"Ngiqale ukuqonda abesifazane kakhulu."
USergey, oneminyaka engama-55, izingane ezimbili ezivela emshadweni wokuqala u-Ana (oneminyaka engama-25), uPolina (iminyaka engama-21) kanye no-Anastasia wesibili - kusukela ku-Onastasia (Eminyakeni engu-8), iKsenia (iminyaka emi-4), i-Sofia ( Izinyanga ezi-5)
ISt. Petersburg
Lapho izibulo lethu zinezinyanga eziyi-8 ubudala, lowo oshade naye wakhulelwa ngengane yesibili. Ezinyangeni ezimbili emva kwalokho, waya emsebenzini ukuze athole isimemezelo enganeni yesibili, ngahamba, ngahamba.
Emsebenzini, wonke umuntu wamangala kakhulu lapho sanquma ukwenza lokhu. Kwakungekho ukulahlwa okuqondile, kodwa kusobala ukuthi kwakukhona ukungaqondi, kungani kufanele sidinge ingane yesibili lapho owokuqala esemuncane kangako.
Kwakungekho zinkinga ngokuklanywa kwemibhalo. Uvele uye ku-MFC wenze konke okudingayo.
Angikwazi ukusho ukuthi ngesikhathi sesimemezelo ngithole okuthile okusha. Sengivele ngisesimweni sokuqala somshado. Ngaleso sikhathi nje angicabangi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuhlela ngokusemthethweni. Ngokunokwenzeka, ngaqala ukuqonda abesifazane, ngabona lapho amandla nesikhathi achithwa khona.
Into enzima kakhulu esicanyweni kwakuwukusakaza kahle isikhathi ukuze konke futhi ngasikhathi sinye ungakhathazeki uma kukhona okungekho isikhathi.
Into emnandi kakhulu ukuzwa ukuthi ingane ithi "iPapula", futhi ubone imibono yabantu abaseduze lapho uhamba namadodakazi.
Ngasizathu simbe, kukholakala ukuthi umama kuphela onganakekela ingane, yize lokhu kungenjalo. Ubaba futhi angakunikeza kalula ukunakekelwa nokusekelwa.
Njengoba abesifazane manje sekwedlule futhi ngokwengeziwe njengokulingana nabantu abesilisa futhi bakhethe ukungayeki umsebenzi, khona-ke amadoda angangena esikhundleni sekhefu lokuya esikhathini noma. Zonke lezi zimibuzo ezixazululiwe.
"Kunzima kimi ukucabanga ukuthi omama abaphoqelelwa ukudonsa amasonto okuqala ukuba adonse amasonto okuqala enomntwana kuphela"I-Armand, eneminyaka engama-32 ubudala, izingane ezimbili - ibhubesi (iminyaka emithathu), i-EVA (izinyanga eziyi-8)
Ibhanoyi
Ngemuva kokuvela kwezingane, akukhona ukuthi akukho lutho empilweni yethu engakashintshi, kepha siyaqhubeka nokwenza konke esikuthandile ngaphambili: ukuhamba, ukuklebhula nabangane, umsebenzi. I-nuance encane nje yavela - manje ukuhlela kwanoma yimuphi umcimbi kufaka ngokuzenzakalelayo izidingo zomuntu omncane (nokusanda kudala - amabili). Futhi akusona isikhathi nje. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ucabange ngomthwalo wemfanelo wazo (kanye nokwabo!) Impilo, mayelana nesibonelo esimkhonzayo.
Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, wena nomlingani wakho sebeba ngabaphathi be-Project, lapho iphrojekthi impilo oyinikeze ingane yakho. Futhi le ndima entsha yimpilo yonke, izixazululo kufanele zithathwe nsuku zonke.
Manje ngisebenza usuku oluphelele, futhi uKatya cishe ucishe ube yingxenye yosuku. Ngenkathi u-Eva edla ubisi, ngichitha isikhathi esincane naye ku-katya. Futhi maqondana nebhubesi sihlukanisa isikhathi nezibopho kanye ne-robust. Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwendodakazi, nganginezinga elisha lokuqonda nothando nendodana yakhe.
ESpain, lapho sihlala khona, bobabili abazali abasebenzayo bathola ikhefu elikhokhelwa ngokuphelele le-Maternity. Amasonto ayishumi nesithupha eholide athembela kumzali ngamunye. Kufanele kuthathwe amasonto amane ngokushesha, futhi okunye - nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kuze kube yilapho ingane ithole iminyaka emisha.
Ngichithe ngokuphelele inyanga yokuqala emva kokuzalwa kuka-Eva, futhi ngabalandeli ababili, kwasebenza ama-50% wesikhathi.
