Uma ucabanga ukuthi bonke abantu bashintsha, khona-ke cha, ngephutha. Banabesifazane abanjalo nje lapho amadoda engahambi khona, bayakudinga. Ngeke bashintshe umlingani wabo kunoma ngubani lapho, ngoba inezimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu!
Cha, ulungiselela futhi asuse indlu, kepha akaphendukeli encekwini, akenzi inkosi evela endodeni yakhe. Ngeke ahlangane naye othandekayo ezingutsheni zasekhaya ezingaqondakali ezinamamayini omuncu, avele ngenxa yokuthi wayekhathele phakathi kososo kanye nama-rafs. Usebenza kalula empilweni yansuku zonke, futhi akahlukumezi ngakho konke kusuka ekhanda kuye ezinyaweni.
Uyamthanda, uyakwazisa, ahloniphe, kepha akukufaki ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye. Unomsebenzi, kunabangane, into oyithandayo, ufunda okuningi, ebuka ama-movie. Indoda akuyona incazelo yakhe yempilo.
Futhi akuphathelene neqiniso lokuthi ufuna ukushaya indoda yakhe ngobuhle nokwakheka kwe-chic. Ubukeka kahle, kwabanye. Abesilisa bakwazisa kakhulu abesifazane abanaka abanye.
Akusoze kwaphendula kabi ngokuziphatha kwakhe, isimilo nokubukeka kwayo. Unokuzithemba okuhle, okwenze ngesisekelo sokunqoba kwalo kanye nezimpumelelo. Akazami ukuzitshela ngenxa yanoma ubani lapho, kubandakanya nokulahlekelwa yindoda ethandekayo. Futhi akamqhudelani naye futhi angakucindezeli. Unokuzithemba okuhle, ngakho-ke wakhetha umuntu ohloniphekile, futhi emndenini wakhe ubudlelwano obunenhlonipho.
Ikhwalithi ebaluleke kakhulu kowesifazane osiza umphumela omuhle ekuzithembeni kwabesilisa. Kunemindeni lapho amadoda athola khona imali njalo, kepha abesifazane abababozi. Futhi umlingani edinga ukubonga - ngomsebenzi wakhe, ngenxa yezimanga, ukunakwa, usizo. Makaze azenzele udoti futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ahlanze izitsha, kodwa angamshiyi ngenxa yalokhu ngiyabonga!
Hhayi ukuvukela umbuso. Lona umngcele wobudlelwano lapho othile ehamba kwesokunxele. Akukona mayelana nokubekezela okukhulu kanye nokuthethelelwa okuphelele, kepha ngokusebenza ekuthuthukisweni kwakho kwemizwa kwe-psycho. Ngemuva kwakho konke, izingxabano zenzeka kuyo yonke imindeni, kodwa ukulinda ukuthi konke kube yisona kuyisiwula. Udinga ukukwazi ukuthethelela, funa ukuyekethisa, izinkinga ngokwazo ngeke zinyamalale.
Unombono wakhe uqoboYiqiniso, le ndoda, ingaba yikho konke okubukwayo embuzweni owodwa, kepha owesifazane kufanele ahlale enombono wawo. Akufanele njalo enze lokho okushiwo yindoda yakhe. Cha, uzomlalela, azobheka umbono wakhe, kepha uyohlala enakhe! Uyazi, futhi uthokozela indoda, ngoba kunethuba lokuqinisekisa umlingani, limhudule ohlangothini lwaKhe. Lokhu kwenezela ukukhathazeka kanye nentshisekelo ebudlelwaneni.
Sinezinkinga ezincane lezi zimfanelo. Izazi zezengqondo zeluleka ukuthi ziqale ukukhetha umlingani wakho ngokwazo, ngoba ubudlelwano ne-counter yokuqala ngeke bungenze lutho oluhle. Abesifazane abaningi abanokuzithemba okuphansi bayesaba kakhulu ukuhlala bodwa, ngakho-ke bavula izinhliziyo zabo kulowo omane "aqhaqhazela" ngokulandelayo.
Umuntu, njengowesifazane - abantu bangempela. Bangaba nemibono yabo empilweni, ababi. Futhi-ke, ngaphambi kokuxhuma impilo yakhe nomuntu, kufanelekile ukumfunda, ukuhlala ndawonye naye, mbheke ukuba aqonde ukuthi ngabe kuyinto yokuphumula noma ukudlula "kwezokuthutha" nje ".
Uthando nokuqonda mutual kuwe!
I-athikili yoqobo itholakala lapha: https://kubluk.me/psihowoologije/7-kachestv-zhenshhiny-mu-uzchina-nikogda-niztm
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