Akekho umama, ogogo nomkhulu, umkhulu futhi akekho ubaba othi ngokuziqhenya: Ngiyafundisa, bathi, Indodakazi ibekezelela ubudlova bocansi ...
Umthombo: Izinsizakusebenza ze-Psychology. Ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo
Mhlawumbe, akekho umama, ugogo, umkhulu futhi akekho ubaba othi ngokuziqhenya: Ngiyafundisa, bathi, Indodakazi ibekezelele udlame lwangaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, bonke (noma abaningi?) Bebengeke bafisele indodakazi yabo kanye ukuze badlule kulolu hlelo nganoma yiluphi uhlobo. Kepha, ama-alas, imikhuba enobungane emndenini isathandwa, okufunda intombazane ukuthi isho "cha" ukusondelana okungathandeki nokuthi yini eletha izinhlungu zayo zomzimba.
Kunezindatshana eziningi ezichaza ukuthi ungasiza kanjani intombazane ukuthi ingane izozizwa futhi ivikele imingcele yazo. Kepha lonke lolu lwazi lubhekene namasiko angashintshi, kanye namasiko ezimweni eziningi, alashe, ukunqotshwa.
"Ugogo Omningi!"
Akukho lutho olubi ekutsheleni ingane ngokuthi isenzo sokuzijabulisa - zithi, ungaqabuli ugogo wakho ukuba ajabule? Vele, akuwona nje ugogo, kepha nganoma yisiphi isihlobo ngisho nangezinye izikhathi nje isivakashi. Kukhona futhi lutho olubi uma ingane ikwenza - ngemuva kwesigwebo sesikhathi esisodwa. Hug - ngokujwayelekile, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ilusizo.
Inkinga iqala lapho ingane ingafuni ukwanga muntu, futhi ilenga phezu komphefumlo namahloni, noma ishiye omunye umuntu ngenkani ukuba yenzeke. Akukhathalekile ukuthi yisiphi isizathu sokuthi kungani ugogo onemibandela engafuni ukwanga lesi sikhathi.
Hlonipha iqiniso lokuthi ingane ayikakulungeli ukujoyina ukuxhumana ngokomzimba, iletha ukuzethemba entombazaneni ukuthi oxhumana nabo bomzimba badinga imvume. Futhi, ngeshwa, kunalokho.
Cishe, bonke abantu banamuhla bacacile, yikuphi ukuxhumana okuphakathi komqondo wesidingo semvume yokuxhumana ngokomzimba kanye nekhono lokuhlola ukuxhumana ngocansi njengokuzithandela noma ubudlova.
Ngokuqondene neqiniso lokuthi ugogo (umalume, isivakashi, njll.) Ungakhubeka uma benganobungane, ungakhumbula ukuthi abantu abadala benza izindlela eziningi ezahlukahlukene ukukhombisa injabulo yabo ekuhlanganeni noma ngokuthobeka ngokuthobeka sawubona. Futhi bonke balungele izingane!
"Ngisazofeza"
Kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi le ntombazane ayithandi izinhlobo ezithile zokugqoka, izicathulo noma i-hairstyle - kepha umama wakhe (noma ezinye izihlobo) zibonakala zibaluleke kakhulu ukuphoqa le ntombazane ukuthi igqoke le nto, izicathulo noma ukushisa izinwele ngale ndlela. Futhi intombazane enenkani ivele futhi ichaza kakhulu ukuthi yikho kanye lokho akufuni - okuthe xaxa okuhlobene kakhulu.
Ngaphandle kodokotela wezengqondo, ungaqondi lapho sikhuluma lapho sikhuluma ngokoma ukuze zizwe amandla (awufuni - kodwa ngisazitholela eyami!), Noma nini ngento enozwela ntombazane. Umama oyedwa osengumntwana, wayefuna izingubo ezinhle esikhundleni samabhulukwe asebenzayo aseTurkey, anamathele entlelweni "egqoke injabulo." Omunye ubaba wayengekho nhlobo le ntombazane, kepha ugcina umfanekiso wentombazane ethile eyisibonelo futhi ephambuka kuyo ekhanda, njengomgomo, ukuphambuka kokujwayelekile. Ngenxa yalokhu, yonke into iphela ngeqiniso lokuthi isihlobo sifuna indlela yokuphoqa ingane ukuba yenze ukuthi yini imbangela yenqatshwa ingane.
Akudingekile ngodlame oluqondile. Ama-Multi-Ston CORTASSIONS kanye nokufumbathisa amaswidi, amathoyizi, ukuhamba okukhethekile kungangena ekuhambeni. IScheme One. Umzali, esezuzile okwakhe, empeleni udonsa ukunaka kwengane eqinisweni lokuthi manje sekuyimpilo. Akabuzi ingane, kahle, siyaphawula, kepha siqoka ukuthi intombazane ilungile.
Kepha intombazane ayikwazanga ukuthanda lezi zicathulo, ngoba umlenze uyabuhlungu futhi ushukumisela konke. Futhi ungazithandi lezi zingulube ngesizathu esifanayo - isikhumba esibucayi sekhanda, imizwa ebuhlungu. Noma mhlawumbe uneminye imibono mayelana nenhle?
"Akulutho okufanele wesabe. Yebo, konke kwavela kahle. Ngicabanga ukuthi awuphuli. Manje-ke konke kungukuthi ", - le mishwana bese ingena ekuhlangenwe nakho kobulili kwabesifazane abaningi, ibavimbele ekuqondeni lokho okwenzeka udlame. Asikho isidingo sokucabanga uma uyithandile.
Udlame lokudla
Unganikeli intombazane lapho elambile. Ukuphoqa ukuthi ingalambile. Ukwenza kukhona okuthile angakufuni, ukunamathela ngobuqili lo mkhiqizo kuzo zonke izitsha futhi ukuhleka ngendlela intombazane ethukutha ngayo, ethola futhi epuletini lakhe engangingafuni ukulibona lapho. Konke lokhu kuyizinhlobonhlobo zodlame oludliwayo.
Maphakathi nekhulu lamashumi amabili, umbono waqala ukusakaza ukuthi ukukhuliswa kwezocansi kwethu kuqala ngokuthuthuka kwengqondo yethu ngokuvamile, futhi iningi lale ntuthuko lakha ubudlelwano nokudla.
Umuntu owayejwayele ukufuna nokuzichaza wazenzela okumnandi nokuthi yini engeyena (noma ngabe akenzi ukukhetha ngaso sonke isikhathi okumnandi), azosebenza kanye nokuphila kwakhe kocansi.
Umuntu abanye abantu abanganikeli ithuba lokuyeka ukudla, angabaze, anganaki lapho isikhathi sokuthi "cha" izindlela ezingezinhle zocansi.
I-Nexcring Hunger, okungukuthi, umuzwa wentombazane ongokomzimba, angakhula athambekele ekuthambekeni kokunganaki indlala ezinye - izidingo ezingokomzwelo. Ukuhlukaniswa okuvela emizweni yalo uqobo kwenza umuntu angavikeleki ngaphambi kodlame nhlobo, kubandakanya nocansi.