Sonke sithi ezombuso ziyizidalwa ezingajwayelekile, ezingajwayelekile. Kepha amadoda nawo angahlalwanga ngendlela yawo? Isibonelo, ngesinye isikhathi ekuziphatheni kwamaCavalier awasho nokuthi uyakwazi ukuthanda ngobuqotho, futhi nangaphezulu avumelaniswe nokuphila komndeni. Kepha noGulelen, unamahloni, azinikezi, ahahayo, kanye nomuntu othi umshado uyisiwula eziningi, ushintsha. Futhi kwenzeka lapho ehlangana nowesifazane wakhe. Umhlaba uqala ukudlala ngopende omusha, kuba lula futhi ukhululekile ukuphefumula, konke kubonakala kuhlukile kuye, nemikhuba, umlingiswa, umhlaba jikelele uguqulwe ngokuphelele.
Amadoda amaningi ehhovisi lokubhalisa ayasaba umlilo. Futhi abaningi besaba isimo esisemthethweni, ubudlelwano. Kepha, uma indoda iqonde ngokuzumayo ukuthi yiYena impela ayefuna, ngakho-ke konke kushintsha. Uqala ukwesaba ukumlahlekelwa, ngoba kuhlukile, akujwayelekile, okungcono kakhulu. Futhi angasho kaningi ukuthi uyintandokazi yakhe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi isilungele isinyathelo esilandelayo. Iqiniso ngukuthi le ndoda, sebehlangane kakhulu, beyeka ukwesaba ikusasa. Ulungele konke, akukho okusabisayo. Leli lingamandla amangalisayo othando. Ngenxa yowesifazane othandekayo nezindlalifa zawo, indoda ingafinyelela okuningi!
Wamthanda, ngokubukeka kwakhe okuqondile, ngesimo sakhe nemikhuba yakhe. Futhi ngeke ayishintshe. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ufuna ukufakazela ukuthi kufanelekile okuthile. Uzokwenza konke ukumenza akholelwe kuye njengoba ekholwa kuye. Zonke ezingathandeki zakhe nobubi kuzolunga. Uyokushukumisela ukuba enze lokho akuthandayo. Futhi uzofuna ukuguqula isimo sakhe uqobo, ngoba kungumbono wakhe. Uyamzisa futhi uthanda lowo okungukuthi, futhi ufuna ukumtholela kangcono.
Lapho umuntu ethandana, noma ngabe owesilisa ungowesifazane noma umfazi, uqala ukubona yonke into ezungeze ukukhanya okuhle. Akanaki okulungile, uyajabula ngokwengeziwe futhi azolile. Uqala ukugwema noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana, uncishiswe, kuphansi kweqiniso lokuthi ebudlelwaneni yonke into ihamba kahle. Kuyena, ekuqaleni, yena nobudlelwano naye, okusele akunandaba.
Enye yezibonakaliso ezisobala kakhulu ukuthi le ndoda imbi kakhulu ngentshiseko yakhe, futhi isilungele ukwenza isinyathelo esifanele - ukuvuleka kokuxhumana kwabo. Ngomqondo wokuthi le ndoda ifuna bonke abathandekayo babo, izihlobo, kubangane ngothando lwabo. Ufuna wonke umuntu azi ukuthi uthole into yakhe okuwukuphela kwayo ukuthi ungumuntu wakhe kuphela, uyaziqhenya ngayo. Futhi noma kunjalo, ubani futhi uzothini ngaye, into ebaluleke kakhulu emthanda ngayo!
Uma umuntu ehlangana nowesifazane wakhe, othanda ngobuqotho, akesabi ukucabanga ngekusasa lakhe. Akakholelwa ukuthi ubuhlobo noma umshado naye buwukuncishwa inkululeko yakhe. Futhi uqala ukuqala isihloko sekusasa elihlanganyelwe. Ukhuluma ngezindlu, mayelana nomshado, mayelana neholide, mayelana nezingane. Ufuna ukuhlela ikusasa naye.
Uma ethanda owesifazane ngokweqiniso, uzofakazela ubuqiniso bakhe bemizwa yakhe. Uzokwenza izincomo, anikeze ama-bouquets, amsize, axazulule izinkinga zakhe. Yize kunjalo, izinto zikhuluma ngemizwa, hhayi amazwi. Uyazi ukuthi umphefumulo womshado unzima kakhulu, futhi wesaba ukuthi angamhlupha.
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