Uhlobo lwemicabango yocansi: Ukuthi bathembele kanjani eminyakeni yobudala, ubulili kanye nomlingiswa

Ucansi Kwabesilisa Nabesifazane

Kuyavela ukuthi imicabango yabesilisa nabesifazane ifana kakhulu. Ngokusho kocwaningo lwezengqondo, abesifazane bavame ukuzimela banamandla futhi banothando ngocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngowesifazane ovame ukuphuza ubulili kanye nesipiliyoni se-BDSM.

By the way, amadoda kulindeleke ukuthi aphuphe ubulili beqembu, okungukuthi ungongxeka kanye nabesifazane ababili. Lokhu kunjalo, ngendlela, i-shittomatamatiny fantasy.

Ucansi kubantu abasha nabavuthiwe

Kuvela ukuthi izifiso zocansi zixhumene nobudala babalingani. Cha, abantu, bewela iminyaka ethile, ungayeki ukucabanga ngocansi. Futhi isikhathi sokuya esikhathini kanye umvuthwandaba asisiphazamisi kakhulu isifiso. I-libido ayivaliwe ngeminyaka, lokhu kungenxa yezinye izinto (ezempilo, izinkinga zengqondo). Ngakho-ke ngisho nemicabango yabantu abadala - kahle, abantu abadala kakhulu. Njengomthetho, baphupha ngezihloko ezenqatshelwe ngisho nocansi nabalingani abaningi ngasikhathi sinye. Ngenkathi abantu beminyaka emincane, amaphupho avame ukuhlotshaniswa nezihloko ze-BDSM.

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I-tempem ayidlangisi indima yokugcina imicabango yocansi. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ama-extroverts ahamba ngezinyawo nemicabango, sishesha ukukudumaza! Lokhu kungama-loverts.

Kulula ukuchaza. Njengoba ama-introverts anzima ngokwengeziwe kunokuxoshwa, axhumana nabanye abantu, maningi amathuba okuba alwele izinhlobo zokuqala zokusho kwezocansi. Extraverts Kubalulekile ukuthi ukuxhumana okuphezulu nabantu, ngakho-ke imicabango yabo ivame ukuba lula. Bacabanga ngobudlelwano be-polygamy.

Ungayenza kanjani imicabango yokuphila

Izindlela eziphambili zokuqalisa ukusebenza zivulelekile, ukwethembeka nomunye kanye nemvume yomunye umlingani.

Ungasheshi

Uma wena nesoka lakho ninqume ukuvula imibono emisha ngokobulili, ungalweli ngaphandle kwekhanda lakho. Le yindlela ephuma endaweni yokududuza, ngakho-ke shesha ubeka engcupheni ubungozi kuze kube phakade ukuzingela ukuzihlola embhedeni. Ukuqala, jwayela izifiso zakho.

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Qala ngezingxoxo ezijabulisayo

Usinde kanjani isithandwa sizothatha amaphupho akho? Nikela ngempi - qala ngezingxoxo ezingcolile. Isibonelo, ekubhaleni okushisayo, bhala lokho ongathanda ukukwenza nomlingani, ukuthi uzobe ugqoke - ngokuvamile, uyichaze yonke imininingwane yenganekwane yakho. Manje linda ukusabela, lizokutshela ukuthi kufanelekile yini ukuhamba kule ndlela ngokuqhubekayo noma ukushiya yonke into njengoba injalo.

Ezokuphepha Eza kuqala

Futhi lokhu akuyona nje ukuphepha ngokomzimba, uma kufika e-BDSM. Lokhu kuyinduduzo ngokomzwelo. Kubalulekile ukuqapha impendulo yozakwethu ukuze ume ngesikhathi. Ukuze kube lula, woza ngocansi lwamagama ozosabela ngalo ngokushesha.