U-Irina usedumile ngamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ngekhulu lamashumi amabili, aqede
Eminyakeni engu-13 nje ubudala nokubhalisa e-Moscow State University. Umsebenzi wakhe waphumelela kakhulu, kepha impilo yengqondo ishiye okuningi ukuthi ifiswe.
Hhayi njengawo wonke umuntu
Ngokokuqala ngqa, babhala ngephephandaba loMfundisi "lapho u-Irina ayemi cishe iminyaka eyishumi. I-pair of tlots emfushane ku-TV nayo yadutshulwa. Ngemuva kwalokho bayeka ukusho ngakho kwabezindaba, futhi banamathela entombazaneni udokotela wezengqondo. Kepha kwenziwa esikhundleni sokuhlola kangcono i-IRU, futhi hhayi ukumsiza abhekane nobunzima bakhe. Kepha i-Academy of Sciences yasiza ekuguqukeni esikoleni kangcono.
U-Irina Polyakova eneminyaka emihlanu wafunda amavolumu angama-26 kaJules Verne. Lesi ngesinye samaqiniso anelukuluku kakhulu avela e-biography yakhe. Intombazane yakhuluma kahle isuka eminyakeni eyi-1.5 ubudala futhi cishe iminyaka efanayo ifundwe.
U-Irina Polyakova akaphenduli ebuntwaneni bakhe, njengoba okuthile kuhlasela futhi kukuhle. Kwakuwukuphela kwengane emndenini. Unina wayekhathazeke ngomqondo wokwenza indodakazi kaWunder, othuthukiselwe le nhlanganisela yezindlela zawo, engakunaki izivivinyo ezahlukahlukene. Zonke izinhlelo zakhe ezikude, wayefuna ukuzisebenzisa ngosizo lwengane yakhe.
U-Irina waya kwesinye sezikole ezijwayelekile emaphethelweni eMoscow. Kepha ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa wancoma ngokuqinile ukuhumusha endaweni yokuzivocavoca.
Uthisha wasekilasini lokuqala akamthandi u-Irina isikhathi eside, ngoba wayelungisa amaphutha athile ngemuva kwakhe. Ngeqiniso lokuthi le ntombazane yenza imisebenzi enkulu ngokwakhe, uthisha wake wamfaka amabili futhi waphoqeka ukuba abhale kabusha yonke incwajana. U-Irina wakhala wabhala kabusha ubusuku bonke. Waba nokuhlaselwa yinhliziyo. Ngemuva kwalokhu, umama wahumushela ekilasini, lapho uqobo afundiswa khona, kepha kuphela ama-Hooligans nabahlali bafunda lapho. Umama waxwayisa intombazane kunoma ngubani kubo ophazamisayo futhi wenza imisebenzi yakhe buthule.
Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, le ntombazane yabuka ngokuphelele uhlelo lwesithathu, kwathi emavikini ambalwa kanye nohlelo lwesine. Kwenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esifushane, u-Irina wakwazisa ngohlelo iminyaka emithathu.
Ubudlelwano nabalingani ekilasini e-Irina Polyakova abahlangane nakancane. Uthisha wambamba ngemvelaphi jikelele, ebiza wonke amanye ama-chocks ngamehlo. " Ngemuva kwalokhu, ofunda nabo baphanga ubuso bakhe. Le ntombazane ibingazi ukuthi bangasivikela kanjani isikhundla sakhe phambi kwabanye, futhi abazali bakhe abakubheki njengekhono elidingekayo. Ukungabikho kokuhlaziywa kwezenhlalo kudlale indima.
Kwenye isikole, ubudlelwano nabantu ofunda nabo baba ngcono, kodwa kancane. U-Irina akazange enze abangane nabo, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi wazama ukwelula. Ngenxa yalokho, wayesazophela ngaphandle. Ukutadisha sekuyinto yokuzijabulisa eyodwa yentombazane ngisho nesiphephelo. Kusuka ekutadisheni u-Irina uthole injabulo, ngoba kwadunyiswa ngakho.
Kusukela ohlangothini lwabafundi ofunda nabo kwakukhona amahlaya futhi amancane angcolile.
