Olahlekile ungumuntu noma cha - ukuwuxazulula kuphela. Zonke izinhlobo zabanye zingumbono wazo nje. Vele, kunezinqubo zenhlalo.
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Ungabheka izinhlobo ezintathu zabantu abanjalo.
1. Unesiphiwo ngesineke ngokwemvelo, "izintandokazi zonkulunkulu", zingashiwo. Inhlanganisela yengqondo, i-charm, ukucashunwa kwengqondo. Ukuvuthwa kwamathalente. Umndeni nezinsizakusebenza zokuthuthukiswa kwengane enjalo. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, kwenziwa ngokwezifiso ngomsebenzi omuhle kakhulu, injabulo yomuntu siqu, ukugeza ngokunethezeka.
Futhi nansi iphutha! Konke kunikezwa umuntu onjalo ngaphandle kobunzima, njenge-wand magic, njalo kukho konke. Akasebenzisi umzamo, akazange ashaye phansi izandla zamadwala edwala abizwa ngokuthi "i-Peak enqobayo", ayibekezeleli ufulawa wobuciko, ayivezi isinkwa sakhe emjuluko wobuso. " Kepha, njengoba wazi, abazali abayena baphakade. Kanye nezinsizakusebenza ezinqwabelene ngazo. Kwesobunxele yedwa, umuntu onjalo uthola ukusebenza kwawo okulinganiselwe.
Umhlangano, manje owodwa wenye, izithiyo zangempela, wephuka ngokushesha. Noma ubuyiselwe ethubeni: "Nakhu, impilo yangempela!" Konke lokhu kuqeda ngokuwohloka kwezinga eliphansi lezenhlalo. Izinsalela zezinsalela zengqondo ziyaphela kancane kancane, futhi singakwazi ukubona endabeni yofulethi kusuka ekuhlolweni komuntu, nengcebo engabonakali ukuxhumana nemvelo yazo yangaphambili lapho manje evaliwe khona kuze kube phakade.
2. Ubuhlakani namakhono aphakeme kakhulu kunemvelo, "ubuhlakani obuncane" emndenini wePygmeys. Iqaphela i-gifold yayo, ehlushwa yinto engenakwenzeka ukuyithola noma okungenani ithuthukise izinga elidingekayo. Ngeshwa, akekho okungenani umuntu oyedwa ongakwazi ukwazisa amakhono agqamile wengane futhi umsize ekuguquleni isimo. Imvamisa abazali bathandeka "ukuhlakanipha", bahlehlise futhi bashaye, kube sengathi baphetha ubuphofu bakhe.
Ngakho-ke, phakathi kweziguli zami kwakukhona insizwa enamakhono avelele wezibalo, ayamzonda, anqatshelwe ukungena eyunivesithi futhi aphoqelelwa ukuthi asebenze njengo-janitor ohlelweni lwezindlu lwasekhaya (ama-80s ekhulu leminyaka elidlule). Ngenxa yalokho, ukudangala, ukudakwa kwasekuqaleni, ukuthambekela kokuzibulala.
Ngokuvamile kuyo yonke le minyaka, abantu abanjalo bathukuthele futhi benomona, bezama ukudela bonke abakwazile ukuzazi. Baqonda kakhulu ngenxa yobuhlakani babo, kepha ngenxa yokuphulwa akusakwazi ukukhuphuka.
3. Abantu abahlulekile ngenxa yokubi komuntu obubi. Intsha ehlakaniphile evamile ehlakaniphile, ekwaziyo ihlushwa ubuhlakani obuthile, obungenangqondo kakhulu nangokubekisa ngentshiseko. Lokhu kuthola abanye ozakwabo, abaholi, ngisho nezihlobo. Kwethulwa nensizwa njengomnikelo wokuqala wokuqala "kwicala elijwayelekile": Ukuthuthukiswa kwesayensi, isikhundla senhlangano yendabuko, sisiza iqembu lenkampani. "Ngubani, uma kungenjalo?".
Iminyaka ibanjwa, kepha isisebenzi esinethalente sisalokhu sinjengokuthi "generator yemibono", abanye bathola inzuzo enkulu, noma inceku ebhaliwe, noma umsizi wamahhala "uthisha wakhe." Akukho mphakathi, uchwepheshe, ukukhula kwezimali.
Ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, isidingo sokunyamalala kulaba mdala "ithalente", futhi lidilizwa "kubasebenzi abajwayelekile." Ukuqala okuthile sekwephuzile, futhi cishe awekho izinsiza. Ngabe uyazi ngolaka lwazizisebenzisa ngolaka, bese uphonswa njengento engadingekile, usizi lwesikhundla sakhe? Yebo kunjalo.
Yinye kuphela into engayalulekwa: Ukubona okungenani amakhono amaningi, okubonakalayo okuphezulu kulabo abasontanga, kuqala ukuwaphatha ngokucophelela, siyabathola lokho abanakho njengesipho sikaNkulunkulu. Futhi-ke, funda ukuzivikela - kusuka kuzalu "kwabeluleki", isixuku esinelukuluku, ukubukwa okunomona kwabanye.
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