"Ngabe ingane yami ethatha okuthile futhi?" Ungenza sengathi angimazi? Ungathanda ukuphendukela kanjani entuthwaneni futhi uphunyuke ngokushesha! - Umama ucabanga, ebukele ukungafani ne-sandbox.
Uthisha uthi: "Indodana yakho namuhla yaphula omunye umfana ngenxa yethoyizi," kusho uthisha enkulisa.
- Ukumemeza ukushintsha nokubalekela izingane, "kusho uthisha wezigaba zamabanga aphansi.
Umama ubheka ingane yakhe yokulala eyizingelosi.
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Uyakwethusa futhi waze waba namahloni. Ngabe le ngane enhle ngempela, kuyethusa ukucabanga! - Agrelissor? Kepha muhle futhi muhle kakhulu, kwesinye isikhathi asebenza ngokweqile. Eqinisweni, ukulala kwengane kungaba nezizathu eziningi. Futhi omama bakho nabo kudingeka bakhumbule: kwesinye isikhathi bathukuthela - lokhu kujwayelekile!
Ukuvinjelwa kwemizwelo abantu abadala badluliselwa ezinganeni
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Imvamisa inkinga yolaka ayikho khona nhlobo nje uma umama osemusha uyakubona. Ingane ivele ibonise imizwa yakhe. Kepha kulowo akuseyona eyakho imizwa ecindezelekile. Iqiniso ngukuthi eRussia zonke izizukulwane ngezizukulwane zavuka ukuthi kuvinjelwe imizwa engemihle.
"Amantombazane amahle angaskeki" futhi "abafana abangakhali ngokuthi" imizwa eqinile yezingane zabo bayinto enamandla kakhulu. Kuyavela uma ungakwazi, kungenzeka futhi kungenzeka? Lokho kungabazali babo, amanga?
Izingane zifinyelela eminyakeni ethile zixhumeke kakhulu ngomama babo. Ngakho-ke, esimweni lapho bebonisa ulaka, kufanele bazibuke futhi bahlaziye imizwa yabo. Ngabe ingane iyaziphatha ngempela ngokufanele noma i-hypertrophly ibona i-tantrum ejwayelekile ekhishwe uhlelo lwezinzwa olungavuthiwe lwendodana yakhe?
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Lapho esesebenze nemizwa yakho, owesifazane kungenzeka ukuthi izingane zakhe zizolile. Akunakuba abanye noma abanye abanye badideka imizwa yabo.
Ungahlukanisa kanjani imizwa yezenzo
Ukuqonda nawe, usungasiza nengane.
Umthetho wokuqala: Intukuthelo, ukucasuka, ukuthuka, intukuthelo inelungelo lokuba yilo. Umthetho wesibili: Umuzwa awulingani nesenzo.![Uma ingane icasule ezinye izingane 4962_4](/userfiles/22/4962_4.webp)
Okuthakazelisayo: Isipiliyoni sokuxhashazwa: Ukuthi umama wazama kanjani ukusiza indodakazi yakhe yasinda
Uma ingane ithukutha ngokuthi yathatha ithoyizi, ilungile. Uma enquma ukuveza imizwa yakhe esenzweni (ngokwesibonelo, eshaya owonile), umama kufanele axhumane futhi amsize aveze ngokwengeziwe ngempela lokho abhekene nakho lokho abhekene nakho.
Ngokufanelekile, wonke amalungu omndeni kufanele abe ngasikhathi sinye kulolu daba. Akukho ukulawula phezu kwemizwa, uma umama ethi:
- Akunakwenzeka ukushaya noma ngubani!
Nobaba:
- Ngiphe! Ukubalekela okwakho!
Izingane zibona lokhu kungaboni ngaso linye. Ngakho-ke, okungenani lapha udinga ukuxoxisana kusengaphambili.
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Ukumemeza, ukukhala, ukusho konke okwenziwe ngokoqobo - ungakwenza.
Beat, ukuluma, ukucindezela, ukuklabha - akunakwenzeka.
Hhayi nje "amantombazane nezincane ezingazange zishayi," kodwa ngokuvamile noma ngubani. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, vele, ingachazwa kuyisiphi isimo umuntu angaphendula ngokushaywa. Kepha ngenkathi kuseyingane futhi kukhuluma ngokuphila okungekuhle, futhi hhayi ukusinda emphakathini wanamuhla.
Ababelethi kumele bayibone imizwa yengane yabo, kodwa futhi nokuqinisekisa ukuthi akazilimazi yena nabanye, banomsebenzi wabo.
Ungawethula kanjani ingane ngentukuthelo
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- Enkulisa, omunye umfana wathatha ithoyizi oyifunayo? Uthukuthele? Ngiyaqonda, lapha futhi ngizobe ngithukuthele. Uma uhlangabezana nakho, ufuna ukushaya umuntu.
- Intombazane ebhokisini lesihlabathi ohlekisayo? Ubuhlungu. Nginami, kuyenzeka futhi. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi - Icala.
- Ngabona ukuthi ugogo akazange akunikeze uswidi, wathembisa? Futhi wamemeza kakhulu? Kusuka kulaka. Kwenzeka lapho ulindile, kepha awutholi.