Kunzima kimi ukucabanga ukuthi omama abaphoqeke ukuba badonsele amasonto okuqala ukudonsa amasonto okuqala nge-ENDEA. Njengokwendlela, obaba. Ngakho-ke, ngisondelene kakhulu nemodeli yaseSpain, lapho bobabili abazali bexhasane (nengane) phakathi namaviki okuqala).
ERussia, isimemezelo sikababa asivuthiwe ngenxa yezizathu eziningi. Cishe yonke imiholo emadodeni ingaphezulu ngenxa yokubandlululwa ngokobulili. I-Stereotypes iqinile: "Indoda yangempela" ukuqhubeka nesinqumo - isenzo se-atypical kakhulu.
Indoda eyodwa enomntwana ayisaselula kunowesifazane oyedwa. Kuphela futhi akanasifuba.
Okuhle kakhulu kobaba ukuzazi ngokwakho kulokho okwenziwa yingane yami.
Lokhu kunzima kakhulu!
"Umsebenzi uyohlala uvame kakhulu, futhi izinyanga zokuqala zokuphila kwengane ziyigugu"UDenis, oneminyaka engama-37 ubudala, izingane ezimbili - i-GLEB (Eminyakeni engu-15), uStepan (unyaka ongu-1)
IMoscow
Ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa komuncane, ngangiqiniseka ukuthi akukho okungashintsha empilweni yami. Empeleni, thina samiswa kulokhu. Kepha impilo yenza ushintsho lwayo, futhi nengane yayingaxhunyiwe. Indlela yethu yokuphila isishintshe kakhulu - sahlala phansi igagasi lokuqala lokuhlukaniswa ngokuhlukaniswa ngokuphelele futhi ngisho nodoti akwenzekanga, kwabangela izithunywa. Ngilahlekelwe yithuba lokuhamba ngokukhululeka, ukuhamba, ukuhlangana nabangane, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi basebenzise isikhathi esifanele nomndeni wami.
Okwethu nomkakhe bahlanganyela ngo-50/50, kwathi lapho indodana izalwa kuphela, nganginakho okuningi, ngoba kwakulula kimi ukuthola ingane, incishise noma ngithole umbono wokuxhumana nezingane.
Ingane ngokulinganayo isibopho sabo bobabili abazali, ngoba isinqumo esibi sokuqala ingane nabo ababuthanayo.
Ngikude kusukela ngasekupheleni kukaMashi 2020. Ngakho-ke, singasho ukuthi ngisesimemezelo esifanayo nomkami futhi kusukela ekuqaleni kuhileleke ngenkuthalo kwinqubo yokukhuliswa. Ngicabanga ukuthi isimemezelo sikayise kumele sibe nesibopho. Okuhle kakhulu okucabanga okuhlangenwe nakho kweYurophu, lapho amadoda kufanele athathe khona ikhefu lokuya kwabathathu (eziyisithupha) futhi uhlale eduze komkakhe nengane yakhe.
Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ezinyangeni zokuqala, lapho zonke izinkinga ezihlala zivela imibuzo onqume ndawonye. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lokhu kuyindlela eyisiphukuphuku eliyisiphukuphuku ngokushesha nje lapho umfazi azalwa engumntwana, ukhona lapho - hop! - Futhi ngokushesha wafunda ukunakekela ingane. Owesifazane, uma kuyingane yakhe yokuqala, njengasekuqaleni kokuqonda nokungaqondi ukuthi manje ukukwenza ngakho konke lokhu!
Imisebenzi izohlala ingukuningi, futhi izinyanga zokuqala zempilo yengane ayigugu. Njengakukhangisi - kunezinto ezingenakuthengwa, ngoba ukuphumula kukhona i-mastercard.
Ngicabanga ukuthi amadoda awahambi esimeme, ngoba abekelwe e-diaper indoda eyi-GETTER futhi kufanele ahlinzeke umndeni, futhi izingane ziyinto elula.
Manje lo mkhuba uyashintsha, futhi phakathi kwabantu engijwayelene bakhona abayeni abasesimemelweni esikhundleni sabafazi. Ngokwezinga elikhulu, lokhu, kungenxa yalolu daba lwezezimali: Imali engenayo yomkayo ingaphezu komyeni wakhe.
Ngibonga kakhulu imizwa esizizwa ngayo, ukubona ukuthi ingane ijabula kanjani, ihleke ngayo, iHugs, iluma ngemuva kwekhala, i-snippening, okubonisa i-hedgehog. Ngithanda ukubuka impumelelo yakhe ekuthuthukisweni kwamakhono okuqala. Kuyamangaza ikakhulukazi ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila: Ikhanda langiswa nje kimi entendeni yesandla sami, futhi manje waphenduka, wahlala phansi, wakhasa, waqala ukubiza imisindo yokuqala futhi kumemeza kulo lonke ifulethi. Ukuqonda ukuthi le yizinhlayiyana zakho - injabulo engachazeki.
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