Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokwengeziwe, konke kuyasebenza, ngithola lo mbuzo nempendulo "Yebo niza, sizodlula."
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokwengeziwe, konke kuyasebenza, ngithola lo mbuzo nempendulo "Yebo niza, sizodlula." Kuyacaca ukuthi omama abahlala bodwa kufanele bazivikele emcabangweni wokuthi ingane yabo ngeke ibe nomzali wesibili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho umama ecabanga ukuthi unesici ngaphandle kwendoda nangowesifazane, nanjengendoda, khona-ke nalokhu kuyinhlekelele yenhlekelele, futhi lokhu akusizi ngalutho enganeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inani elikhulu labobaba bezinto eziphilayo ngokwabo baphuma ngaphandle kobaba, noma elikhona kuphela, ngisho nokuphuza, ngakho-ke abahlali bacabanga kahle ukuthi yini abangayenza.
Amakhasimende amaningi ami, futhi abesilisa abalungile nje, abaqondi nje ukuthi bangaba khona obaba abangasinikezayo, kungani badinga ingane nokuthi kungani bedinga ingane nokuthi kungani idinga ingane nokuthi kungani idinga ingane. Embuzweni wokuthi kungani udinga ingane ngabhala kakhulu futhi nginemininingwane ngephephabhuku lendodakazi yami. Lesi isidalwa esimangalisayo ebukeka njengawe - futhi ngokungenakuphela, sishintsha njalo, siguqula okuhlekisayo, sikhula, sithanda futhi sithokozela ukuphendula uthando nenjabulo yakho, - Kuhle kakhulu futhi kuyabiza.
Kungani edinga ubaba? Ngizokutshela ukuthi ibona kanjani ngesisekelo salokho engikwaziyo kusuka kulwazi lwe-psychotherapeitic. Futhi - kusuka enganeni.
IsipiliyoniIngane iza emhlabeni futhi ifunda ukuhlala kuyo. Akazi ukuthi la madoda ahluke kwabesifazane, kungani kudingeka afunde okuthakazelisa kakhulu - indaba noma ikhemikhali, ukuthi ungadlala kanjani ukucula amakhadi afunda naye, njengoba ungaphendula ukuthuka. Futhi iqoqo lezinto ezingenamkhawulo.
Umama, ugogo uhle. Kepha bakwabesifazane. Futhi babheka umhlaba wowesifazane, noma ngabe le mibono ihluke kakhulu. Ubaba unikeza okunye ukubukeka emhlabeni - owesilisa. Futhi ukhuluma ngezwe labesilisa, njengoba ehlele ukuthi likwaziswa okubhekwa njengokubalulekile. Okuthakazelisayo, futhi yini engeyena. Futhi lokho yena, baba, ahluke kwamanye amadoda, nalokho akubheka njengabo.
Kuyasiza kakhulu futhi kumfana, nentombazane. Into elula ukuthi uyise womfana angasho ukuthi ukunqoba kanjani intombazane, intombazane - lokho amadoda okufanele amesabe. Ngokwesipiliyoni sami, uBaba wayehlala ephuma lula futhi enembe kakhulu ukwedlula umama wami.
Yebo, nangentombazane ebaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi kunamadoda amahle emhlabeni azonakekela umndeni wawo noma ingane yabo. Futhi lapho abanye besifazane bemtshela ukuthi "yebo, bonke bashintsha, abadingi izingane kubo bonke," uzophikisana. Ngoba unobaba omthandayo, uyamkhathalela, akaze alimaze ngowesifazane olimazayo (uma kungeyena umlingiswa othize ozama ukumlimaza noma umndeni wakhe). Futhi umfana uzoba phambi kwamehlo umuntu ongesabi ukukhulisa izingane futhi akakubheki umthwalo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - bazokhula, bazi ngezwe labesilisa nokuthi lihluke kanjani ngowesifazane.
UkuthathekaNgicabanga ukuthi unentshisekelo enganeni yami into ebaluleke kakhulu kunothando. Ngoba ungathanda ingane yakho futhi ungazi lutho ngakho. "Wenzani?", "Kungani?", "Kungani amabhola aphuzi kangcono kuwe eluhlaza?", "Kungani ibhubesi licashe ngaphansi kosomo oluhlaza okotshani? Futhi, unogwaja ude amazinyo? " - Umhlaba wengane ugcwele izinkinga, ukutholwa, izidingo nezindaba. Bangabonakala njengabamangazayo, kepha uma empeleni uyazibuza - ingane izobavulela.
