Muva nje, inothi laqhamuka ku-Journal "Snob" - Kulo udokotela odumile wezengqondo uMikhail Labkovsky esifundweni sakhe
"Inenjabulo: Imiyalo Yokusebenzisa"
Ukubonisana Ngenjabulo. Esikhundleni salokho, kungani iningi labo labaphansi bethu besaba ukuphila enjabulweni yabo futhi bahlale becasha ngemuva kohlobo oluthile lomhlatshelo ophikisanayo (angikwazi ukuziphilela kubazali bakho, ukubekezelela izingane ezinyaweni zakho, ukulungiswa yenza, shintsha imoto ...) futhi ngakho-ke kuyaqhubeka nokuguga okujulile.
Sihlala siphila umuntu othile, egameni lento, kodwa ngeke uzenzele.
Ngoba kungobugovu, akunjalo?
Sonke sifunde kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi kwakunamahloni okuziphilelela bona: Ngokuqinisekile kufanele ubelethe umntwana, utshale isihlahla futhi uzuze ubuntu. Futhi konke lokhu kuyiqiniso, kepha futhi awukwazi ukukhohlwa ngawe.
Ukuzivocavoca okuningi, okubandakanya inkolo, okubandakanya nathi ukuthi izinkinga nokuhlupheka zijwayelekile. Futhi ogogo bathela uwoyela emlilweni, bebona ukuthi "namuhla uyahleka, futhi kusasa uzokhala."
Abantu abajabule nabanelisekile kwabaningi bahlotshaniswa nokuthile okungapheli, okungeyona eyemvelo. Uma umbheka futhi ucabange: Yebo, ake sibheke ukuthi kuzoba yini ngokulandelayo.
Isimo "Imizamo kanye nokunqoba yi-evamile" abazali ababekelwe yona: abanganaki obaba nabantu abacasulwe ngumama.
- Yize kunjalo, yibona abathi: "Yebo, kunzima, kepha kulungile!", "Impilo iyaphila - hhayi insimu, ukuba iphile"
Ukujabula kubonakala kunamahloni, kepha akekho owasifundisa amandla okujabula.
- Akazange asifundise amandla okuphumula ngaphandle kokuzizwa unecala.
- Amandla okubonga ngeqiniso lokuthi okuhle kukunika impilo nsuku zonke.
- Amandla okunakekela ubuhle bakho nomzimba wakho, noma ngabe kufanele wabele imali kwisabelomali somndeni.
- Akekho owasifundisa ukubathanda. Ukuhlupheka nokubizela yonke into, kepha ukujabulela impilo - amayunithi.
ILankovsky iqinisekisa ukuthi injabulo ingumkhuba. Okufanayo nobubi. Uma sike sasetshenziswa ukufuna i-negative, sicasule futhi sikhononde, ungafunda ukwenza ngokungaphambene nalokho: ukukwenza ukuze uphile emfanekisweni wesisulu saphakade futhi ufunde ukuthi ungalifuna kanjani isizathu sokudabuka, Kepha ngenjabulo.
Kuyinto elula kakhulu ukuhlupheka: Ngemuva kwakho konke, lapho uyisisulu sezimo, kukhona ukungalungi okukodwa nobubi obuseduze kwakho, kubonakala sengathi kukhona umthwalo wempilo. Kungakho kufanele asolwe ngakho konke, lesi isiphetho se-villain, kabi, iso elibi, umona womuntu ...
Injabulo ngumkhubaNgakho-ke siphila usuku nosuku, siwe emthombeni ojwayelekile wezinwele, akukho lutho olwaludalayo, sinamahloni okuhamba siyohlangana namaphupho akho, funa injabulo kanye nokuqala ukujabulela impilo ...
Uthi, ngamazwi Kuzwakala kulula, futhi uzama ukujabula lapho ezindlebeni ezikweletini, mboleko nokwesaba ngekusasa lezingane?
Futhi phinda uqinisekise umbono weLankovsky: Ujwayele ukugxila kakhulu ezinkingeni. Yebo, uma ubheka izimo ezifanayo ngombono omuhle?
"Noma ukhathazekile ngezingane, kodwa okungenani banazo." Futhi kungakanani ekukhanyeni kwabantu abangenazingane nabangezinhle?
- Yize unemalimboleko, kepha okungenani une umsebenzi wokuyikhokha. Abantu abaningi abanalo ithuba lokuthenga izinto ngezimali ...
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukujabulela impiloYebo, njalo, zibala lonke uhlu lwakho konke okungcono onakho: Uphahla phezu kwekhanda lakho, umzimba ophilile, umyeni, abangane, abathandekayo, umbono omuhle ovela efasiteleni ...
Hhayi-ke, ngeke yini uthole izinto okungenani eziyi-10 ezikwenza ube ngumuntu ojabulayo? Izinto okudingeka zigxile kuzo futhi, esikhundleni sezikhalazo nezimangalo ngokuphila, thokoza kubo.
Futhi akuphathelene nanoma yini ongayiphikisa futhi unganaki izidingo zabanye. Kumele ukuthi ibhalansi kufanele ibonwe kuphela: nabanye bathande abanye, futhi ungakhohlwa ngawe ... futhi kuvela ukuthi abanye sibathanda kakhulu kunawe, khona-ke ngenxa yalomhlatshelo uqobo futhi bahlupheka.
Futhi wena, bafundi abathandekayo, Yazi ukujabula futhi ujabule, noma okuthile kuvimbela injabulo yakho? Kuthiwani uma kungenjalo imfihlo?
Bhala kumazwana!
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