kukaYise, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye abayeki ukumfuna futhi abalahli ithemba lokuthi uyaphila. Ngo-2008, kwamenyezelwa uSergey ohlwini lokufunwa yi-Federal, futhi ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, igama lakhe nesithombe sadlalwa lapho kudluliswa "
Bheka futhi: Cabanga: Izingane zakho zizogcinwa nawe njengoba usunazo manje
Indodakazi uSergey wayehlala ekholelwa ukuthi ubaba uyaphila. Wayevame ukukhumbula njengoba ethosiwe ama-pancake ngaphambi kokuhamba emsebenzini. Intombazane yahlala izwile, bathi awubambi, Myeke ahambe. Kepha indodakazi ngenkani yatshela ukuthi uyaphila.
Futhi yize umndeni usahlukaniswa, kodwa okokuqala ngqa eminyakeni engama-26, indodakazi nobaba bakwazi ukufona. Indodakazi yakwazi ukukhuluma kuphela: "Ubaba, yimi, Mila!". Bobabili bavele bakhala ocingweni.
Lapho le ndodakazi ithola, ubaba wavimbela umndeni wabalimi. USergey wabasiza ukuba banakekele imvu ye-oar. Indodakazi ithi uYise manje uneminyaka engama-61, kepha ubheka bonke abangama-70. Amazinyo akhishwe ngaphandle, ngawomazwi kaYise, i-butt yomshini ngisho nangemva kwempi. Wabe eseqala ukunyamalala. Indodakazi ikhulekela ikusasa ukuyomsiza akhiphe uyise ezweni langaphandle, ukuze kungukuthi uSmog ukumbukela.
USergey ngokwakhe ugcina ebanda kancane. Kubukeka sengathi akukho lutho okwenzekile, asibonanga, kahle, isikhathi eside. Angikaze ngizi ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani. Banikela ngamehlo adabukisayo kuphela nezwi lendoda ekhathele ngokungapheli. Ngokunokwenzeka, wonke umndeni weqiniso uyabona kuphela lapho uyise ebuya ekhaya. Ngokusho kweCipedine, izinsuku 15 nemibhalo izobe isilungele. Imbewu inethemba elikhulu kakhulu ngokuhlangana okumangalisayo ngemuva kwengxenye yekhulu leminyaka.
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