Kaningi, abantu bahlelwe ngenhlanhla embi. Njengokuthi, impilo eyodwa ngu-Caramel, futhi nginefulawa ethile. Bakhalaza ngesiphetho, balahlekelwa ukholo kuwe, ngekusasa labo eliqhakazile futhi bayeke ukuphupha. Wonke umuntu unezimo ezidumazayo. Kodwa-ke, isikhathi siyaphilisa, futhi futhi emaphusheni amnandi okhiye womoya abaphuphayo.
Ungachaza kanjani ngokwanele iphupho lakho le-crystal? Ungasenza kanjani isifiso ukuze kuphendukelwe ukuba kuhlelwe, esikhundleni sokugcwaliseka empilweni elandelayo, kumakhelwane, kungaba nomngane, noma ngubani, hhayi wena?
Okokuqala, gwema ukuxhashazwa. Njengasehlaya.
Wake waba nesinxibi esihlala efulethini nonina oyimpumputhe, isikhathi eside sithandaza kuNkulunkulu. Ekugcineni, uNkulunkulu wahlanza wathi: - Yebo, ngizokusiza, ngizogcwalisa isifiso esisodwa. Isinxibi, ukungacabangi: - Ngiyabonga, Nkosi! Isifiso sami kuphela ukuthi umama wami ongemukelekile angabona ukuthi umfazi wami wobuhle ubeka kanjani entanyeni yendodakazi yami ethandekayo umgexo wedayimane endaweni yokunethezeka epakiwe eduze kwechibi lami elihle esiqhingini sami esihle!Ngakho-ke ayisebenzi. Kungaba uthando, noma ingcebo, noma impilo, noma ukwenziwa kokudala. Khetha okuthile okufanele kuqale. Konke okuzoqinisa nakanjani. Njengoba bethi, "UKogotok wayenamathele, inyoni yonke yenyama."
Umthetho wokuqala: Yakha isifiso ngokuqondile.
Ngabe ulenga malini kumagremu? Uma ufisa ukuthuthuka kwempilo, uzwa kanjani ukuthi isifiso sakho sigcwaliseka? Unyamalala amakhanda futhi usike esiswini, uyeke ukuhlukumeza ukuqwasha, uvuka nsuku zonke esimweni esihle, akunakucasulwa, ukwehla kuzothatha isikhundla samandla?
Yikuphi ukuthuthuka oku-oda kwe-psychoanalyst yakho, umkhathi, uMdali, ingelosi ye-Guarding, Santa Claus noma iDomyanka Kuzka?
Akunandaba noma yini eheha usizo kuyo. Onsomi ngokuphelele, kubani nokuthi yini oyikholelwayo. Into esemqoka ukuthi isifiso sakho sokuhlelwa ngokungalingani futhi sikhiphe ukutolika kwaso okubili.
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile. Isifiso sakho kufanele sikukhathaze kuphela ngaphandle kokuphazamisa imingcele yabanye. Okungukuthi, esikhundleni sokugana "ngifuna, ekugcineni indodakazi yashada," kuzokwenza kangcono ukusebenza ngesifiso esinjalo: "Ngijabule ngokukhetha ngempumelelo indodakazi yakho nomshado wakhe ojabulisayo."
Futhi umthetho wesibili: Isifiso singcono ukwakha sengathi sesigcwalisiwe. Ngaphandle kokungabaza ekulungiseni kwakhe.
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Futhi manje umthetho wesithathu. Ngaso sonke isikhathi zama ukujabulela nokugwema ukungezwani.
Impilo akuyona impimpi, kepha injabulo! Futhi konke okukukhathazayo, kuqede ukunaka kwakho kusuka emkhakheni wakho.
Umama wakho ukhohliswe ngesihluku, ukukufunda ngobusuku bendaba embi ngeGul Korolev nasePavka Korchagin. Abaqeqeshi bokukhula komuntu bakukhuthaza ngephutha ukuthi ushiye indawo yokududuza esikhundleni sokuyanda. Le nkampani yenkulumo-ze ilungele amaMasochists.
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