Kwakuyikhulu lama-21 ...
UCasey Laurkort, umama wamantombazane amahlanu avela eSouth Carolina, atshele eTikot ukuthi ubuntombi bungumuntu obukhali nje. Abasebenzisi bezikole zenhlalo basekele owesifazane.
Konke kwaqala kusuka kuvidiyo lapho amathikithi kaNevadasharee acele khona abazali ukuthi batshele ngalezo zici zokukhuliswa ukuthi babonakala belungile kubo, kanti abanye abantu babexakile. Ithikithi liqale ngaye: Akaze akhohlise izingane zakhe ngokuba khona kukaSanta Claus, izinyo lamazinyo kanye nonogwaja we-Easter. Ngokusho kwakhe, wayengafuni ukuthi ubuntwana babo bakhe emanga. Ngasikhathi sinye, izingane zithola izipho zikaKhisimusi kanye nePhasika, njengontanga zazo.
UCasey Laurkt uqophe impendulo yale vidiyo futhi watshela lokho akufundisa amadodakazi akhe asele eminyakeni eyisikhombisa kuya kwayi-16.
"Ngiletha amadodakazi ami amahlanu enkolelweni yokuthi abukho ubuntombi. Lo ngumqondo wezinzalamizi osetshenziselwa ukulawula abesifazane, futhi akanawo umgomo, ngaphandle kokuthi enze abesifazane bazizwe kabi, "kusho uCasey.
"Inani lakho nobuntu bakho abuguquki kuphela ngoba omunye umfana ufaka ipipi lakhe kuwe ngasikhathi esithile sempilo yakho. Kwenzeka, futhi yilokho. Ucansi lubalulekile, futhi kufanele lube lubaluleke njalo, kodwa okokuqala akukho lutho olungenziwa ngalo ... kuyahlekisa. Wonke lo mqondo uhleka usulu ngokuphelele, "kusho lo wesifazane.
"Ngivame ukuthola kwabanye omama. Ngiye ngatshelwa: "Awucabangi yini ukuthi amadodakazi akho ayobe esekhulisa abesifazane abafinyelelekayo?" Futhi ngithi: "Cha, ngibaphakamisela nabantu abalungile, ngibatshela ukuthi bathole isisekelo esiqinile, benze isinqumo sakho futhi benze izinqumo ngamabomu - hhayi ngoba kungenzeki," uLaurkort waqhubeka .
Amagama ezingane amahlanu athola impendulo evela kumakhasimende amaningi wenethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu.
Uwesifazane oyedwa wabhala: "Njengomuntu ongokwengqondo, ngifuna ukubonga okukhulu," kubhala omunye wesifazane.
"Ngidlwenguliwe. Le vidiyo ingengeze izinyembezi. Ngokwezinkolelo zakho, angingcoliswanga. Ngisengumuntu ofanelekayo, "umhlekisi wabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe.
"Sonke kudingeka sikwenze okujwayelekile! "- Ubize umuntu.
"Ngangihlala ngifundisa amadodakazi ami, okubaluleke kakhulu ukunakekela isilinganiso sami sesikweletu ukwedlula ubuntombi," kusho omunye umama othile.
Ividiyo eqoqwe ukuthandwa okucishe kube yizinkulungwane ezingama-500 futhi ngaphezu kwamazwana ayizinkulungwane ezingama-20.
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