Futhi uyise angatshela ingane ngalokho okukuthandayo. Futhi ingane izokwazi okuningi ngayo futhi mhlawumbe futhi izoxhuma impilo yakhe nayo.
Angisebenzisi neze nekhono lokukhokhisa isibhamu, zamanye ama-cartridges bese ubheka ama-partridges ehlathini leqhwa. Kepha ngikuthandile ubuntwana. Futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ngithanda ukuya ehlathini elihle elimbozwe yiqhwa ngokumangalisa nobaba wami, elalele izindaba zakhe ngezilwane kanye ne-sausage yomlilo noma amasoseji. Futhi umbele asebenze, egalaji ecubuziwe uphethiloli. Ngoba yizwe likababa ayelithanda. Ngakho-ke, uyathakazelisa ngobuhlanya.
Mhlawumbe ukuzingela enkampanini enentombazane eneminyaka eyisithupha engazi ukuthi kugijima kanjani ukushushuluza izihlabathi ngeke kusebenze kakhulu ngokwesisulu. Kepha iqiniso lokuthi le ntombazane eneminyaka eyisithupha izokwamukela futhi ubaba wayo embuthaneni ngenxa yempilo, ngombono wami, ukufanela. Into esemqoka ukungadlulisi induku futhi uyibuke kubo bobabili. Ukuhudula umuntu ngokumelene nentando yakhe ehlathini ngeshumi nantathu, athathe isinqumo sokudlala, ekugcineni, ku-DAD - angavele, angehluleki.
ThandaUthando lwabesilisa luhlukile kowesifazane. Vele, konke kungokwesinye, kepha ubaba wangivumela ukuba ngibe njalo. Kwesinye isikhathi uyangethusa, ngoba isimo sobusha bami sasimane nje singusathane, futhi manje ngiyisikhathi sami, njengengelosi ethule. Kepha konke ebuntwaneni bami ngangikwazi ukuthi ubaba uyangithanda ngqo engiyikho. Hhayi kwabahlanu abaphezulu (yize babeziqhenya kakhulu ngabo), hhayi ngokusiza abendlu (bengihlala ngivila kimi), kodwa ngenkanuko, ukumbukwane okumangalisayo kuye, umbono wami uqobo. Ngazizwa ngithola imvume kuye ngizoba uqobo. Nolwazi olunjengami, ngiyangithanda.
Ugogo no-anti waphikiswa kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi umama wabajoyina. Bajwayele ukungifundela igama lesihloko esithi "Girl Girl". Kepha ngangazi ukuthi ubaba wayeqinisile.
Lapho efa, ngathola esikhwameni saseBrigadier, athi nganikwa, ekhoneni elincane lendiza, aliphonsa umama lapho esesibhedlela. Yabhalwa lapho angilindile nomama, futhi usithanda kakhulu. Angisoze ngakholelwa ukuthi ukwenza izinto ezinjalo kuwubuthakathaka. Lesi ngesinye sezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kimi. Kimina, le ekhoneni libiza kakhulu kunefulethi, engilize ngilithenge abazali bami. Uyasho - ubaba wami wayefuna ukuba ngizalwe.
Lapho indodakazi yami ikhula, ngizombonisa inkondlo yokuthi ngithumele uyise nge-SMS lapho ngisesibhedlela sokubeletha, nezithombe aze wapenda phakathi nokukhulelwa kwami. Futhi uzokwazi - samlinda sindawonye. Sifuna ukuba kube. Ngemuva elinjalo ukuze uphile emhlabeni kube lula kakhulu. Futhi kulula kakhulu ukuthethelela abazali ngodoti abakwenzayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Futhi hhayi ukwenza udoti ngeke bakwazi.