Intombazane iye yahlupheka isikhathi eside ngenxa yokulawula nokunakekelwa okwandayo kubazali. Ngesikhathi sempilo yomfundi ethokozisayo, baqhubeka nokushayela izibambo zakhe eminyango yeNyuvesi. Futhi empilweni yakhe kwakukhona ukunqatshelwa kombala wezinwele, vakashela ukuvakasha nakuzinsuku zokuzalwa.
U-Irina eMoscow State University kwadingeka afihle iminyaka yakhe ukuze bonke abakwazi ukuthi babenezinhlaka. Iqiniso lavulwa lapho le ntombazane isivele yavela abangane, kwakhiwa umbuthano wokuxhumana. Kepha abazali baqhubeka nokumfaka ngokulawula kwabo. Ukuphela kwento abefuna ukubalekela kumama nobaba ngokushesha okukhulu.
Ngo-18 wakwazi ukukwenza. Uphunyuke waqala ukuhlala nomuntu ofunda naye efulethini efulethini. Abazali baveze ngentshiseko intukuthelo yabo. Ngesinye isikhathi, le ntombazane yayeka ukuxhumana nabo. Kepha ngenxa yalesi sifo, ubaba kwadingeka aqale kabusha ubudlelwano.
Ukuhlala nabazali kubi kakhulu kunakungabo, yize iqiniso lokuthi impilo ezimele inzima. U-Irina waze wakufihla ukuthengwa kwemoto yakhe. Kepha bekusamele ngitshele ngakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ababelethi babona izindaba ezinjalo zingezingabi.
Lapho eneminyaka engama-20, u-Irina waya eCanada. Lapho, wayenendaba yothando kakhulu. Ngesinye isikhathi washada, kepha akazange aphume. Vele, ithuba lokuhlala lalikhona. Kepha intombazane ayibonanga amathemba ayithandayo. ESwitzerland, wazuza kakhulu kunensizwa yakhe yangaphambili eyayisebenza eCanada.
Kukhona umbono onjalo "ukwanda kwabazali." Yilokho okwakubonakala ngabazali baka-Irina. Ngenxa yalokho, le ntombazane ibingenayo ubuntwana obujwayelekile lapho ayengasena khona. Lapho izintu zikhula, zinezindlela ezimbili zokuthuthuka. Abanye bahlala ekuzuzeni kwabo, bakhululekile ukuba yiMega banxuswe, ungabi nabangane nabo - futhi kulungile, akekho obadingayo. Ngokomphumela, bangaba nesizungu futhi bangajabuli. Abanye bazama ukuguqula okuthile, kepha bayaqhubeka nokuzikhahlela.
U-Irina Polyakova wabhekana nodlame lwasekhaya ngolwazi lwakhe. Lapha sikhuluma ngamadoda akhe okuqala. Kwakukhona ezimbili zazo. Okwamanje, u-Irina uhlukanisile, kepha nokho, unobuhlobo.
Lesi simo sangaphambilini asithuthukisi isikhathi eside, ngoba abazali baphefumulela abazali kulo lonke u-Irina ukuthi i-Irina ilungile kuphela esikoleni, futhi noma yimuphi umzamo wokuqala ubuhlobo uzophela kabi. Lokhu kwaholela eqinisweni lokuthi wakhetha amadoda angakhululeki angamhloniphi, kodwa wakubekezelela isimo sengqondo esinjalo. Izidingo zamadoda ane-Irina kuzo zonke izimpilo zawo zaziphansi kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi kulungiswe kuphela ngenxa yokuzisebenza isikhathi eside kuye.U-Irina unendodana manje eseneminyaka eyi-13. Futhi uyingane ejwayelekile. Ukuphela kwento edida umama wayo ingumqondo ohlukile. Uma enabathelwa izibalo, khona-ke indodana inguabantu.
Ubudlelwane buka-Irina nonina ushintsho lwakhe lwayo. Ngemuva kwe-Psychotherapy, kwaba lula kakhulu kuye ukwakha imingcele yomuntu siqu futhi amise noma yimiphi imizamo yokukhohlisa nokucindezela.
Manje i-Irina ibisebenza njengekhanda lezentengiso ne-PR eRussia nase-QNET CIS.