Umama wemukela zonke izimo nengane yakhe futhi abize leyo mizwa yakhe. Kuchaza ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi uhlolwe futhi. Kwenzakalani. Ngakho-ke kungenzeka. Kepha empeleni iyanezela:
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- Ngiyaqonda okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, kepha akunakwenzeka ukwenza enye. Asishayi muntu. Lo boiler wawubuhlungu kakhulu lapho umshaya.
Okuhle kunakho konke, ukukhuliswa akujeziswa, kepha ukuqaphela imiphumela yengane. Ngakho-ke, awudingi ukumemeza, ufunge, futhi ngisho nokushaya umuntu omncane osanda kuthola umuzwa ongemuhle oqinile kuye. Kuyadingeka ukuchaza okulandelayo.- Uma ucasulwa yizingane esizeni, kuzofanele siye ekhaya. Uma ukhetha ithoyizi, sishiya izivakashi. Uma uqhubeka nokuzigcina, kuzofanela ngikulethele kwelinye igumbi, lapho ngeke udle khona.
Lokhu akufanele kube yinto elimele, kepha ingane kufanele iqonde - incishwa okuthile okumnandi kakhulu kuye. Ngeke ime - okushiwoyo kumele kwenziwe.
Ungasebenza kanjani nemizwa yezingane
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Ungafunda imizwa yakho ekuvezeni imizwa yakho kusuka eminyakeni eyi-1-2. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungambona futhi (hhayi ngezikhathi ze-Hysterics noma ulaka) Chaza:
"Lapho uthukuthele, ungacwila ngemilenze."
"Lapho uthukuthele, ungahlupheka."
- Uma uthukuthele, ungaphula iphepha.
- Uma uthukuthele, ungashaya umcamelo.
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Bheka futhi: Ungazilahleki kanjani ekhefini lokuya esikhathini
Phinda kaningi. Ikakhulu ngaphambi kwezigameko ezivame ukuvusa i-negative: ngaphambi kokuya ngaphandle, uma ngabe kukhona okonile, ngaphambi kokuvinjelwa kunoma yini.
Umuzwa kumele uqanjwe igama - uthukuthele, uthukuthele, ucasuke. Ngendlela, ungaqeqesha amasu okuphefumula kanye namaphothi wokuphefumula. Isibonelo, phefumula ngokujulile ekhaleni bese usebenzisa umlomo omkhulu. Ingane ngeke iqonde umongo walesi senzo, kepha ukulandelana kuzokhumbula. Futhi umphumela wokuphefumula muhle kakhulu.
Lapho ingxabano noma impi isivele yenzekile
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Uma kwenzeka ingozi, indlela yokuziphatha kukamama ibaluleke ngokuyisisekelo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uhlangothi lwesitha, noma ngabe kuthinteka kahle ohlangothini, noma ngabe ngiyaxolisa kakhulu. Umsebenzi ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane nalokho okwenzekile nokuyivikela.
Umama kufanele athathe imizwa yakhe.
- Ngiyaqonda, wasusa ibhola. Uthukuthele.
Bese ukhumbuza ngemiphumela yezenzo zayo:
- Uyakhumbula lokho esakuvumelana ngakho? Uma ubamba, siya ekhaya.
Phakamisa izindlela ezinobungane zokusinda ulaka:
- Ufuna, sizothatha ndawonye futhi unikine, sifunde kanjani ekhaya? Noma nansi i-napkin - ungamphula!
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Funda futhi: Ithoyizi lezintandokazi zezingane, okuyingozi ukulahlekelwa: indaba kamama oyedwa
Uma isimo elwa impi sizophinda, khona-ke ingane idinga ukuthuthumela futhi ihambe. Lapho zehlisa umoya, chaza ukuthi kungani kwadingeka ngenze njalo. Ukuphawula okungenamkhawulo kuthathwa njengomsindo omhlophe. Nezenzo ezazichazwe kusengaphambili, izingane ziyaqonda.
Imidlalo yokubonisa imizwa
Ukubukwa kwamakhathuni nezincwadi zokufunda kungahlala kusetshenziswe ngenhloso yokuqonda. Buza ingane, yimiphi imizwa eyizinhlamvu. Noma vele ubabize.
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- Bheka, ibhola lithuka uMatroskin. Matroskin ulimele!
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungaxhuma imidlalo ehlanganisiwe esebenzayo esiza nokukhipha okubi:
- Thola;
- ama-bouncers;
- ukulwa komcamelo;
- Ukudubula kusuka kuma-waquatic pistols;
- Yakha imibhoshongo kusuka emiqondweni futhi iphule.
Vele ugijime futhi ngasikhathi sinye okuthile ukuklabalasa, kuzosiza ingane ukuba iphile imizwa yakhe.
Kubalulekile kubazali
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Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukukhuluma naye. Chaza ngokungapheli ukuthi kwenzekani ngengane, futhi nabanye abahlanganyeli ezingxabanweni. Izingane kufanele zivikelwe ngabazali bazo. Ngeshwa, kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi umama uheha - esikhundleni sokubhekana futhi akhulume, uqala ukuthuka. Kepha emva kwalokho, ungachaza futhi utshele ukuthi kungani kwenzeka.
- Umama nje uyintombazane enhle. Kunzima kuye, njengawe, baby, ziphathe. Futhi, kubonakala sengathi, uncane ... Umona.