UDale Carnegie ungumbhali odumile waseMelika, uthisha, uMlobi wezincwadi eziningi. Igalelo lakhe ku-Psychology limane lihlukile. Manje, ngosizo lwezincwadi, abantu beCarnegie bafunda kithi, bazazi nokuxhumana. Enye yezincwadi ezidumile uDale utshela ukuthi zihlele kanjani umuntu ngokushesha kuye. Imibono efanayo abantu emhlabeni wonke basetshenziselwa ukwenza izingxoxo zebhizinisi, izingxoxo kanye nokuxhumana nabantu. Ngenxa yalokhu, impilo yabafundi iyathuthuka! Ngicabanga ukuthi kufanelekile ukulalela izeluleko zakhe!
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Akekho othanda kuze kube phakade futhi ahlele kwababi ngabantu. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuxoshwa ngemuva kwemizuzu embalwa yokuxhumana. Kubalulekile ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle, ngisho nasesimweni esinzima kakhulu ukuhambisa ngokuzola ngokwengeziwe. Okwethembayo kudonswa kwabanye, ngoba kuphakamisa isimo. Kuyazethemba futhi abantu abaqondile eduze kwabanye bathembela kakhulu. Ngendlela, uCarnegie wakubona lokhu ebusheni bakhe, lapho kufanele asebenze njenge-ejenti yokuthengisa futhi axhumana nenani elikhulu labantu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uDale kwadingeka akholise abantu ukuthi bathenge izimpahla, futhi kwakuwukuthemba okwamshiya. Enye ingxenye ebalulekile yesimo sethemba lokumamatheka okuqotho!
Kulula ukuqeda izinkinga kanye nokwehluleka usebenzisa umsebenzi. Awukwazi ukuhlala namanje, udinga ukuthola isifundo njalo. Futhi ukwahlulela okunjalo kwavela naseCarnegie ngenxa yesipiliyoni sakhe. Lapho esemusha, uDale wasebenza kakhulu epulazini labazali bakhe, futhi wafunda ekolishi. Kwakuwumsebenzi onzima ovumela umbhali ukuba aqonde intengo yemali, futhi wasiza ekufundeni ukungakhathazeki ngezinto ezinhle kakhulu, futhi uveze kahle izinto eziza kuqala empilweni. UCarnegie uthe impilo imfushane kakhulu ukuba ingayisebenzisa ngezimo. Nanti iqiniso nakanjani ongaliphikisane nalo!
Musa ukumba okwedlule kwakho, ngoba awusakwazi ukukushintsha. Ngeshwa, abantu bavame ukukhohlwa ngakho, bahluphe ngenkumbulweni futhi baphanga imizwa yabo. Kuyiqiniso, uCarnegie wathi amaphutha awo adinga ukuhlaziywa, kepha akunakwenzeka ukuguqula ukuhlaziya ekuzibizeni, ngoba akukho nzuzo kuyo. Kubalulekile ukufunda ukulawula imicabango yakho, ungavumeli ukuthi babuyele ezikhathini zangaphambili.
Akekho umuntu omuhle, kepha kubalulekile ukuqonda lokhu nomsebenzi wokuqeda amaphutha akho. Zonke izimpilo zabo zidinga ukuzithuthukisa, kuba ngcono, kube nobuchule, obunobungcweti. Kepha akufanele uyiguqule ibe yi-anakali. Akunasidingo sokulenga kumalebula abantu, sibagwebe ngezenzo namagama, kubalulekile.
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