Umehluko onyakeni: ukuthi kuthinta kanjani ubuhlobo

Isizukulwane esisodwa

Ochwepheshe bezengqondo baphawula ukuthi umehluko omuhle kakhulu phakathi kwabalingani abasukela kububanzi beminyaka eyi-16. Ubudlelwano bungaba buhlala buhlala buhlala isikhathi eside futhi buphumelele ngoba bobabili ababambisene nabo bangesinye isizukulwane esisodwa futhi kungenzeka bahlanganyele amanani ajwayelekile futhi banemibono efanayo ngempilo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi lababili bontanga licishe libe yisimo esisodwa sezezimali futhi lifinyelele konke ndawonye.Ubulili

Ukusondela phakathi kwabalingani - kuvame ukuvumelana. Zombili zinazo ngesimo esifanayo somzimba - impilo, izinga lokuqeqeshwa, isipiliyoni. Ngakho-ke, zisondela ekuhlolweni kwezocansi kaningi ngentshiseko.

Owesifazane Omdala

Uhlobo olunjalo lobudlelwano namakhulu eminyaka lwakhuthazeka ngumphakathi. Amadoda avuthiwe athatha abafazi bamantombazane amancane, futhi basesimweni esibonakalayo esinjalo e-Alliance enjalo. Namuhla, ubudlelwane obunjalo nabo abujwayelekile. Intombazane encane isaheha umuntu ovuthiwe ngobuhle bayo nokusha, nokuthi, futhi, funa ukusekelwa nokusekelwa kumuntu womuntu ozoba nguyise (ngokwengqondo).

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Kwabesilisa, umshado nowesifazane osemusha yinzuzo eyodwa enkulu. Izinga lokweneliseka kwalabo ngababili limane ligoqele. Ngenxa yomlingani onamandla, amadoda asemuncane emehlweni abo. Ngisho nesikhathi sabo sokuphila singu-20% ngaphezulu kwabesilisa abanabalingani - izinga.

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Indoda endala yabesifazane

Lolu hlobo lobudlelwano luvame kakhulu kunalokho okungenhla. Kepha abesifazane besimanje abazimele baya ngokuya beheha izinsizwa. Bazuze ukuphakama engxabano futhi kungenzeka ukuthi banqotshwe yithonya lendoda ephakeme.

Njengomthetho, ebudlelwaneni, lapho lona wesifazane esemdala, bobabili abalingani basikisela ukuthi nguyena othatha isikhundla esiholayo kubhangqa - wenza izinqumo ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho okucebile empilweni.

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Ngokobulili, umbhangqwana onjalo unezothando oluningi. Inani eliphakeme lobulili labesifazane, njengomthetho, liza iminyaka engama-30, ngamadoda - ngo-18-25, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi izifiso zazo zizofana.

Ngaphandle kwemithetho

I-Society ithanda ukubeka izitembu zakwa-Eyjist, ekhuluma ngobudlelwano babalingani abanomehluko wobudala. Uma intombazane imfishane kunesithandwa sayo - ungumuntu ongumzingeli wefa, futhi uma umuntu emncane kunowesifazane - ngokuqinisekile uyaphila.

Eqinisweni, iminyaka yobudala ayinandaba lapho ubudlelwane be-pair buboshelwa ekuhlonipheni nothando! Ukuvuthwa kwengqondo (ukuzimisela ukuzinakekela nokuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo), hhayi ukumaka kuphasiphothi.

Lapho eneminyaka engama-20-23, amantombazane angaphambi kwentsha ekukhuleni kwengqondo, ngakho-ke, azizwa ekhululekile kakhulu ngabalingani asebekhulile. Kungahle kube nomehluko eminyakeni emi-3-5 eyanele lapha.

Uma kwenzeka emshadweni, imvamisa bathi umehluko ofanele phakathi kwabalingani yilapho indoda ineminyaka engu-8. Kodwa-ke, akuvamile ukucaciswa ukuthi iqiniso lokungabi nobudala bemvelo libalulekile (elibhaliswe kwiphasiphothi), kanye nengqondo (kuze kube manje kungumuntu omdala).

Lo mehluko unganikeza ezinye izinzuzo, ngoba, ngakolunye uhlangothi, indoda, njengombuso, isivele yanquma izindaba ezibonakalayo futhi ingaba ukusekelwa okuhle komndeni, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ababambisene nabo basaqhubeka bengabantu besizukulwane esisodwa, futhi kulula ukuqondana.

Ngasikhathi sinye, naphezu kwalokhu kwamukelwa ngokuvamile "umehluko" ofanele "ngeminyaka, kunezibalo ngokwaleyo mishado enamandla kakhulu yilezo ezivela kubalingani zineminyaka eyi-1-2 ubudala. Lapho umehluko eminyakeni yobudala yabalingani yiminyaka emi-5 nangaphezulu, inani lesehlukaniso liyanda.

Lapho umehluko omkhulu eminyakeni yobudala, kukhuphuka amaphesenti omusi ohlukanisile. Lapho indoda indala kunekhethwe iminyaka engama-20 noma ngaphezulu, isehlukaniso senzeka ngaphezu kwengxenye yamacala.

Izizathu iqiniso lokuthi umshado wabantu onomehluko omkhulu kangako akunakwenzeka, kuvame ukufana kakhulu. Ekuqaleni, ezinhlanganweni ezinjalo, owesifazane ulindele ngokuqinisekile endodeni (evame kakhulu ukusetshenziswa), futhi kungenzeka angabi nazi noma azenzeli njengezisekelo ezanele ukuze owesifazane akwazi ukubhekana nokungaboni ngaso linye nowakwakhe. Futhi kunzima kakhulu ukugwema ukungaqondi emishadweni enjalo, ngoba kukhona ikhefu ekubukeni komhlaba wesizukulwane, kanye nomehluko ekuthakazelweni kwezifiso nezidingo.

Futhi nokho, kunoma yimuphi umthetho kukhona okuhlukile, futhi noma kunjalo, injabulo ebudlelwaneni ayixhomekile eminyakeni yobudala, kodwa kulabo bantu abakha lobu budlelwano, kanye nezifiso zabo ukuba ndawonye. Uma kunjalo, noma ibuphi ubunzima bungaxazululwa.