SingathaUmama nobaba bangabantu abehlukene. Bathola izinto ezihlukile ngempumelelo ehlukile. Kunezinkinga ukuthi umama unquma okubi kakhulu kunobaba. Kukhona okuthile okuvela kungcono. Lapho ngikhula, ngangazi ukuthi imali, ngokwesibonelo, kule ncwadi, kulula ukuyibuyisa ubaba. Ngoba uma kufundwa umama - into efana ne-chocolate sandwich. Futhi kuYise, yonke incwadi engiyifundayo yayiwukuqhenya. Bengazi ukuthi ngokuhlangenwe nakho kothando, ubaba wayengeke amlahlile, kepha wezwa futhi atshele ngokwakhe. Kwangisiza kakhulu.
Ukhathazekile ukuthi ngihlala kuphi futhi engihlala naye. Ungisho kimi ehostela okuqukethwe yimali, nengxenye - amabhange nge-red caviar, amaphasela anezinhlanzi kanye nezinyamazane, ngiyakholelwa ukuthi imali ethe xaxa futhi angithengise imikhiqizo emnandi futhi ewusizo.
HloniphaLokhu kungenye into ebalulekile - lokhu ukuhlonipha ingane. Umzimba wakhe. Isikhathi. Izintshisekelo. Iqiniso lokuthi uyakwazisa futhi uyakuthanda, noma ngabe kusakazekele ukugcwala kwebhere lokugcina.
Ubaba akazange angidumise. Kepha lapho edumisa, ngangazi ukuthi empeleni kwakukhona. Wayazi ukuthi kunezinto ezibalulekile kimi, futhi wazama ukungazibhubhisi. Lapho ngifunda sekwephuzile, akazange afunge, wayazi ukuthi ekuseni ngivame ukungimela esikoleni. Waliphatha ngesizotha iqiniso lokuthi ngigqoka futhi ngilalele, noma ngabe akazange alithande kakhulu, akazange akhiphe amakhasethi ami, kodwa aceli ukukwenza. Futhi ngenza i-TV ethule, noma ngabe kukhona ibhola kuye, uma ngingenza izifundo egumbini lami ngamcela ukuba anciphise ivolumu. Futhi akavamile wephula isivumelwano.
Ngibonga uYise, ngiyazi ukuthi kunabantu abanesifiso sowesifazane ohlakaniphile ngokubukeka okujwayelekile ngaphezu kobuhle obungenalutho. Ayini amadoda angeke akhulise umfazi. Abangashintshi umkabo, ngoba bayamhlonipha nothando. Kungenxa yamagama anjalo. Kunamadoda athanda futhi ayazi ukuthi hhayi kuphela ukupheka, kepha futhi ageza nezitsha bese uyothenga imikhiqizo. "Yize kunjalo, zisindayo, futhi umama wakho angenzi mkhulu ukuba akhule." Bese ugoqa izingubo zangaphansi, ngoba kulokhu udinga amandla omzimba.
Ngasikhathi sinye, wayengeyena umuntu okhanyiselwe kakhulu emhlabeni. Kwakungenayo ithonsi lobufazi. Uqede amakilasi ayisishiyagalombili, izifundo ze-mason kanye nezifundo zomshayeli. Wakhonza ebuthweni. Yonke impilo yami yasebenza njengomshayeli, futhi isikhathi eside - kumathrekhi ayinkimbinkimbi. Ngashayela amapayipi, ngiqhube "umbhoshongo", waletha uphethiloli. Ubhale ngamaphutha wolimi ahlekisayo futhi akazange athole okungakabi ngathi abanye obaba edolobheni lethu. Ngigqoke ihembe le-flannel elihlolwe kanye ne-jean, futhi ngangenandaba ngokuphelele nalokho ababeyikho imibala. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "isisebenzi esilula". Wasuka wagoqa i-hysteria ngezikhathi ezithile, angawela ekucindezelekeni. Wayenamaphutha amaningi kanye noyise onengekayo ngokuphelele uYise wakhe, futhi enzima kakhulu ebuntwaneni, lapho ayengadingeka khona ikakhulukazi. Futhi kwesinye isikhathi bekunzima kakhulu kimi, kepha ngangazi ndawo thile emphefumulweni, ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu ezangingithanda.
Futhi ngahola izibonelo zobuhlobo bethu naye ukuze kucace: kungenza wonke umuntu enganeni yakhe. Lokhu akulula, kepha mhlawumbe. Sidinga nje ukufuna.